The Compers Inn - Part 31

sarah182xxx

hiya all aww julie (hugs to you) so sorry to read how awful your day has been. i really hope the doctors could offer you some support or guidance to help with your condition. lots of love to you xxx

Hope everyone else is okay? I am off college today as i had a long exam yesterday so enjoying some nice weather for a change ! Think the exam went well. All my accounts balanced which is positive just hoping everything else was okay ! myself and the OH are seeing an acoustic set from one of our fave bands - Bowling For Soup tommrow which should be great !! we have seen them 6 times as everytime they are amazing. hope u all have a great weekend xxxxxxxxx

ButtonF1Fan

hi Sarah,

I should be doing something like housework.... but just dont want to. Hugging my toddler as hes gone to sleep.
You'd think doctors would help when a phobia directtly effects medical treatment thats needed, but nope! got told "there are other patients waiting" despite being assured they wouldnt make it worse by rushing me, hence why they were *meant* to book me a double appointment. so just cried and paniced and couldnt have the blood tests done.
When i got home crying for ages still, chilled out slightly. Just after eating lunch another bit of my tooth fell off, its crumbling away.... happened when i was pregnant with D. BUT i cant have it fixed as it involves the needles.

the reason for the (failed) blood tests were the fact i've had near contstant headaches and dizzyness for months now... like i'm feeling bad more than i'm well. that and my legs! I've had visible viens in the back of my leg for forever, but in the last few weeks its cuasing me pain. doctors offer no help, and are not interested. its CONSTANT either stinging, itchy or plain old ouchy. i lose proper use of it often and am limping, it hurts so much i'm sofa bound at times as it hurts so much to move.

I'm not even 30, and they arent taking me seriously, there are other things/symptoms but i will shut up now. I dont know why docs arent taking such a big list seriously.

I'm affraid this holiday my son won wont ever happen as i doubt im fit to fly.

sarah182xxx

ahh Julie giant hug n love to you xx You should ask to be transfered to a different, more sympathetic docotor. no one should have to suffer with pain and discomfort espcecialy with such a mean doctor. They should have allocated to more time to discuss all the issues without rushing you. bless you wish i could give you a proper hug. i reccomend changing docotrs though as i had one very unsympathetic docotr who constantely brushed me off, so i got a new docotr who diagnosed me with a curvature in my spine after an mri which was explaining the severe back pain i was getting ! sometimes a different docotr can offer a totally fresh outlook on something. PM me if you want a chat or something hun xxx

ButtonF1Fan

Arg, pathetic me. Crying again.... anyways!
I've had EVERY doctor in our surgeries (its a twinned doctors surgery) so about 12 in the last 3 years. :O
I'm wonderinf if im marked up as insane or something..... please ignore/upset this patient.
Sadly its ruining my life, not honestly. Late for work as i have to stop cycling, just cant go on, also becuase i oversleep as im often awake until 3am ish after exhaustion kicks in, as before then the pain and twitching keeps me awake.

I no longer have a "love life" as i just hurt all the time i just cant face it... so my partner is getting very stressy with me.... lost patience by now.

toniq

Julie:grouphug:xxx


Maybe try and find a sympathetic ear, your mum, sister, friend? They might be able to talk you through the bad moments.

Really hope u get through this xxxxxx

sarah182xxx

i hope by the time you read this Julie you are feeing a little better x Toniq is right i hope you have a good friend or family member to help you through this or just to vent to. if there are any different doctors surgerys near by, other than your twinned one might be worth looking into moving practices and hopefully getting the right support for your condition. Big hugs and hope things improove with time xxxxxxx

mollythewestie

Julie - I didn't want to read and run. I Really hope you find someone to talk to, It sounds like you you need someone to listen to you properly. Take care hun, we are always here if you need to talk or vent about anything

ButtonF1Fan

Hiya, i've read the replies.... thank you all.
I just needed to rant. I still hurt but I'm not crying.

Sadly i dont really have family, its complicated and the in laws wouldn't care if i was dead but as i'm just unwell and upset they arent an option!! :O

Friends, well thats you guys i'm affraid.

sarah182xxx wrote: »

i hope by the time you read this Julie you are feeing a little better x Toniq is right i hope you have a good friend or family member to help you through this or just to vent to. if there are any different doctors surgerys near by, other than your twinned one might be worth looking into moving practices and hopefully getting the right support for your condition. Big hugs and hope things improove with time xxxxxxx

Microwave_Dinner

toniq wrote: »

If I say the magic words Keaskin, Keaskin, Keaskin! She will magically appear!!!

Pics of Topsy, these are from Friday, he still looks the same xx Have changed his lampshade for a softer one xxxx

Oh poor thing! Hope he's better soon!

wingobins

Aw Julie, hope you get some answers from somewhere soon. It can't go on if you're in pain. I really hate going the docs nowadays cos you always feel like you're been rushed and the favourite expression is 'viral infection'. We're all here in the Inn if you need a friend hun. Badedas is quite good for pain, just pour in bath water. Try and get some rest. xx

Hey rat girl, good to hear your wedding is soon :j Didn't seem long ago you were telling us you'd set a date What about a music/sports voucher for your nephew? The pound shop has great audio stuff too such as ds equipment, headphones, photo mouse mat etc.

I got a reply from DHL about my missing parcel again that I have paid for...it's now been returned back to warehouse

Hope it's a lucky gorgeous hot saturday for everyone xx