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Need help on illness support

Hi,
I applied for what was known as incapacity benefit last year. I went for the medical and the doctor told me there and then that I was eligible to claim.

I then received a letter from jobcentreplus saying that although I was eligble they wouldn't be paying me anything due to my national insurance contributions for the year 2008/2009 not being enough.

I have spoken to every tom, !!!!!! and harry regarding this and I've just hit brick wall after brick wall.

Is there anything I can do? I get no money at all and I'm expected to live off my Husband which I don't think is fair.
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  • merlin68
    merlin68 Posts: 2,405 Forumite
    Why not? What happenned to the wedding vows. In sickness and health for richer and poorer. Your husband should support you not the state.
  • Jowo_2
    Jowo_2 Posts: 8,308 Forumite
    The means tested benefits system for income dependent benefits is premised on couples providing each other with mutual support and assistance (that's actually explicit in the regulations, not something I am assuming). The contribution dependent benefits are based on reciprocity, a social contract, which means that the recipient has to have contributed in order to qualify for something in return. These are the two fundamental principles behind the two different types of benefits.

    Do you experience any care or mobility problems? If so, look into whether you are eligible for DLA which isn't means tested.
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    edited 24 January 2011 at 1:07PM
    Does your husband object to feeding and housing you.

    What's not fair about it.?

    He works, you stay at home and work (housework, cooking)
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • nannytone_2
    nannytone_2 Posts: 13,005 Forumite
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    how is it fairer for the taxpayer to keep you rather than the person who gets the benefit of having you live with him?
  • tomitma
    tomitma Posts: 390 Forumite
    So you are saying that every married woman, should have there own money, as it is not fair on the husband to have to provide for them, so the tax payer, should provide the spending money.

    STRANGE!!!!!
  • Hi,
    I applied for what was known as incapacity benefit last year. I went for the medical and the doctor told me there and then that I was eligible to claim.

    I then received a letter from jobcentreplus saying that although I was eligble they wouldn't be paying me anything due to my national insurance contributions for the year 2008/2009 not being enough.

    I have spoken to every tom, !!!!!! and harry regarding this and I've just hit brick wall after brick wall.

    Is there anything I can do? I get no money at all and I'm expected to live off my Husband which I don't think is fair.

    I don't think its fair the tax payer has to support you.

    Isn't there some marriage vow about sickness and health? :rotfl:
    Be happy, it's the greatest wealth :)
  • Indie_Kid
    Indie_Kid Posts: 23,099 Forumite
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    Hi,
    I applied for what was known as incapacity benefit last year. I went for the medical and the doctor told me there and then that I was eligible to claim.

    What the doctor meant was that providing you met the savings, income or the contributions, you could claim.
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  • black_paw
    black_paw Posts: 1,791 Forumite
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    welcome to the real world
    the truth is out there ... on these pages !!
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  • CazGreg
    CazGreg Posts: 214 Forumite
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    I think you've had rather harsh responses so far.
    I can only suggest visiting your local CAB office, although I expect you've already done that.
    Just to clarify, I think that it isn't really your national insurance contributions which are the pertinent point - because even someone who has never made any contributions in their entire life can claim things like incapacity benefit - but the fact that as you're married, you do count as a unit for this sort of thing.
    I'm sure there is plenty you can do to 'repay' your husband!
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  • Morglin
    Morglin Posts: 15,922 Forumite
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    Any means tested benefit (and as you haven't made enough contributions, any ESA/JSA would be means tested), takes into account the household income, which would include your husband's earnings.

    Lin :)
    You can tell a lot about a woman by her hands..........for instance, if they are placed around your throat, she's probably slightly upset. ;)
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