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seller offering to refund but wants to collect item
sarahevie
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I recently bought a huge lot of ex market stall gear for my two for christmas it was largely toys but with a few clothes thrown in.
Anyway it was completely not as described I had a feeling it might not be because the seller wanted me to pay cash and collect it from a nearby supermarket car park. I didn't feel comfortable with this so paid paypal and paid £25 for the courier.
It arrived Sat and is completely not as described. Non of the items photographed are included.
The seller has agreed to a refund but wants to collect the lot personally. I'd like advice on how to guarantee I get a refund. I don't want them to collect the item and then I have no proof and also no items.
It's 15KG the parcel so is going to cost a lot to return but that's better than being £180 down.
Anyway it was completely not as described I had a feeling it might not be because the seller wanted me to pay cash and collect it from a nearby supermarket car park. I didn't feel comfortable with this so paid paypal and paid £25 for the courier.
It arrived Sat and is completely not as described. Non of the items photographed are included.
The seller has agreed to a refund but wants to collect the lot personally. I'd like advice on how to guarantee I get a refund. I don't want them to collect the item and then I have no proof and also no items.
It's 15KG the parcel so is going to cost a lot to return but that's better than being £180 down.
OPs so far £42,139
Original end date Nov 2037 (53) Current end date June 2024 (40) Aiming for 5 years to be Mf
DD1 Oct 2008:), DD2 Jul 2010:), DD3 Aug 2013:)
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Original end date Nov 2037 (53) Current end date June 2024 (40) Aiming for 5 years to be Mf
DD1 Oct 2008:), DD2 Jul 2010:), DD3 Aug 2013:)
When life is getting me down I try to remember to thank God for the blessings
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Could they pay you back in cash when they collect the items?0
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I'd either agree to cash refund when they collect them, or open a dispute with paypal for item not as described, then send them back tracked at your own expense, and request a refund for return postage. If they don't play ball, then leave a neg. Sometimes you'll find that ebay themselves will refund the return postage in the form of credit.Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')
No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)0 -
I've escalated to a claim via paypal. I don't mind losing return postage better than being £180 down. Just been reading the thread about the faulty trampoline. They didn't get their return postage back.OPs so far £42,139
Original end date Nov 2037 (53) Current end date June 2024 (40) Aiming for 5 years to be Mf
DD1 Oct 2008:), DD2 Jul 2010:), DD3 Aug 2013:)
When life is getting me down I try to remember to thank God for the blessings0 -
Try Interparcel.com, i use them all the time for my deliveries they are around the £8.50 mark for tracked delivery anywhere in the UK via UPS, TNT or Home delivery network up to 40kg in weight.0
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Surely if he wants to collect then he gives you the refund in cash at the same time..Why go to the trouble of having to pay to return it if he wants to collect it. Just make sure you get the money in your hand before you hand the goods over.0
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adviceforall wrote: »Surely if he wants to collect then he gives you the refund in cash at the same time..Why go to the trouble of having to pay to return it if he wants to collect it. Just make sure you get the money in your hand before you hand the goods over.
I don't believe the seller has suggested a cash refund though.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0 -
exactly soolin - not mentioned cash refund - just I'll collect / send my courier.
I'd found TnT £8.74 plus vat (parcel monkey) but will try interparcel as well thank youOPs so far £42,139
Original end date Nov 2037 (53) Current end date June 2024 (40) Aiming for 5 years to be Mf
DD1 Oct 2008:), DD2 Jul 2010:), DD3 Aug 2013:)
When life is getting me down I try to remember to thank God for the blessings0 -
£6.99 with interparcel collecting tomorrow. So not bad (came via the same service) so bit of an over exaggeration £25 postage I originally paid.OPs so far £42,139
Original end date Nov 2037 (53) Current end date June 2024 (40) Aiming for 5 years to be Mf
DD1 Oct 2008:), DD2 Jul 2010:), DD3 Aug 2013:)
When life is getting me down I try to remember to thank God for the blessings0 -
£6.99 with interparcel collecting tomorrow. So not bad (came via the same service) so bit of an over exaggeration £25 postage I originally paid.
Fortunately when you get a refund via paypal it includes postage TO you, so you'll only be out of pocket for the return postage. I'd be marking them down for postage costs if nothing else...0 -
exactly soolin - not mentioned cash refund - just I'll collect / send my courier.
But you also did not state that he would NOT be paying in cash at the time of collection you just stated he wanted to collect them personally so I assumed that if he was collecting personally then a cash refund at the time seemed obvious.
Sorry for trying to help0
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