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  • abba1772
    abba1772 Posts: 7,746 Forumite
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    morning :hello:

    quiet morning here so far just me and kk who's playing on his tablet

    braved abbie's room and have done two wash loads so far think there's only one more there and her basket is emptied :j not that i do her washing usually but all my washing is up to date and it would be a shame to let this nice weather go to waste.......she'll have a mountain to iron this week :rotfl:

    speaking of washing i have my own mountain to sort out and iron :eek: will do that whilst kk is at nursery

    quiet day today as one of my college mindees are finished up :( last day is officially today (college still paying for today) and my midday mindee is sick today, again still getting paid :T so we are chilling out as i need to wait in for a parcel.........think its my Florida park tickets :T heres hoping

    have emailed the committee members the first draft of the minutes i took at the last meeting, I've also drafted a letter and sent a email regarding GDPR :mad: so that's my secretary duties done for the day :T

    saw M&S were having their 20% off their school uniform so bought kk :eek: and xander their school trousers 8 pairs for £52 reduced to £41.60 :T might need to return a set as xander seems to have put on some weight recently and they seem to be a bit tight round his waist :( don't know if i should just keep them and up his activity as his food consumption isn't a issue as he normally pads out and takes a stretch but he hasn't done that this time.

    ordered Xander 4 t-shirts from sports direct for £24.50, all Nike Adidas so got a bargain really struggling to find him nice clothes as hes only 11 yet hes tall for his age so hes in 13-14 at the moment which tbh are boring and the gents stuff is either boring or inappropriate so they are getting delivered next week :j still got a few bits to get him might do that this weekend once hubby gets his wages on friday x

    haven't checked my bank account for a couple of days :o don't know why will do this just now and see if i can transfer some money over to the holiday spending pot xx
    NEXT TARGET: Halifax credit card DEC 22 £0 / £4499.12
    POAMAYC 2011 £6378.35 POAMAYC 2012 £5000.78
    POAMAYC 2013 £3480.04 POAMAYC 2014 £4085.14
    POAMAYC 2015 £7565.24 POAMAYC 2016 £8000.90 POAMAYC 2017 £7278.80 POAMAYC 2018 £13208.18POAMAYC 2019 £13309.28 POAMAYC 2020 £15026.05
  • abba1772
    abba1772 Posts: 7,746 Forumite
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    Genuinely had enough now.........one step forwards forty million back

    Tyre company phoned hubby to say a outstanding balance of £2800 Is still outstanding which the business partner said he would sort :mad: well they are wanting payment now

    :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

    I'm seriously peed off right now think there is steam coming out of my ears I'm that angry kids are out the back playing cause I don't want them to see I'm agitated

    Where the f am I going to find this money ?????? It'll end up going on a credit card now won't it :mad::mad:

    Not in the mood for anything and I certainly not in the mood for hubby's mood when he gets home, think I'm going to lock myself in my room whilst I sort out my avon delivery xx
    NEXT TARGET: Halifax credit card DEC 22 £0 / £4499.12
    POAMAYC 2011 £6378.35 POAMAYC 2012 £5000.78
    POAMAYC 2013 £3480.04 POAMAYC 2014 £4085.14
    POAMAYC 2015 £7565.24 POAMAYC 2016 £8000.90 POAMAYC 2017 £7278.80 POAMAYC 2018 £13208.18POAMAYC 2019 £13309.28 POAMAYC 2020 £15026.05
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,804 Ambassador
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    Sorry to read that.
    Will your DH speak to the ex partner.
    Had your DH officially been taken off/out of the partnership?
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  • WannabeFree
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    Hope you got something sorted Abba :(

    x
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  • doingitanyway
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    Aww that totally sucks Abba1772 :(
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  • abba1772
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Sorry to read that.
    Will your DH speak to the ex partner.
    Had your DH officially been taken off/out of the partnership?

    Because it was the balance prior to him leaving he is liable and they said they will go after both of them for the full amount as hubby offered to pay half but they said they could still go after him for the other half if his business partner doesn't pay up

    He's going up see him on Saturday xx
    NEXT TARGET: Halifax credit card DEC 22 £0 / £4499.12
    POAMAYC 2011 £6378.35 POAMAYC 2012 £5000.78
    POAMAYC 2013 £3480.04 POAMAYC 2014 £4085.14
    POAMAYC 2015 £7565.24 POAMAYC 2016 £8000.90 POAMAYC 2017 £7278.80 POAMAYC 2018 £13208.18POAMAYC 2019 £13309.28 POAMAYC 2020 £15026.05
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Thats not on! Do you have written agreement the partner is paying this!!!
    Debt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
    Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.80
  • abba1772
    abba1772 Posts: 7,746 Forumite
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    monz wrote: »
    Thats not on! Do you have written agreement the partner is paying this!!!

    We've got it in writing from the tyre company that they have contacted the business partner and his reply was he will see if he can pay them something's next week but can't guarantee it :mad::mad::mad:

    Well the good news is the debt is £2200.............£600 less than originally thought..........got to see the positive somewhere :(

    After a much heated discussion and me flipping my lid at him saying I'm sick of cleaning up his messes we are going to split it down the middle and put £1100 on each of our credit card I've got a 0% deal on one of them and I think he has the same

    Hubby is gutted as he wanted to take his card over to Florida but that's not looking likely now :(

    But I've told him he needs to help me pay this off as it's not fair it's left to me all the time, so any money he make sure from homers he'll be giving me the majority of the money as I want to debt free but that's going to be at least two years in the making now :(
    NEXT TARGET: Halifax credit card DEC 22 £0 / £4499.12
    POAMAYC 2011 £6378.35 POAMAYC 2012 £5000.78
    POAMAYC 2013 £3480.04 POAMAYC 2014 £4085.14
    POAMAYC 2015 £7565.24 POAMAYC 2016 £8000.90 POAMAYC 2017 £7278.80 POAMAYC 2018 £13208.18POAMAYC 2019 £13309.28 POAMAYC 2020 £15026.05
  • jwil
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    That sucks abba, hope he gets some back from the partner as well!
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  • abba1772
    abba1772 Posts: 7,746 Forumite
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    jwil wrote: »
    That sucks abba, hope he gets some back from the partner as well!

    I'll be telling his so called business partner he better pay half of it I don't care if it's paid in instalments but I want it it writing that he's going to pay it
    NEXT TARGET: Halifax credit card DEC 22 £0 / £4499.12
    POAMAYC 2011 £6378.35 POAMAYC 2012 £5000.78
    POAMAYC 2013 £3480.04 POAMAYC 2014 £4085.14
    POAMAYC 2015 £7565.24 POAMAYC 2016 £8000.90 POAMAYC 2017 £7278.80 POAMAYC 2018 £13208.18POAMAYC 2019 £13309.28 POAMAYC 2020 £15026.05
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