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Tipping kitchen/bathroom fitters?

We are just coming to the end of having out kitchen, utility and two bathrooms fitted.

I want to thank the kitchen/bathroom fitters. I asked the project manager how I could thank them and he suggested cash (something non-cash would have been my preference), but said that the amount would be at my discretion.

Any ideas how much might be reasonable? There have been 4 guys on-site for varying amounts of time. Would it be acceptable to give a lump sum to the lead fitter (been on-site the most and have dealt with him the most) to share amongst them?

Thanks
QT
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  • andys15
    andys15 Posts: 1,102 Forumite
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    QTPie wrote: »
    We are just coming to the end of having out kitchen, utility and two bathrooms fitted.

    I want to thank the kitchen/bathroom fitters. I asked the project manager how I could thank them and he suggested cash (something non-cash would have been my preference), but said that the amount would be at my discretion.

    Any ideas how much might be reasonable? There have been 4 guys on-site for varying amounts of time. Would it be acceptable to give a lump sum to the lead fitter (been on-site the most and have dealt with him the most) to share amongst them?

    Thanks
    QT

    blimey. I would not even consider tipping. Sorry but I cannot see why you would tip. I make brews, and provide biscuits when I have workmen in.
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  • pandora205
    pandora205 Posts: 2,939 Forumite
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    I must admit I went for the cream cakes avenue of appreciation rather than tipping. It hadn't occurred that this would be appropriate for tradesmen. I also agreed to give them a telephone reference if future customers wanted to contact me (but it was the boss and a couple of other guys who did the work).
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  • phill99
    phill99 Posts: 9,093 Forumite
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    I run a Maintenance Company. Occaisionally a customer will tip, particularly if you have been doing a job where you are at the customers house for a number of days. Some customers just do it to show appreciation, especially if you have gone the extra mile.

    If you want to tip, maybe a tenner per person is appropriate. So if there have been 4 guys, then £40 is right. No tradesman expects a tip but it gives you a good feeling if you receive one. Its all very well saying 'I gave tea and biscuits as a sign of appreciation', but that certainly isn't the same as a tip, nor is a recommendation. How do we know that you will ever recommend us?

    As a nation, we expect to tip cabbies, waiters, hairdressers etc, so why not tradesman if thay have done a good job?
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  • nickj_2
    nickj_2 Posts: 7,052 Forumite
    i think i've only received a tip a couple of times in 30yrs probably £10 - 20 although i do get the odd bottle of wine which is nice and makes you feel appreciated
  • keystone
    keystone Posts: 10,916 Forumite
    nickj wrote: »
    ...although i do get the odd bottle of wine which is nice and makes you feel appreciated
    Me too and I agree wholeheartedly.

    Cheers
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  • QTPie
    QTPie Posts: 1,373 Forumite
    Thanks very much.

    The work is being done on a house that we weren't living in at the time (we move at the end of this week). Most trips have been dashes in and out with an impatient 7/8 month old baby waiting in the car.... so cuppas and things haven't been an option.

    Maybe my mistake was asking their boss (project/installation manager for the kitchen/bathroom shop) whether "beer, wine or something else" would be a good way to thank them and he replied that "cash" would be the best way to show our appreciation. I can understand that cash is more flexible (ie if one of the fitters doesn't drink...), but working out what to give them.... very difficult! This was quite a lot of work.... Tempted to put £40/£50 in an envelope, give it to the lead fitter, explain it is for all of them to "buy a few drinks to thank them"...

    QT
  • SuzieSue
    SuzieSue Posts: 4,109 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    I don't usually tip workmen but a couple of years ago we had central heating fitted by a couple of workmen who were really excellent so we gave them £20 each. if there had been more than 2, we would probably only have given them a tenner each.
  • Kirri
    Kirri Posts: 6,184 Forumite
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    I didn't tip my fitter but then he was on a very good day rate compared to me struggling to pay for it! But if anything, I would rather give a bottle of drink or something as an actual 'item' to give, rather than cash, it almost seems a little rude for the project manager to suggest cash but maybe that's just me! I'd also want to give it to the actual guys directly so I know they get it.
  • lagi
    lagi Posts: 590 Forumite
    Everybody likes cash, i don't think it would be a good idea to give it to one as he may not share it out equally/fairly or even at all.
    What about some crates of beer, fairly inexpensive, they may like a drink and if not its always handy to stick in the garage for christmas.
  • I agree with Lagi
    get some beer in then the main man cant slide the cash in his own pocket
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