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Ebay ethics - help

So, I sold a travelodge room that went for £40 through ebay. It was brought on the day when the room was for and the buyer wrote to me to tell me he made a mistake in bidding as he got the dates muddled. I ended up not selling the item and didn't have time to relist. I submitted a non-payment claim as I didn't want to get charged for the final sellers fee. He has paid me but I don't have anything to send him, the date has past and now I feel guilty. What should I do?
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  • Stop feeling guilty, you haven't done anything wrong, but you have done everything right, that is what is called business.
  • mobile48
    mobile48 Posts: 745 Forumite
    If you cancel the transaction they will get the money back and you will get your fees back. Up to you if you do it.
  • terra_ferma
    terra_ferma Posts: 5,484 Forumite
    could they not file a claim for INR, and get a full refund because you can't prove that you send them the item?
  • themull1
    themull1 Posts: 4,299 Forumite
    Were u selling a room through the travel lodge company?
  • poocan
    poocan Posts: 20 Forumite
    I brought it and couldn't make it, so I sold it on. It was a travel lodge room that I had brought, but no not through the company (not sure if I understood the question)
  • suited-aces
    suited-aces Posts: 1,938 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Might be different terms over here, but when I booked a room last week, they were pretty adamant that resale wouldn't be allowed, though you could cancel up to 12pm on day of booking. Was a £39 room too.
    I'm not bad at golf, I just get better value for money when I take more shots!
  • chancesare_2
    chancesare_2 Posts: 1,788 Forumite
    poocan wrote: »
    So, I sold a travelodge room that went for £40 through ebay. It was brought on the day when the room was for and the buyer wrote to me to tell me he made a mistake in bidding as he got the dates muddled. I ended up not selling the item and didn't have time to relist.

    Did you sell it or not?
    poocan wrote: »

    I submitted a non-payment claim as I didn't want to get charged for the final sellers fee. He has paid me but I don't have anything to send him, the date has past and now I feel guilty. What should I do?

    He paid? You refunded? It is a confusing post.
  • chancesare_2
    chancesare_2 Posts: 1,788 Forumite
    could they not file a claim for INR, and get a full refund because you can't prove that you send them the item?

    Seller/buyer protection does not apply to intangible goods, ie tickets, holidays etc, I would class this (in the basic of terms) as a holiday. But certainly intangible.
  • poocan
    poocan Posts: 20 Forumite
    chancesare wrote: »
    Did you sell it or not?



    He paid? You refunded? It is a confusing post.


    Let's retry. The room was sold for £40. The buyer never paid as he got confused by the dates. There was no time to relist it so the room went to waste. A month after, having submitted a no payment claim, he finally paid. As the event has past, I have nothing to send. I feel bad since he made a mistake in the first place and ended up £40 out of pocket for it.

    Thanks for your advice everyone.
  • justjohn
    justjohn Posts: 2,260 Forumite
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    his fault not yours.....if you feel guilty give the cash to charity....or refund a stupid buyer that way you encourage him to be a plank again.
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