Update on ESA medical from this morning

melbi_uk

healy wrote: »

No I answered someones question.

It seems your intention to wind me up but you are failing.

Most of what you have written has nothing to do with the OP - you just seem to want an argument. I have helped many people over the years and as I said you were the one who picked on my post so you are ruining another thread - not helpful to anyone.

and are you not contributing to ruining 'another thread' by continually biting back?

It takes a strong person to bite their tongue and not retaliate.

If you feel FTW is targetting you then surely by ignoring their attempts will show them for what you say they are doing?

I've said this before about you two, neither of you will back down and will continue to and fro at each until you get yet another thread closed.

That imo is showing disrespect to the person who started the thread and to those who genuinely want to help people.

Yes, I am very well aware of my outburst the other evening, but you two just go on and on at each other.

Such a shame because I think you both have a lot to offer this forum, if only you would stop using other people's threads to bicker amongst yourselves.

healy

melbi_uk wrote: »

Would it not be best to ignore all her post that you feel she is targeting at you?

Rising to the bait is just what she wants you to do.

I did ignore a post and then when I made a comment to another person they pounced on that. If they are quoting my posts to other people and making a comment that is targeting me. I have made a point of not commenting on their posts on other threads anymore and it would be good if they could do the same.

healy

melbi_uk wrote: »

and are you not contributing to ruining 'another thread' by continually biting back?

It takes a strong person to bite their tongue and not retaliate.

If you feel FTW is targetting you then surely by ignoring their attempts will show them for what you say they are doing?

I've said this before about you two, neither of you will back down and will continue to and fro at each until you get yet another thread closed.

That imo is showing disrespect to the person who started the thread and to those who genuinely want to help people.

Yes, I am very well aware of my outburst the other evening, but you two just go on and on at each other.

Such a shame because I think you both have a lot to offer this forum, if only you would stop using other people's threads to bicker amongst yourselves.

I am merely defending myself but as I have said a number of times I do not want a debate with FTW but they keep ignoring this.

melbi_uk

healy wrote: »

I did ignore a post and then when I made a comment to another person they pounced on that. If they are quoting my posts to other people and making a comment that is targeting me. I have made a point of not commenting on their posts on other threads anymore and it would be good if they could do the same.

I think if you stop replying to her attacks she will soon get bored and leave you alone.

healy

melbi_uk wrote: »

I think if you stop replying to her attacks she will soon get bored and leave you alone.

I take your point but it seems they are following me about now. Are they a she? - I thought they were a man - I may be wrong.

melbi_uk

healy wrote: »

I am merely defending myself but as I have said a number of times I do not want a debate with FTW but they keep ignoring this.

Is there not any options in here that allow you to block seeing a person posts?

It just seems such a shame that you have so much to offer this forum and yet spend more time trying to defend yourself.

Ignore her! You will soon see how much satisfaction you will get as they continue to attack you and you don't reply. Plus, others will also start to notice just what she is up to.

I'm always getting attacked on here but I don't give them the satisfaction of replying to them. (Well always is a slight exaggeration lol) but give it try, completely and totally ignore her for a couple of weeks and see how it goes.

melbi_uk

healy wrote: »

I take your point but it seems they are following me about now. Are they a she? - I thought they were a man - I may be wrong.

Well I just assumed it was a she because I think women are more likely to do such things than a man. I could be wrong though :eek:

Also I forgot to add to my previous post....

.....if you keep replying back (even in self defence) you too get the same bad reputation as the person goading you as being guilty for ruining threads.

healy

melbi_uk wrote: »

Is there not any options in here that allow you to block seeing a person posts?

It just seems such a shame that you have so much to offer this forum and yet spend more time trying to defend yourself.

Ignore her! You will soon see how much satisfaction you will get as they continue to attack you and you don't reply. Plus, others will also start to notice just what she is up to.

I'm always getting attacked on here but I don't give them the satisfaction of replying to them. (Well always is a slight exaggeration lol) but give it try, completely and totally ignore her for a couple of weeks and see how it goes.

Yes there is an ignore function which I have only used once or twice - I have tried to do it for FTW but it does not seem to work for them when it has for others!

melbi_uk

healy wrote: »

Yes there is an ignore function which I have only used once or twice - I have tried to do it for FTW but it does not seem to work for them when it has for others!

I'd say then that your best option would be to ignore any post aimed at you by her.

Ignoring her attacks will !!!! her off and make her look a laughing stock to other users. Don't be dragged into her games.

Good luck x

viktory

luminated wrote: »

cit_k

Why on earth did you feel the need to have dissected the OP in so much detail. Its as if you are an investigative journalist working for Panorama or such.

?????????????

Simple. It is his raison d'être