Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! 2

pinkpig08

I'm so sorry Ali xx

RedwoodBrook

Scan is at 8:50am. I think im gona stay away from the thread tonight. I'll post tomorrow and let you know what the state of play is.

Thank you for all your support. I havn't told OH and I can't face telling him if something has gone wrong. After everything he has been through it might actually finish him.

Thanks again

pebblespop

fingers crossed for you redbrook.

RedwoodBrook

I knew I should have stayed away. I just saw the thread about a woman who's grandson has just been stillborn. Im just floods of tears again. Why is life so fu cking cruel.

pigpen

RedwoodBrook wrote: »

I knew I should have stayed away. I just saw the thread about a woman who's grandson has just been stillborn. Im just floods of tears again. Why is life so fu cking cruel.

I don't know.. it is unfair, cruel and unjust.. And there isn't a thing we can do to stop it which makes it even harder to bear. These things always happen to the lovely kind generous people who deserve nothing but happiness, never the horrid people.

But she seems to think their was negligence at play so hopefully they can get some answers from that.

Hope you are bearing up.. other than this set back. :(:(:(

RedwoodBrook

pigpen wrote: »

I don't know.. it is unfair, cruel and unjust.. And there isn't a thing we can do to stop it which makes it even harder to bear. These things always happen to the lovely kind generous people who deserve nothing but happiness, never the horrid people.

But she seems to think their was negligence at play so hopefully they can get some answers from that.

Hope you are bearing up.. other than this set back. :(:(:(

I suppose, being able to 'blame' someone always helps I think. It doesn't change the fact you have lost your baby though.

Perhaps its because I am still bitter, but I find all the people saying "I'm so sorry for your loss" on the post so annoying. They are empty words. We all know they won't give that poor family a second thought after they leave the thread and when it disappears from the first page, it won't even get mentioned again.
Maybe its because I had so many of my friends, many of whom don't have children, do exactly the same and I hated that more than people not acknowledging what had happened. The one who is running the marathon in Felix's memory pestered me and pestered me until I responded to her because she cared. I suppose that helped me know which people to hang on to.

On a slightly less depressing note, the bleeding seemed to have stopped. My SIL in coming to the scan with me tomorrow as OH can't make it. She is a nurse and is TTC herself and im just happy Im not going alone.

forumgrazer

I'm glad that things seem to have settled for you RedwoodBrook and hope that you have no more scares and that your scan tomorrow goes well.

Thinking of all of you and hoping to see you all soon on the other threads

love FG xx

IamJen

Sending positive vibes to you, RWB. Try to focus on the good possibilities of the bleeding having stopped. I know your mind has reasons to go to bad places, but there's a good possibility that it could be absolutely nothing. Take it easy tonight and cuddle up with the man. If the worst has happened, there's likely nothing you can do. If she's still in there though, you have a relaxing, stress-free (as much as possible) night can make a difference!

Flower needs to come in with some happy news for our slightly down-hearted thread!

pigpen

I'm glad you're not going alone as well.. it is crap going on your own. Hopefully it was just an immplantation bleed and LO is thriving.

My friend lost her little girl within 24 hours of the birth, we always talk about her so she is never forgotten and always add her to chrismas cards and get her birthday card.. my friend puts them on her daughter grave. She is part of her life so shouldn't be forgotten.. but in a lot of cases they are empty words. The first time I saw my friend after her little girl died I bumped into her while out shopping and she showed me the pics so I blubbered on her in the street.. as you do..

She had the baby's footprint tattoo'd on her foot.. so her little girl could walk in her footsteps forever.

Skint_Catt

pigpen wrote: »

She had the baby's footprint tattoo'd on her foot.. so her little girl could walk in her footsteps forever.

Aww, that's had me welling up

C xx