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ellay864

Oh poor you....no wonder you're worried, it's so hard to feel helpless and no matter how old, independent or strong they are, they're our babies (just coming to terms with my 18yr old being away and not needing me!!). Like many others have said on here, firstly there is a very good chance it will all be fine - there are many things can they can find that are ultimately harmless. And even when what they find isn't so good, these days there is so much that can be done it needn't be a bleak picture at all. Be assured that they're taking action to sort it out quickly which is good, and also the fact they haven't admitted her straight away is another positive thing. And I know it's so hard not knowing, but even with any knowledge of this biopsy, you wouldn't actually be able to change anything. Just be the amazing mum you are, support your daughter as she needs you to. Will you go with her on her next visit? I can understand why she chose to go alone but often it is good to take somebody along as it's easy to be overwhelmed and forget things said at the time. If you do go, take a notebook, feel free to write down what you're told and ask any questions, either there and then or if you think of anything else afterwards.
I really hope she gets her appointment soon and everything is OK x

nottslass_2

whichwhydoIturn wrote: »

Hello, i apoligise for rambling before I start. I have 1 DD who from my sig you will see has been my rock.I worship her. She is bubbly, confident, she 's like a butterfly fitting around everywhere and very colour of the rainbow.she is slim, no children, has a wonderful partner.
In Oct last year she went to the docs as she didnt feel too well.
She has a smear and they discovered that she had 2 cysts and a lump on her uterus.She had laser treatment and had to go back Thursday of last week, where they have now referred her for a biopsy. I can't tell you how strong she is. She has told me that the doctor told her to be strong and that she will get through this. She i think was in a state of shock.She cant remember what the doctor said , what type of biopsy she will need and anything much about anything. she went in on her own, as that is so typical of her. I have told her that the stiff upper lip isnt always the best approach,I have said that I want to come with her.The doctor called the hospital to make an appt for her, as yet, as havent heard when, As her mum, i am and have been in pieces I want to hold her so tightly and take time back to when she was small and it was my hands on job to protect her and keep her safe.i called the NHS dieect and they said that with out the name of a biopsy,they would be incorrect to say what it may be for as there are so many types.I am so angry at everything that I cant do this for her.She has told me to be strong for her, that she needs me to be.I know that I am no different to any other parent, you children are always your babies.So, can anyone give any advice or share any success stories. i have prayed, cried and feel desparate.
Thank You x

I realise that any mention of biopseys and lumps people automatically think cancer,but please be reassured that in the majority of cases there is absolutely nothing to worry about - easy for me to say I know.

Are you able to tell me anything about time scales so far ?


When exactly did they Discover the cysts and lump ?

What was the diagnosis re the lump ?

when did they do the laser treatment - what was the outcome ?

Who has referred her for the biopsy - was it the GP or is she under a hospital consultant ?

Am I right that the original diagnosis and treatment was In oct ?

McKneff

nottslass wrote: »

I realise that any mention of biopseys and lumps people automatically think cancer,but please be reassured that in the majority of cases there is absolutely nothing to worry about - easy for me to say I know.

Are you able to tell me anything about time scales so far ?


When exactly did they Discover the cysts and lump ?

What was the diagnosis re the lump ?

when did they do the laser treatment - what was the outcome ?

Who has referred her for the biopsy - was it the GP or is she under a hospital consultant ?

Am I right that the original diagnosis and treatment was In oct ?

Why on earth do you need to know such detailed information.

hulagirl79

I think nottslass was saying these are questions to ask the consultant.

nottslass_2

McKneff wrote: »

Why on earth do you need to know such detailed information.

Because I have a working knowledge of hospital referral protocols.

I obviously wanted to be sure that I'd got my facts right before jumping in and possibly adding to the OP's distress.


If I've understood the OP correctly I'll hopefully be able to offer some reassurance that they are probably not expecting to find anything sinister as there are strict time scales in place re certain types of referral.

LabLover

Although not a lump, when I was about 19 I suffered a really heavy bleed and ended up needing to go to hospital for tests.They found that my left ovary was alot bigger than my right ovary and was full of cysts. They assumed that the bleeding was a burst cyst. Although my ovary is/was swollen they were classed as "normal" and they just assumed I wouldnt ovulate because of it. I went through all of that on my own I couldnt deal with anyone being upset for me. Then about a year ago I started bleeding during intercourse and was straight back at the hospital (i have always had regular smears ) but I was very worried and thought the worst, it turned out to be cells from my womb down in my cervix and they are alot more sensitive than the cells that should usually be there. Once again I dealt with it on my own. Im so lucky on both occasions it didnt turn out to be cancer but each time I was terrified it was. It was easier for me to do it all alone, I dont know how I wouldve coped with my mum there and Im really close to my mum.Without meaning to be harsh , most of the tests are pretty degrading and you have alot to take in , if she wants you there she will ask. I dont mean that to sound blunt , but be there for her when she needs you or when she opens up to you. I hope your daughter gets the all clear .Good luck xxx

jazzyman01

I had major problems with ovaries etc and was told I could not have children. Not really a problem as I did not want them. Anyhow, a few years later had more issues, tired, swollen tum, heavy periods etc really felt bad. Had to have an op to remove two very large chocolate cysts from each ovary. Within 2 years I had a baby (shock but oh so worth it) and all my pains etc had gone!