top table dilemma

laurarobby · 22 January 2011 at 7:19PM

Curious_George wrote: »

we are having a buffet too (partly because it bypasses all the top table stress... especially with my family) and there will be dressed tables for people to sit where they wish,

would you think it was weird if you saw a bride and groom with a little table of thier own? so when we do sit to eat it will just be us? and we wouldnt be favouring anyone in particular? plus we might just get a few minutes to ourselves to take it all in?

no people call it a sweetheart table i believe. just for the bride and groom!!! im tempted to have this but we have 2children who we want with us and as one will me 9months old and the other 3 1/2 it could get a bit messy near my lovely dress lol! x

princesse · 23 January 2011 at 4:49PM

we had all round tables and a totally different selection of people on our 'top' table. Have what you want for god sake - someone will be upset so you may as well make sure it's not you - it is YOUR day remember.

Sagaris · 23 January 2011 at 4:53PM

We had a top table with just the two of us - it was lovely and solved all the problems - anyone that started making unhelpful comments was ignored - it's your day so have what YOU want!