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Threatend with court...can that happen

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  • danothy
    danothy Posts: 2,200 Forumite
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    Kmc wrote: »
    I shouldnt have to pay him back, he is seeing my sister.

    Are you suggesting that your sister pays your debts through girlfriend like services in kind? I know what that sounds like to me ...
    If you think of it as 'us' verses 'them', then it's probably your side that are the villains.
  • Apples2
    Apples2 Posts: 6,442 Forumite
    Kmc wrote: »
    I shouldnt have to pay him back, he is seeing my sister. He should just be the nice guy he is and not demand repayment. My friend said I would get a CCJ out of all this, is this true

    Yes, and two kittens will die... all because of you.
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    Kmc wrote: »
    why would thailand ban me?


    because of the impending ccj
  • Kmc
    Kmc Posts: 31 Forumite
    danothy wrote: »
    Are you suggesting that your sister pays your debts through girlfriend like services in kind? I know what that sounds like to me ...
    She is my sister isnt she meant to help me? not in that way but by explaining why he should stop
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    danothy wrote: »
    Are you suggesting that your sister pays your debts through girlfriend like services in kind? I know what that sounds like to me ...


    i think kmc means as the bf is seeing her sister the bf should wipe the debt
  • Kmc
    Kmc Posts: 31 Forumite
    DCFC79 wrote: »
    because of the impending ccj
    Why should it matter to them?
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    Kmc wrote: »
    She is my sister isnt she meant to help me? not in that way but by explaining why he should stop


    why should she if hes going to be out of pocket,

    you clearly cant see the situation you have put her in
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    edited 17 April 2011 at 10:33PM
    Kmc wrote: »
    Why should it matter to them?

    because they dont like people having a ccj or 1 impending,


    first thing is to sort out the business with the phone and pay what you owe
  • Kmc
    Kmc Posts: 31 Forumite
    DCFC79 wrote: »
    why should she if hes going to be out of pocket,

    you clearly cant see the situation you have put her in
    explain it to me then, She should side with her family whats wrong with that?
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    Kmc wrote: »
    explain it to me then, She should side with her family whats wrong with that?


    but in these circumstances she should side with her bf, why should she be piggy in the middle due to you not being reasonable, the bf hasn done no wrong except lend you his phone which i bet hes kicking himself
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