The Ultimate Incentive to get debt free… again. Dinah & NIM go head to head!

Birdie85

So they should be spoiling you Wendz! You'll have to tell us how Jamie's is!

We're going to Florida in September, a belated Honeymoon since we knew we’d get no time alone on the wedding holiday! I've been 5 times between the ages of 7 and 20 and love the place, OH has never been but has always wanted to go. The pressure's on for me a bit though because I want him to love it as much as I do but he’s not really into the whole Disney thing like I am. He just wants to see Harry Potter World and the Space Center whereas I want to see Mickey! I’m trying to plan it all so we don’t do too much Disney in one chunk so he doesn’t get sick of it (how could you?!) but it’s pretty difficult! I’m really excited about it as I’m planning to do things that I never did when I went with my family, like a lot of the themed Disney restaurants and stuff which my Dad hates so there’ll be a lot of new stuff for me to enjoy too!

The things you learn on this thread… I didn’t even know that one’s uterus could be ‘tilted’! I wish there was a way of knowing just how long it would take to conceive in advance so that we wouldn’t leave it too late assuming we wouldn’t have a problem, or start earlier than planned just in case we do have problems. I have a friend who had a family history of fertility problems and the doctor just told her that the only way she’d know if she had a problem was to start trying and see what happened!

Dinah93

Aye I keep having that thought - but I do come back to 'it's better to give it too much time than too little'

N.I.M

Dinah93 wrote: »

'it's better to give it too much time than too little'

Now will I get in trouble for commenting on this?

Dinah93

No dear. You know the house rules, its free speech in our house so long as its not about terrorism. Because we've learnt the arguements from that could quickly lead to divorce.

N.I.M

Thought it was no discussing the defenition of terrorism.

Dinah93

No, no discussing terrorism full stop. It all ends up in the same arguement.

N.I.M

Ok I'll be good.

clearmydebts

Dinah93 wrote: »

Thats really good to hear. I was just told it could when I went for my first smear (well, second, the first one done by a nurse with 27 years experience and she couldn't find it, she was quite embarrassed as its the first time it had ever happened apparently .... had to go to the doctor to get it done and she's the one who said it could be an issue later on). Was your SIL able to give birth naturally?

Baby number 1 was born by c-section as he was too big for her (10lb 4ozs) and baby number 2 was born naturally (with an epidural) and was a more petite 8lbs 4ozs.

Dinah93

Gosh they both sound huge to me! I was 4lbs 1oz.

NIM, you managed to get so sidetracked by terrorism you forgot to leave the comment that started off the whole discussion!

clearmydebts

Dinah93 wrote: »

Gosh they both sound huge to me! I was 4lbs 1oz.

NIM, you managed to get so sidetracked by terrorism you forgot to leave the comment that started off the whole discussion!

Lol - they are huge compared to what you were. Max was 7lbs 15 ozs though and he was only a nipper!