Abba1772's Debt Free Diary

abba1772

beanielou wrote: »

No need to be:o
It is what it is

Just felt bad as he came along to spend time with Abbie and it backfired on him horribly but we made sure he had a great time now they need to see if they can still be friends as he's quite angry about the situation xx

jennywren21

Hi ABBA
I used to post on your diary under a different username so I hope you don’t mind me posting.

I’m sorry to hear about Abbie and the problems that she’s having.

I can highly recommend CBT through private treatment, it’s been amazing for my dd. The NHS waiting list to see CAMHS was horrendous so we went private in the end.

I do hope she starts to feel better soon and as a parent who has watched their child struggle with MH issues I really do sympathise as it’s so hard to watch but a lot of patience, listening and understanding goes a long way which I know you will be doing already.

I hope Abbie has a lovely birthday and enjoys her driving lessons I daren’t add up how much we spent on DS lessons before he passed!

Good luck xxx

monz

Happy birthday Abbie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

abba1772

jennywren21 wrote: »

Hi ABBA
I used to post on your diary under a different username so I hope you don’t mind me posting.

I’m sorry to hear about Abbie and the problems that she’s having.

I can highly recommend CBT through private treatment, it’s been amazing for my dd. The NHS waiting list to see CAMHS was horrendous so we went private in the end.

I do hope she starts to feel better soon and as a parent who has watched their child struggle with MH issues I really do sympathise as it’s so hard to watch but a lot of patience, listening and understanding goes a long way which I know you will be doing already.

I hope Abbie has a lovely birthday and enjoys her driving lessons I daren’t add up how much we spent on DS lessons before he passed!

Good luck xxx

Hi Jenny :hello:

She has a counselling session through a charity today this is her third session but I'm going to get her to ask if they do cbt if not I've been in touch with a counsellor that does who charges £40 a session but it'll be worth it I feel I get my daughter back to the way she used to be xx

abba1772

Evening :hello:

Back to normality worked from 9am til 6pm knackered now :rotfl:

managed to round down the account argos account coming down nicely

spent £5.36 on diluting juice, sweeties for the kiddies as a wee treat and yogurts

day 2 of coming off the fizzy juice headaches are starting to shift......hoping it will start to shift some weight

abbie had her counselling session and they've confirmed its cbt so i'm going to leave her where she is as shes starting to get comfortable with them. Plus she had her first driving lesson today bye bye £240 :eek::eek: but she enjoyed it and now shes at work so waiting on her texting to pick her up xx

she also got her college certificate from college telling her shes passed her course and thats her ema been approved as well so proud of her xx

beanielou

Well done Abbie xx

abba1772

Morning :hello:

Up early doing my daily round down sent £19.84 towards the Argos card so this should be clear by Monday/Tuesday unless I get impatiently :rotfl: and clear it by the weekend will see how pennies go as need to do a massive food shop tomorrow so need to print off my coupons for farmfoods later today

Today's plans isn't set up playgroup for the first time during the summer holidays :eek: they are usually a hit or a miss during the holidays so we shall see I start work 9am til 3pm so not a bad shift

The sun is shining so I've got a wash on just now hoping it stays sunny as I've still got a suitcase to unpack which is just dirty washing so I'm hoping it stays dry so I can get that unpacked then all the suitcases can go up the loft :cool: this weekend

Have got my order slips all ready for avon books will organise them after I've updated on here as I think me and the kids are going to deliver some this afternoon to save us going out tonight with them means we get to chill

Migh need to take a walk up to the doctors later to pick up hubby's prescription

Weigh in tomorrow absolutely dreading it but it is what it is and I'll deal with it after xx

Hope you all have a fab weekend xx

Homegrown0

Glad you've got a plan of action for Abbie - mental health is such a precious thing. I hope she gets the help she needs, and it's a good sign that she's comfortable with her current counsellor.

Post-holiday weigh in is always a hard one to take! I'm not weighing so don't have the number to face, but i did put on a pair of trousers for the first time in 2.5 weeks and they were much tighter. Must get back on the exercise train...

jwil

Good luck with the weigh in!

abba1772

Weigh in was a disaster gained 6lbs since I go at weighed 3 weeks ago but it's all fresh start today as it was my wedding anniversary yesterday and hubby treated me to frankie and bennys :j

Did the mammoth food shop on Saturday spent £220 but we will only need top ups of milk and bread should last us four weeks

Sent £6.62 towards the Argos card it's coming down slowly but this week it'll be tight I have money in the savings for a new shed but don't want to touch it I feel I don't have to so we shall see how it goes

Signed another kiddiewinkie up for childminding he starts at the end of August unfortunately I've seen one of my parents advertising for a new childminder, knew he was moving as he starts nursery on the other side of town next year but I find it rude she didn't ask if I could help her find a childminder........we do talk to one another but as he's off on holiday I'll wait and see, if he does move I'll just advertise the space as it's that time of year where college gives out the timetables xx

It's miserable here......where the heat wave I have tons of washing to get out :rotfl: my gran is taking me out window shopping :rotfl: hoping to blag a free lunch :rotfl:

Not working today managed to get a cheeky day off :T still got playgroup to set up tho :rotfl: so will go out with my gran after I've finished but need to go to the click and collect store with Abbie as her skateboard has arrived, hoping it'll get her out the house more xx

Right need to go get some painkillers as I'm on day 8 of having a headache it's justvstress I reckon just wish it would do one xx