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I don't know what I want for Christmas!

I spend loads of time researching and coming up with ideas for great presents for others but I am always totally stuck when it comes to ideas for what I want. This usually ends up in me not getting anything and being very disappointed on Christmas Day.

DH was looking into a Pandora bracelet but I have decided against this - had a cheaper version and not happy and I don't think I'd wear it.

I don't need make up / toiletries; I have jewellery I don't wear; don't need anything for the house; losing weight so rediscovering my old clothes; don't really drink.

I wouldn't want DH to spend over £50. He would probably shop online.

Grateful for any ideas.
:j July '08 wins: £20 Foster Grant sunglasses...Lazy Town DVD...NScessity ActivSkins Kids Sun/swim set...Paddington Bear DVD

Nov '09 wins: John Smith's Darts Shirt
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  • Tigsteroonie
    Tigsteroonie Posts: 24,954 Forumite
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    Hardback book & chocolates? I'm normally happy so long as I have something to read and something to eat :)
    :heartpuls Mrs Marleyboy :heartpuls

    MSE: many of the benefits of a helpful family, without disadvantages like having to compete for the tv remote

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  • DFWJane
    DFWJane Posts: 219 Forumite
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    Chocs no good as losing weight, i don't have time to read!

    Got a 4 year old and 2 year old so looking after them all day, work in the evenings so no time for pamper treats either.
    :j July '08 wins: £20 Foster Grant sunglasses...Lazy Town DVD...NScessity ActivSkins Kids Sun/swim set...Paddington Bear DVD

    Nov '09 wins: John Smith's Darts Shirt
  • What about a new handbag? Or a nice purse? A watch?
  • DFWJane
    DFWJane Posts: 219 Forumite
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    I don't think I'm ever allowed a new handbag as a few birthdays ago, after being presentless yet again, I marched him down to the local Radley stockist where I got a very expensive bag and purse.

    I also have some lovely Fossil watches already and can't justify a new one.

    Gosh - I'm a lucky girl already!!
    :j July '08 wins: £20 Foster Grant sunglasses...Lazy Town DVD...NScessity ActivSkins Kids Sun/swim set...Paddington Bear DVD

    Nov '09 wins: John Smith's Darts Shirt
  • DaisyMoo
    DaisyMoo Posts: 290 Forumite
    I thought this was pretty cool,

    http://www.firebox.com/firebox/search?searchstring=intelligent

    I think I will be asking santa for one of these myself!
  • lucylucky
    lucylucky Posts: 4,908 Forumite
    Don't get anything.

    Presents at Xmas are not obligatory.
  • La-Cara
    La-Cara Posts: 915 Forumite
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    edited 10 December 2010 at 10:11PM
    perfume? Or a voucher for a spa treatment/manicure/haircut? This could be done at the weekend while hubby watches the kids.

    Nice scarf or gloves? or some other kind of accessory that is a classic style and you can get a lot of wear out of no matter how much more weight you lose!

    You can pick up a digital camera or iPod shuffle for under £50.
  • scuzz
    scuzz Posts: 1,995 Forumite
    What about an ethical gift? He could sponsor a dolphin/tiger or other animal for you. Or pay for a goat in an African village. Sponsor a child.

    That way you get a present, but as you don't "want/need" anything, then someone else will benefit
    Comping, Clicking & Saving for Change
  • How about a meal in a really nice restaurant?
    This is what I've asked my OH for which he's delighted about as he gets fed & doesnt have to enter a shop. It also means that we dont have more stuff in the house & its a nice experience.
    A lot of Michelin star restaurants do lunchtime menus which are cheaper than evening, but is still lovely food & it feels like a special treat.

    Or you could ask for a surprise trip where he takes you on a day trip somewhere & everything is all booked & planned by him & everything is a nice surprise for you.
  • A meal sounds like a good idea, a bit of time just for you and your hubby. Get a babysitter for the night and make a night of it.
    :j little fire cracker born 5th November 2012 :j
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