THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 2

fireflycatcher

craftihants wrote: »

Hi everyone just touching base
sunny outside at the moment but been pouring all night so a bit restless
hope you dont over do it kit pacing yourself is a good idea sweetie remember you have got this week to get through and a busy weekend ahead of you so make sure you take some 'me' time and rest to recharge batteries
good to hear mr 3dogs has had a good morning with car boot
hope mam has a good day when you go to see her 3dogs and i wish you a lovely sunny day too
Aesop let me know what area you are in and i will try to find out from contacts here if anyone knows of a halal butcher near you or in your area
hello FFC

Hiya - lovely to meet you.:cool:

savingwannabe

I am starting to panic a bit as fell asleep. look at the time. yikes. i will munch some food and make myself work. Enjoy Wembley Aesop. Glad you are settling in FFC.

savingwannabe

Am nearly finished marking essay section of economics papers. Dont think i will do the others am starting to get v down. Taken an AD tablet. I shouldn't have stopped. Silly me.

savingwannabe

Schoolfriend is going a bit crackers that i can't come to a meet. They are all doctors I can't afford to travel so far and stay in a hotel and i get so tired. I dont know if i want to see them anymore. Fed up. It feels as though everyone is upset that i am spending time with my MSE friends and not with them? Do i ever pressurise them when they do things and i am not invited?

What am i not seeing that they all are?:(

3Dogs

savingwannabe wrote: »

Schoolfriend is going a bit crackers that i can't come to a meet. They are all doctors I can't afford to travel so far and stay in a hotel and i get so tired. I dont know if i want to see them anymore. Fed up. It feels as though everyone is upset that i am spending time with my MSE friends and not with them? Do i ever pressurise them when they do things and i am not invited?

What am i not seeing that they all are?:(

I guess that they are used to you needing them and always being there, so, now you have new interests and new friends and are finding your independence, they see you changing and are worried /troubled by it. It is sometimes hard when others have depended on you, to see them depending on others instead. They can't see that it is not that you have found new people to depend on, it is that you are finally finding your own life and making your own choices. It may take them some time to come to terms with this change in you - the new independent and assertive you - if they are true friends then they will give you that time, and the same applies to you - if you value their friendship then you would need to give them time to come to terms with the new you

Hope you get something sorted with a butcher Aesop - meat is so expensive these days anyway. I read some time ago, that all New Zealand lamb is halal, as their biggest market demand it so all of the animals are killed this way - and this applies in other countries and to other meats too - the article told not to be surprised that the meat from supermarkets is actually halal killed

3Dogs

I am a little annoyed with my brother today :mad: I texted him this yesterday:
Do you want to go shopping tomorrow. C (neice) is away all day with jazz band so I am going to see Mam at lunch and dinner time if you want to go down with me at lunchtime then go shopping? Or go Tuesday?
He replied:
Thanks. Will see u tomorrow

Sooooo, I get up early this morning, well early for me , and went up to see him at 11.30 am to take a few things up for him and then take him with me to see Mam and then go get his shopping. He wasn't ready and just carried on with what he was doing, feeding the birds in the garden. I put the bits away I'd taken and chatted to him - he then said he didn't need any shopping as the fridge and freezer were full - why didn't he say that yesterday :mad: - and said it was too late for him to get changed to come with me to see Mam :mad: I said, not to worry, I would do both visits and had to leave now as it was by then 12.30 pm and Mam's dinner is served around that time. I dashed down and signed in at the home at 12.45 pm to find Mam asleep over her rice pudding. It took a while to wake her up but she then started tucking into her rice. She later said that she had dropped off asleep, so she knew that she had done that

Any way, she was fine after that, but definitely weaker, and she chatted a little - she managed all her cup of tea again today

I am just off now to see her again, to check she gets her dinner, so I will see you all later :cool: :cool:

savingwannabe

Sorry susan you have had a looong day. Hope next meeting with your mam is better.

[STRIKE]I only have 9 more papers to do and i am done[/STRIKE]. Finished, yay, only have other subject one's left. Will do those tomorrow. Am taking a break for rest of the day. I will tidy probably. It usually cheers me up. :D:D

3Dogs

I'm back from seeing Mam and she was OK tonight - drank her soup and then ate her madiera cake with rolo dessert (there was no ice cream left in the freezer down there for her to have) She was chatty again tonight

Well done with marking the exam papers Kit :T :T :T :T hope you got your housework done ok

savingwannabe

Glad your mam was ok. Steve rang and sent his love.

Aesop

SW, what 3Dogs said about your friends, I concur.

Please don't let it upset you. It is not worth getting upset over.

People always feel left out when a friend talks about spending time with other friends, and probably jealous too.

me, I can't be bothered with all that. Have no time for it at the moment. If my friends are going out with their other friends having a fab time, good. :beer:

When we are mutually free, we will meet and have our own good time.

(((((SW))))) xxx