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So angry with my mum - used my name for BT at an old address >>

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  • *Kat*
    *Kat* Posts: 1,829 Forumite
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    That's not gonna happen realistically, is it? I'm never going to call the police on my own mum. :(
  • Percy1983
    Percy1983 Posts: 5,244 Forumite
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    And you are probably not going to get credit/a mortgage etc.

    Your choice, but she has broken the law and in not reporting it you are taking the punishment...
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  • skylight
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    *Kat* wrote: »
    That's not gonna happen realistically, is it? I'm never going to call the police on my own mum. :(


    Then there is nothing you can do about this bill except pay it.

    However, if she has been doing stuff like this since you were 13 then realistically it's never going to stop, is it?

    I don't envy you one bit - it must be a horrible situation to be in.
  • chattychappy
    chattychappy Posts: 7,302 Forumite
    No need to call police or get into a fraud discussion.

    Simply tell BT that you have not entered into a contract with them. The bill has nothing to do with you. The onus of proof that the debt is yours is on them. You can tell them it's your mother's if you like - but don't go any further than that. Make it clear that you've received no benefit from this contract.

    After that, it's up to them. They could chase your mother, write it off, cut the phone line, or just do nothing for a while.

    BT is the "victim" of this fraud. It will be for them to decide what to do next. If THEY involve the police and the police contact you - then tell them what's happened or refuse to help is you prefer. But that does seem unlikely...
  • *Kat*
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    She's called them and is going to pay £20 a month. Will it be negative until it's paid off? It's only £200 and she said she'd pay it off as quickly as she could *sigh* I'm so worried to look at my credit file in case there's other stuff I dont know about
  • ILW
    ILW Posts: 18,333 Forumite
    Did she tell you why she did it?
  • *Kat* wrote: »
    She's called them and is going to pay £20 a month. Will it be negative until it's paid off? It's only £200 and she said she'd pay it off as quickly as she could *sigh* I'm so worried to look at my credit file in case there's other stuff I dont know about

    You really should, I know it's an awful situation to be in, but it's better to know than one day get a knock at the door to find out that she's been doing this lots to fund her lifestyle and you have loads of CCJ's logged in your name.

    I'd hate doing this too, but she could be ruining your life, I hope it's not that bad, but when in 5 years you get a notice that 'your' creditors that you knew nothing about are filling for bankruptcy. not only will it be a nightmare for you, but your mum will be seriously in big trouble
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  • KingElvis
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    I would report her lying butt pronto
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  • chattychappy
    chattychappy Posts: 7,302 Forumite
    *Kat* wrote: »
    She's called them and is going to pay £20 a month. Will it be negative until it's paid off? It's only £200 and she said she'd pay it off as quickly as she could *sigh* I'm so worried to look at my credit file in case there's other stuff I dont know about

    Simple (but a hassle!) Get your credit report. Having told BT (and any others) that the agreements aren't yours, you can then get them removed from your report.
  • *Kat*
    *Kat* Posts: 1,829 Forumite
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    Really? Will I have to tell them that it's my mum, if I DONT tell them can I get into trouble cause I know who it is? I was wondering why I could get an overdraft (I only have ever had my orange contract, which is up to date, but got turned down with my own bank for a £100 OD. :(
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