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constructive dismissal earned me a JSA sanction now im jobless and pennyless

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  • I was only trying to help but genuine apologies if raising old thread is not allowed. I was rightly or wrongly just trying to stear mitch to realise how valuable helpful non attacking posts can be when desperate or needing advice, like he orginally got. I will not be pm mitch as dont need argument, it is just sad he rants on other threads to extent might push people away thinking all judge that way.

    I personally do not like the way he keeps lecturing those on dla and find it insulting to those that are finding it hard to hold onto it even though genuinely in need of it, you see desperation there definatley, what if he rants on one of those I dread to think.

    (((huggs))) for pointing out what is frowned on I didnt know :) We learn as we go along :)
  • Transformer
    Transformer Posts: 314 Forumite
    It is sad that a poster can be belittled and lectured for being disabled. Hope you are okay.
  • kazzah60
    kazzah60 Posts: 752 Forumite
    It is sad that a poster can be belittled and lectured for being disabled. Hope you are okay.

    Transformer - please don't judge Computersaysnoagain
    the original OP of this topic has been posting on two other threads simulatneously giving VERY ill informed and potentially harmful advice to people claiming disability related benefits- which he quite clearly states in this thread he has not been claiming.

    The OP has made some extremely inflammatory comments about those on disability and other benefits and quite rightly in my opinion has had their hypocrisy made clear for all to see with the resurrection of this thread

    well done computersaysnoagain for having the courage of your convictions
  • Transformer
    Transformer Posts: 314 Forumite
    Okay fair enough.
  • mitch161
    mitch161 Posts: 271 Forumite
    kezzah read your own post you just noted on here..

    and tell me how you have:
    1) answered the question of the thread topic
    2) been friendly in a response
    3) NOT come to an opinion without knowing all the facts

    your post has just caused the mountain to get bigger taken a small comment out of proportion to then use in a flamorory way.

    your post was not needed here, and purely proves that trolls dont know when to quit..

    DO NOT REPLY this thread is dead. any anymore replies are posted mentioning my name without at all haveing a solution that answers the threads topic, dont reply.

    dont provoke people and then hide behind a smile thinking your the nice person.

    yes my advice was a tough love tactic. but you lot turned it into a 3 day argument.

    if you dont like a bit of advice.. ignore it.

    dont provoke it

    end of
  • kazzah60
    kazzah60 Posts: 752 Forumite
    mitch161 wrote: »
    kezzah read your own post you just noted on here..

    and tell me how you have:
    1) answered the question of the thread topic
    2) been friendly in a response
    3) NOT come to an opinion without knowing all the facts

    your post has just caused the mountain to get bigger taken a small comment out of proportion to then use in a flamorory way.

    your post was not needed here, and purely proves that trolls dont know when to quit..

    DO NOT REPLY this thread is dead. any anymore replies are posted mentioning my name without at all haveing a solution that answers the threads topic, dont reply.

    dont provoke people and then hide behind a smile thinking your the nice person.

    yes my advice was a tough love tactic. but you lot turned it into a 3 day argument.

    if you dont like a bit of advice.. ignore it.

    dont provoke it

    end of


    well very funny response from you Mitch ;)
    when I posted on the other threads asking you where all these jobs were that you were advocating people should get and explained our family situation you chose to ignore it - even when I asked the question again- because it did not fit in with your infernal rantings about sky and fillet steak you still ignored it

    so I guess it's one rule for you and one rule for everyone else then

    I don't think I have provoked anyone - I have simply replied to a new poster explaining why they shouldn't "have a go" at computersaysnoagain.

    I am not nor ever have been accused of being a Troll
  • Transformer
    Transformer Posts: 314 Forumite
    Confusing as I thought this poster was getting lectured for being disabled. But seems to be giving advise of tough love to other disabled now. Then re read and poster says not disabled. Oh I give up.

    I remember the saying not to tell granny how to suck eggs you might offend her.

    Hope you get the job you want soon any way.
  • Transformer
    Transformer Posts: 314 Forumite
    kazzah60 wrote: »
    well very funny response from you Mitch ;)
    when I posted on the other threads asking you where all these jobs were that you were advocating people should get and explained our family situation you chose to ignore it - even when I asked the question again- because it did not fit in with your infernal rantings about sky and fillet steak you still ignored it

    so I guess it's one rule for you and one rule for everyone else then

    I don't think I have provoked anyone - I have simply replied to a new poster explaining why they shouldn't "have a go" at computersaysnoagain.

    I am not nor ever have been accused of being a Troll

    You dont appear a troll to me.
  • Transformer
    Transformer Posts: 314 Forumite
    Did you win your constructive dismissal or it it still ongoing?
  • Marisco
    Marisco Posts: 42,036 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    mitch161 wrote: »
    yes my advice was a tough love tactic.

    It was nothing of the sort!!! It was patronising and offensive! You were asked not to comment on the thread again, and you took no notice, so why should anyone heed your plea not to comment on this one?
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