going it alone and tackling the debt.

fizzypops

thanks for the replies i feel alot more positive this week.

recieved statments from both credit cards today so i can update my sig. spent to much money this week on rubbish because i felt sorry for myself!!! im going to try not to slip up again. :mad:

begining of the month again so got alot of bills coming out and i have 3 birthdays this month :eek:
well nothing else to report so better go and update my sig.........

Radish72

fizzypops wrote: »

and i have 3 birthdays this month :eek:

The queen only has 2 birthdays a year :rotfl:

mummytogirls

Hi Fizzy, how are you? Sorry long time no type been snowed under with job applications! Anyway, I should be back now haha!!!

Have you heard back from the job yet? x

Footiemad_2

Hello Fizzypops just wondering how its all going for you and your boys?

Keep plugging away, your doing well. It will be hard sometimes but just do what you can, when you can.

Hope to see how your soon.

Take care :A x

fizzypops

hi everyone thanks for your replies,
today has been the best i have felt for a while hence the no posting!!!

basically ex and his new girlfriend split up so who did he decide he wanted to be with.... ME!!!!
told him no way he had his chance and blew it so now he is back living with his mum about 2 mins from my house :mad: and is playing mind games. one min he is all nice in his texts, then flirty, then nasty. i have told him to leave me the hell alone and i havent heard from him since yesterday morning so thats good as the texting was constant all day and night :eek:
got to see him tomorrow when he picks the boys up but i can handle that i just cant handle the mixed signals, mind games etc.

anyway paid £30 to asda cc today and £10 to hsbc so paid the minimum this month so need to start overpaying as i cant see myself being debt free this year unless i really knuckle down.

i didnt hear back about the job so i take it i didnt get it

beanielou

Bah to the mind games.

fizzypops

beanielou wrote: »

Bah to the mind games.

i know!!!!

well popped to the shop to get some hair dye tonight as fancied colouring my hair so spent £10.26 on hair dye, shampoo, conditioner and biscuits for the boys from the bakery!!

i did feel guilty for spending the money on general rubbish but i wanted to treat the boys as i have been a miserable mummy lately and fancied treating myself too!!! :cool:

Footiemad_2

fizzypops wrote: »

i know!!!!

well popped to the shop to get some hair dye tonight as fancied colouring my hair so spent £10.26 on hair dye, shampoo, conditioner and biscuits for the boys from the bakery!!

i did feel guilty for spending the money on general rubbish but i wanted to treat the boys as i have been a miserable mummy lately and fancied treating myself too!!! :cool:

Hi there fizzypops. Glad to see you back. Boo hiss to the ex .. and well done for telling him where to go. You are doing great.

Its good to treat yourself sometimes, you need to feel good about yourself and it all helps to boost the confidence. What colour have you gone for???

Well done on the payments, dont worry I am sure you will gather momentum soon on the extra payments, just look at how far you have come.:T:T:T

Take care :A look forward to reading more on your progress soon. xx

pennywisepoundstupid

HI fizzy, just want to say your doing really well hun and well done for telling ex where to get off.

mummytogirls

Morning Fizzy, id been wondering where you'd got to!!

Well done on telling the ex to do one! Blooming mind games, who does he think he is?!

Hope you hair looks nice, im sure it does x x