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  • livinginhope
    livinginhope Posts: 1,897 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Ah Zed,so sorry to hear that and for Minnie too,hope you feel like the old Zed soon :grouphug:

    LIH
    Debt at highest £102k :eek:
    Lightbulb moment march 2006
    Debt free october2017 :j
    Finally sleeping easy in my bed :A
  • halloweenqueen_2
    halloweenqueen_2 Posts: 3,312 Forumite
    Sorry to hear that - good luck for the future.
    HQ
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Toto wrote:
    In fairness there is never a nice way to end a relationship and as no one knows the full facts it's wrong to judge. They are both lovely people and it's our job to be there to cheer them both up, not to get involved in personal problems or start taking sides.

    Well from my personal point-of-view the important thing is not that I've been dumped - or the manner in which it was done (which seems to have taken on unwarranted importance), but the fact that the relationship is over.

    She is a wonderful lady - I don't want anyone to be in any doubt of that.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • kathfisch
    kathfisch Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    I'm really sorry to hear that the relationship is over, for both of you! Not much more to say really, ((hugs))

    Kath x
    Don't stress, relax, let life roll off your backs. Except for death and paying taxes, everything in life is only for now... Avenue Q
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 003 :DProud to have become debt free... and striving to keep it that way
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    I'm so sorry to hear that Z, sorry for both of you.
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    irishwench69 wrote:
    :eek: :(

    REALLY?! Crikey, so sorry hun :(

    What happened? Is it fixable or is it defintely over for good?

    IW x

    I don't know if it is fixable. We had a good discussion on Wednesday (the 31st) and I thought that had fixed the problems we were having in terms of communication - it removed my misinterpretation of her postion and her misinterpretation of my position. Or so I thought.

    This is like that never happened.

    Never mind. Churning the situation inside my head isn't helping. Looking at Satan's Great Book Of Comfort Shopping (the Argos catalogue) isn't helping. Lying in my pit and moping isn't helping.

    Not much is TBH. I guess, take my own advice and give it time. Thank you all for your support, and for trying to clear my head.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    The final payment for my student loan came out today (I think!). Coupled with my credit cards being clear, I am free from unsecured debt. When/if the house sale goes through, then I will be clear of all debt.

    I shall post on the debt-free thread when that happens.

    Yeh! :D
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • oakdale_minx
    oakdale_minx Posts: 1,174 Forumite
    oh, no.........will you go away and leave us all when you join the DF Role of Honour???

    (although - well done on the nearly DF status!!!)
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Great news ZTD - hope that doesn't mean you will be leaving us....????
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Well I can't claim to have been very active of late - real life falling to pieces. Hopefully more things will settle when I move and the house sells.

    Besides, I wouldn't be a DFW then... ;)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
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