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Ebay - Opening a Dispute query

Hi,

I'm wondering what the best way to open a dispute is. Do I go through the resolution centre on ebay or through paypal?

I bought an item from a private seller which was described as unworn and bnwt. When I received item it smelt very strongly of perfume and had a small mark on it, like something had been spilt on it. Listing stated no returns, but I asked the seller if I could return it, as I felt it wasn't as described. They agreed I could return it for a full refund. I returned it 11 days ago and have contacted the seller to request the refund be actioned, but have heard nothing.

Should I contact them again and say I'll open a dispute if the refund isn't issued, or open a dispute now? Hope someone can help as this is the first time I've had to do this and I'm abit unsure. Tnx
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  • wealdroam
    wealdroam Posts: 19,180 Forumite
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    Did you return the item via a trackable method?
  • horse76
    horse76 Posts: 649 Forumite
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    No, I just obtained a proof of postage receipt.
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  • wealdroam
    wealdroam Posts: 19,180 Forumite
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    Then I imagine the seller can deny receiving it and thus refuse the refund.
    Any dispute will almost certainly be found in favour of the seller.
  • If you havent sent it back tracked there is pretty much no point opening a dispute as you need to be able to prove through a trackable method that the seller has received it back. sorry but apart from keeping on at the seller I dont know what else you can do!
  • horse76
    horse76 Posts: 649 Forumite
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    I never thought about that when I returned it, was in too much of a rush. Should I just open a dispute anyway?
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  • If you do prepare to lose because 99.9999999% of the time they will find for the seller in these circumstances.
  • pug_in_a_bed
    pug_in_a_bed Posts: 1,975 Forumite
    See if the seller admits receiving it, if they claim not to at least you can claim back some money from your COP through RM

    Pointless opening a dispute as you have no tracking.

    They've probably twigged as there was no tracking you can't do anything.
  • soolin
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    Disputes opened are recorded both against the buyer and the seller so personally I would not open a dispute as you can't prove receipt.

    Ask the seller outright has it been received yet, if not then as suggested above use your COP to start a claim with RM.
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  • Crowqueen
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    Disputes opened are recorded both against the buyer

    Really? Never heard that before - not trying to be sarky, just interested.
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  • soolin
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    Crowqueen wrote: »
    Disputes opened are recorded both against the buyer

    Really? Never heard that before - not trying to be sarky, just interested.

    It is blooming annoying actually, I had a big flashing warning on my expanded dashboard for weeks about this coming in sometimes last month, this month?

    Then of course as soon as it did come in someone opened a dispute as they changed their mind and wnated a refund..but i had already agreed to a return under DSRs anyway. However, nothing is yet showing in the dispute part of my dashboard so maybe it doesn't count as it was merely a return..although my dashboard hasn't actually updated now for weeks.
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