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Early-retirement wannabe

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  • SarahB16
    SarahB16 Posts: 425 Forumite
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    SarahB16 said:
    The biggest adjustment is likely to be in demographics. The area I am moving to is 99% white British, which is very different to London. That will feel a little strange for a while.

    I have followed your move with interest and contributed where I think I can be of help.  I genuinely think you will be very happy in your new location.  

    I know you haven't said the exact location where you are moving to (and I am definitely not asking as it's better that you can continue to be open on here with your financial circumstances).  

    I do know the approximate area where you are moving to and it is a big step moving to a completely new location.  I enjoy living in a diverse, liberal minded and (dare I say) middle class area which is not a million miles away from where you are moving to.  

    When you said the area you are moving to is 99% white British I do hope the area you move to is neither racist nor homophobic.   

    I think people say, you tend to 'find your tribe' in life and I'm sure with your dogs you will meet fellow dog walkers and have a lovely new community that you feel part of and some will become close friends of yours.  Even if you don't drink regularly I'm sure you will go to nearby pubs to get to know more people and will even know which pubs your prefer the clientele of.  

    You are not that far away from some of the very affluent areas where the Premiership footballers live but neither that far away from some very traditional working class areas too.  I'm not going to write out the full name of the place but one area just to be careful of is a place with:  .a...e..iel. in its name.  You will see a range of 'characters' there...     

    I think I'd prefer the 'characters', rather than the 'Premiership footballers' brigade. Each to their own.
    I think I'd prefer somewhere inbetween, i.e. neither of the two extremes but each to their own.  

    My observation was made when hugheskevi said the area he is moving to is 99% white British and I expressed my reservations hoping that it wouldn't be a racist nor a homophobic area (hence my comment about 'characters' who can sometimes be racist and homophobic).     
  • Yorkie1
    Yorkie1 Posts: 12,019 Forumite
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    Wow, what an update! 

    Congratulations on the move and starting to acclimatise to the change in environment. 

    How long did it take you to identify the noises squirrels make? I was cursing the Merlin bird app for months as it was dismally failing to identify these weird noises ... until I saw a squirrel and googled for the noise one made lol.
  • westv
    westv Posts: 6,452 Forumite
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    SarahB16 said:
    SarahB16 said:
    The biggest adjustment is likely to be in demographics. The area I am moving to is 99% white British, which is very different to London. That will feel a little strange for a while.

    I have followed your move with interest and contributed where I think I can be of help.  I genuinely think you will be very happy in your new location.  

    I know you haven't said the exact location where you are moving to (and I am definitely not asking as it's better that you can continue to be open on here with your financial circumstances).  

    I do know the approximate area where you are moving to and it is a big step moving to a completely new location.  I enjoy living in a diverse, liberal minded and (dare I say) middle class area which is not a million miles away from where you are moving to.  

    When you said the area you are moving to is 99% white British I do hope the area you move to is neither racist nor homophobic.   

    I think people say, you tend to 'find your tribe' in life and I'm sure with your dogs you will meet fellow dog walkers and have a lovely new community that you feel part of and some will become close friends of yours.  Even if you don't drink regularly I'm sure you will go to nearby pubs to get to know more people and will even know which pubs your prefer the clientele of.  

    You are not that far away from some of the very affluent areas where the Premiership footballers live but neither that far away from some very traditional working class areas too.  I'm not going to write out the full name of the place but one area just to be careful of is a place with:  .a...e..iel. in its name.  You will see a range of 'characters' there...     

    I think I'd prefer the 'characters', rather than the 'Premiership footballers' brigade. Each to their own.
    I think I'd prefer somewhere inbetween, i.e. neither of the two extremes but each to their own.  

    My observation was made when hugheskevi said the area he is moving to is 99% white British and I expressed my reservations hoping that it wouldn't be a racist nor a homophobic area (hence my comment about 'characters' who can sometimes be racist and homophobic).     
    I would imagine "99% white British" would cover large areas if the country outside of the major cities but maybe I'm wrong on that.
  • crv1963
    crv1963 Posts: 1,495 Forumite
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    Well done Hugheskevi! I have enjoyed dipping in and out of this thread over the years. I am pleased that plans have come to bear fruit. Enjoy your new home, new life and I hope it is a long, happy and health one, along with the same wishes for everyone else. 
    CRV1963- Light bulb moment Sept 15- Planning the great escape- aka retirement!
  • saucer
    saucer Posts: 500 Forumite
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    edited 5 April at 10:53AM
    Thank you Hugheskevi for a wonderfully candid and insightful update. Lots of food for thought there. It must be a great feeling to have done a lot of harder travelling when you were younger, and be able to savour the memories. We did a lot of backpacking in Asia when we were young. Now as we approach retirement (older than you and stopping work next year) the plan is to combine motorhoming in warmer months in Europe, and longer trips to further afield especially in our winter months. We have also been able to travel quite a lot with our children over our working lives, but short (expensive) holidays.  South America is a big target for a much longer trip. We don’t make any assumptions about how long we’ll live or how our health will be but we’ve done our best to keep the odds in our favour and feel very fortunate to be in the position we are. 
  • Dizee123
    Dizee123 Posts: 97 Forumite
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    Thank you for the update Hugheskevi.  I am so glad your early retirement plans have come to fruition as you have both worked very hard towards that goal.  On top of all your own planning you have been very generous with your support and guidance to others on this forum and helped me, in particular, navigate the ramifications of the McCloud judgement that impacted my own early retirement (albeit a lot later than yours at 58!)....

    I wish you and your other half a very long, happy and well traveled retirement.
    You are an inspiration to us all :smile:  
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