House handed back - Deprivation of Capital!!!

TOBRUK

andyandflo wrote: »

I have taken 6 years to get here. I have now destroyed myself and everyone around me. That was the intention from the start.
No one can believe that so much could happen and go wrong in one person's life. Oh yes it can and I am living proof of it.

Yes I am an alcoholic and 'hooked' on Morphine. I will find my way out of all of this, no one can help me now. No one could even attempt to unravel what I have done and created and repair it.

I should have expected a sarky reply to my post.;)

You are so self centred and full of self pity - you think you are the only one who has come across hard or difficult times! I couldn't/wouldn't begin to list the things that have happened to me during my lifetime ... as others that contribute to this forum. I could tell you a few stories - a few were featured in a programme about 'lucky' people ... the opposite being the case!;)

Many or should I say most people on here have had bad things happen to them, but they try their best to overcome their difficulties, but share their experiences, knowledge and advice on here to help others ... and without being bitter and twisted.:(

andyandflo

missworks2jobs wrote: »

What?!? MSE forum is for people to try and get themselves and help others through difficult times...whether it was their own fault or not.

WHY would you purposely come on here asking for help....and do the complete opposite? You're making things worse for yourself and defeating the whole point of the forum. People give advice because they genuinely want to help/encourage others NOT the opposite. You're abusing their good nature for fun - and possibly leading others into the same trap you've voluntarily walked into by advising them to do the same - thats just cruel.:(

There is no 'fun' in what I have done. I don't see any of it with a sense of humour - I am deadly serious!!

Voluntarily - No Intentional!

I originally set out to draw attention to the lack of resources for victims of crime. Too much emphasis is placed on the reasons why criminal committ offences without enough time and effort being shown or given to the poor old sod whose life has been wrecked!!

Not getting anywhere for nearly 10 years, I decided that the only way I could bring attention to the way I was feeling about my own situation was to create a scene of devastation for myself hoping that at sometime in the future somebody might ask - why?

Or is it really that no one really cares?

Indie_Kid

andyandflo wrote: »

Not getting anywhere for nearly 10 years, I decided that the only way I could bring attention to the way I was feeling about my own situation was to create a scene of devastation for myself hoping that at sometime in the future somebody might ask - why?

That's seriously ridiculous. Why would anyone do that?

sazzybum

andyandflo wrote: »

There is no 'fun' in what I have done. I don't see any of it with a sense of humour - I am deadly serious!!

Voluntarily - No Intentional!

I originally set out to draw attention to the lack of resources for victims of crime. Too much emphasis is placed on the reasons why criminal committ offences without enough time and effort being shown or given to the poor old sod whose life has been wrecked!!

Not getting anywhere for nearly 10 years, I decided that the only way I could bring attention to the way I was feeling about my own situation was to create a scene of devastation for myself hoping that at sometime in the future somebody might ask - why?

Or is it really that no one really cares?

Put the bottle down and step AWAY from the computer!

No one is going to ask 'why'..the only 'why' they'll ask is WHY on earth did we try and help this self pitying, molodorous idiot.

I have looked back on your previous posts, and they are mostly pretty nasty. You are either a disaster movie of your own making, or a pupils project to see how long peoples sympathy will last.

Either way-you're on your own mate.

missworks2jobs

andyandflo wrote: »

There is no 'fun' in what I have done. I don't see any of it with a sense of humour - I am deadly serious!!


Not getting anywhere for nearly 10 years, I decided that the only way I could bring attention to the way I was feeling about my own situation was to create a scene of devastation for myself hoping that at sometime in the future somebody might ask - why?
I'm asking.....why!?!? As are a lot of people on here. I know what you're saying "isn't it shocking, there's no help" but its a bit of a dangerous, risky way to prove your point. If no-one's paying any attention or doing anything about its AND YOU KNOW THIS ALREADY why do it?

Or is it really that no one really cares?

