I've found a Video posted online of an ex...

neneromanova

Ok, looooong ago when I was with DD's bio (who has never seen her by the way) I went on holiday to America. Now we had only been going out for about 1 1/2 months (I should really have paid more attention to the signs then) when we talked over webcam (my camera didn't work so I could only see him). Now things started getting heated and he started to...you know.

Now, I'm guessing he saved the video or something because I certainly didn't post it there. I've found it online when typing his name in but he hasn't posted it on there. This 20 year old has. She has loooooads of videos of different men doing the same. Kind of like a collection for her.

Now the B14tch in me wants to tell everyone about it after what he did/said to me during/after our "relationship". The other side of me wants to tell him because I horribly a nice person like that and If there was ever anything like that of me online (we've all done things we regret) then I hope someone would tell me.

What would you do?

hvd201

As he is the father of your child I would not tell anyone. It would be awful if in the future someone at her school found out and she got bullied or highly embarrassed because of it.

Iris_Blue

I'd tell him..it's your DDs father. I'd want to protect her embarrassed not his!

neneromanova

Yeah my DD did crop up there in my head aswell but she doesn't have any link to him, in name or anything.

Iris_Blue

No but she has a link of being his daughter. That's a good enough reason. Even if you don't like it.

galvanizersbaby

neneromanova wrote: »

Ok, looooong ago when I was with DD's bio (who has never seen her by the way) I went on holiday to America. Now we had only been going out for about 1 1/2 months (I should really have paid more attention to the signs then) when we talked over webcam (my camera didn't work so I could only see him). Now things started getting heated and he started to...you know.

Now, I'm guessing he saved the video or something because I certainly didn't post it there. I've found it online when typing his name in but he hasn't posted it on there. This 20 year old has. She has loooooads of videos of different men doing the same. Kind of like a collection for her.

Now the B14tch in me wants to tell everyone about it after what he did/said to me during/after our "relationship". The other side of me wants to tell him because I horribly a nice person like that and If there was ever anything like that of me online (we've all done things we regret) then I hope someone would tell me.

What would you do?

How do you know he hasn't posted it online and do you know how the 20 year old came by it? - how did you get this info?

What would you achieve by telling others about it? - would they be interested in it or just think you were a bit odd for pointing it out?

digitalphase

I'd just ignore it. It's his fault for making silly videos

neneromanova

galvanizersbaby wrote: »

How do you know he hasn't posted it online and do you know how the 20 year old came by it? - how did you get this info?

What would you achieve by telling others about it? - would they be interested in it or just think you were a bit odd for pointing it out?

When I typed his name into google a pr0n site came up. so curious I clicked it and there was a half naked girl as the picture. Also she has uploaded 63 other videos of men doing their "thang". It's basically a pr0n version of youtube. I mean he could have put them all up himself, always did stike me as too homophobic IYKWIM

galvanizersbaby

neneromanova wrote: »

When I typed his name into google a pr0n site came up. so curious I clicked it and there was a half naked girl as the picture. Also she has uploaded 63 other videos of men doing their "thang". It's basically a pr0n version of youtube. I mean he could have put them all up himself, always did stike me as too homophobic IYKWIM

I'd just ignore it - he may well already be aware of it

poet123

Why did you google him after so long? just curious.

delain

poet123 wrote: »

Why did you google him after so long? just curious.

Most of us have done it

Obviously googled our own ex's :rotfl:

Nene can you post comments on the site? You can link it to us and we can all reply with 'Ughh his **** is all wonky/very small/looks diseased' :eek::eek: