Abba1772's Debt Free Diary

abba1772

evening peeps :wave:

Got my hair cut today which was only £17 it looks lovely

lsd today as only bought my paper and small bottle of juice

Tonight i'm going out to see my ex (not ex husband) as i found some of his stuff so i texted him to say i'd return it so meeting up with him tonight.....plus i hope its the closure i need as although that relationship was brutal i still care for him....which is stupid so hopefully we can have a talk as I ended it by text (he wouldn't pick up the phone!!!!) so meeting him at 7.30 pm tonight

my horoscope says today is the day I end what-ifs lol how spooky is that lol

so thats my excitement for today oh and i've done a pile of ironing lol

choogirl

Hi Abba

Ohhh lovely - a haircut, it always gives me a boost getting my hair cut. £17 is a good price to pay, glad you're pleased with it

That horoscope is spooky, hope it all goes ok tonight xxx

debtfreewannabe321

Hey Abba, I also had a haircut today- did it myself so free this end :rotfl:and probably doesn't look as good as yours!

Hope tonight goes well, and is indeed the closure you want will catch up soon got lots going on at mo this end

DFW xxx

abba1772

well I didn't get closure...........argh even tho i was married to ex husband for 10 years, I never experienced the intensity that I had with my Ex boyfriend.

we met up tho he tried to cancel on me but told him i would chuck his stuff if he did lol so he met up with me and we talked and talked for hours, he says he loves me still and the fact that he hasn't been with anyone else for 6 months is a bloody miracle as when he's single he pulls anything even his mum texts me to say he misses me and that he's not acting himself and he talks about me a lot.

I still have a lot of feelings for him, i do love him I just don't think we're right for each other right now, his ex and mother of his child causes a lot of problems for him and she hates me lol I can't be arsed with the drama right now I have enough of my own to deal with.

lsd day today topped up gas and electricity £5 each and some proplus as i didn't get in til 5am lol

debtfreewannabe321

hey Abba, Oh no on the ex I know what you mean about wanting the closure and never getting it. Before DH & I had DD & DS2 we were split up for about 4 years. He was so childish, cheated on me after I had DS1 and was a complete tw*t.

As soon as I broke it off for real he suddenly changed and didn't have a relationship that ever lasted more than a few months, moped about after me...then i remember him getting a girlfriend that was a little more serious and me suddenly realising that after 4 years I was jealous!!! SO.. I then invited him to see DS1...me getting drunk, deciding to have 'that conversation' to get the closure I needed...and ended up getting back with him...don't think I really had the hang of saying no to him lol....

maybe if you both still love each other, in time it may all come together, right time, right place and all that??

xxx

abba1772

hey everyone :wave:

sorry i haven't been on in a while just been feeling low, got my feet kicked out from under me........AR$%H@le lol onwards and upwards ladies lol

NOW I'M FEELING BETTER LOL

anyway haven't been blowing the budget lol not feeling that low lmao x

Monday did the weekly shop with a list and got everything on it for under £24 :eek:

Tuesday I stayed in as busted my knee at the weekend whilst drunk :rotfl: (saved my phone just now myself lmao) but spent under a fiver lol

and today i walked into town and spent £15 bought sawdust for guinea pigs, hairspray, kitchen roll, milk, also bought Abbie a necklace from new look for £2 plus i got myself a cute padlock ring for £2 as well but thats included in my £15 spend lol also bought tuna as the kids wanted wraps for there dinner tonight lol so not too bad lol

abba1772

oh and i've chucked another £100 towards the credit card so nearly at my target lol will chuck another tenner at it next week to bring it under £1200 x

abba1772

well today is a busy day and I shouldn't even be on here lol I have ebay parcels to post, guinea pigs to clear, organise my avon and do an ironing all before 2pm as i have work tonight and tomorrow lol

Paid another £20 towards the Cap One Card so thats it for this month just waiting on other CC DD to come out and i'm done for May lol

got a tenner in my purse which will last me til Saturday as i'm taking kids to see Pirates of the Carribbean woo hoo so thats our treat for that day then we have a massive avon delivery to do as well on sat night so busy busy busy lol

hope everyone is well x

choogirl

Hi Abba

Sorry to hear that you've been fed up, hope you're feeling better x

Busy day for you as ever. So jealous though I lurve Johnny Depp mmmm

We're going to take the kids to see it next week and I can't wait. Might even sneak a cheeky pizza in as well.

Have a good day xxx

debtfreewannabe321

Ahh i'm so jealous! I want to see it too, and have the two little ones (boooooooooo) It used to be great when was just ds & I we always went to the cinema (cheapy kids shows & cheap evenings only though ha) haven't dared to go with a one yr old & two yr old in tow yet

xx