You've got it all wrong, sites like this exist BECAUSE PEOPLE CARE, the advice you have been given was BECAUSE PEOPLE CARE
people are getting upset at you purposefully destroying yourself BECAUSE THEY CARE

Ever heard the phrase "Life is tough....so am I"? Why hit the self destruct button just to prove a point?!? We know life is unfair, but you're not going to get anywhere like that. Just because you CAN do something doesn't mean you SHOULD. I just can't get my head around your way of thinking. Sorry. Something my gran used to tell me (usually when dying my hair a shocking shade of purple/red cos "everyone" did) "if everyone decided to jump off a bridge would you"?

Surely you would have made a better point by using your knowledge and exposing this loophole by AVOIDING IT.....and stamping out this "unfairness" by advising others how to do the same?!? IF no one gets into the trouble you're in....the problem goes away!

I'm sorry but either you need help - counselling, or a serious shake by a loved one but what you're doing is not good for you or the people you care about. Either that or you're beyond help, in which case your contributions are a bit.....well "TROLL-ISH"

andyandflo

DX2 wrote: »

Andy why would you do this, why would you hurt your wife, your kids and your grandkids? I suspect since you started this thread you have pushed the self destruct button and are hoping for others to take the blame and sort this out.

Go and speak to someone, yes it may take an age to rectify things but this needs to be done. Start from the beginning and tell the truth.

Hi,
I have just explained why. There is nothing that I can offer my wife, children or grandchildren anymore.
There has been nothing that would mean anything to them. My life my love of my job and that of my family was finished in December 1994. My belief in that was reinforced in 2004.

My 'self destruct button' was pressed 6 years ago. It has taken this long to get me to this point in my life.

No I don't expect or want anybody to sort out what I have created. There isn't enough people on this site that could even put a dent in it. I take full responsibility for what I have done, am doing and what I intend to do.

There is no one that can help, the chaos around me has been so created that it cannot be undone. As I have said before I am not stupid - I may come over as being that intentionally, but in reality I am fairly clever.

What is the truth? Of course I would be more than happy to list it all down - that will probably take an hour or two. The simple truth is that my sole objective was to create such a massive problem that no one could solve it.

Why do you think I don't talk to my GP about my mental state? I have indicated that I know what would happen if I did. But no, everybody says that that won't happen - not in today's world. It will, believe me. I have already spent time in a secure unit and that didn't change anything.

This is just the tip of a much bigger iceberg that has been growing since 2004.
There isn't one office of authority that I have not caused havoc in. This current one - the DWP - is just another to add to the long list.
Yes, there are many in authority that would now wish that they could either prosecute me or force me from having any further contact with anyone else.

andyandflo

TOBRUK wrote: »

I should have expected a sarky reply to my post.;)

You are so self centred and full of self pity - you think you are the only one who has come across hard or difficult times! I couldn't/wouldn't begin to list the things that have happened to me during my lifetime ... as others that contribute to this forum. I could tell you a few stories - a few were featured in a programme about 'lucky' people ... the opposite being the case!;)

Many or should I say most people on here have had bad things happen to them, but they try their best to overcome their difficulties, but share their experiences, knowledge and advice on here to help others ... and without being bitter and twisted.:(

You say so, at least I know where I am going and why.

andyandflo

sh1305 wrote: »

That's seriously ridiculous. Why would anyone do that?

Maybe, but that is all that I have left in my life

Indie_Kid

andyandflo wrote: »

Why do you think I don't talk to my GP about my mental state? I have indicated that I know what would happen if I did. But no, everybody says that that won't happen - not in today's world. It will, believe me. I have already spent time in a secure unit and that didn't change anything.

You're wrong. You'll only get sectioned if you're a danger to yourself or others.

andyandflo

sazzybum wrote: »

Put the bottle down and step AWAY from the computer!

No one is going to ask 'why'..the only 'why' they'll ask is WHY on earth did we try and help this self pitying, molodorous idiot.

I have looked back on your previous posts, and they are mostly pretty nasty. You are either a disaster movie of your own making, or a pupils project to see how long peoples sympathy will last.

Either way-you're on your own mate.

I'm not drinking nor am I drunk, in fact I am quite sober thank you!

Nasty - no! Just trying to understand what is the right way of doing things. Then I do the opposite!

Yes I like that comment - 'Disaster Movie'! And I'm the lead character.