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Offers after auction finished

Recently i've been getting increasing numbers of offers submitted direct to me after my auction has finished. These are for items which are unsold and BNWT. The (potential) buyers are making very low offers. They all say they will pay immediately by paypal but I get the impression they are trying to deal outside of ebay (against the rules of course).

Anyone else experienced this?
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  • macfly
    macfly Posts: 2,728 Forumite
    Many times. I've gone along with it on occasions. But not for low offers. And it is against the rules.
  • Premier_2
    Premier_2 Posts: 15,141 Forumite
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    Just report them, block them from bidding on your items and make a note never to buy from them (although they probably sell using another account ... and probably have a few extra ones for bidding too).
    "Now to trolling as a concept. .... Personally, I've always found it a little sad that people choose to spend such a large proportion of their lives in this way but they do, and we have to deal with it." - MSE Forum Manager 6th July 2010
  • lexuslass
    lexuslass Posts: 2,283 Forumite
    I had this a few months ago....listed loads one Sunday (on a free listing weekend!).

    When it all ended, about 5 of my auctions (all 99p starts) for baby clothes bundles (all new or as good as) were unsold.

    Less than 10 minutes after, someone emailed me saying "I meant to bid on these items (all 5 of my unsold listings!!!) ... I was putting my son to bed and missed the end. Can I buy them from you?"

    I know that if she had bid at the end she would have got them all for 99p, but I quickly relisted them all, left it an hour and replied back to her saying "Oh, sorry, I've only just read your message... I have already relisted the items".

    They sold the following week. Each bundle went for £5+
  • cyberbob
    cyberbob Posts: 9,480 Forumite
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    Premier wrote: »
    block them from bidding on your items
    Why? All they are doing is trying to get a bargain doesn't mean they will be a bad buyer.

    I normally just refuse and tell them that they should bid when I relist.
  • Premier_2
    Premier_2 Posts: 15,141 Forumite
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    cyberbob wrote: »
    Why? All they are doing is trying to get a bargain doesn't mean they will be a bad buyer....

    Because they've already proven they are not to be trusted. That to me is not someone I would wish to trade with.
    "Now to trolling as a concept. .... Personally, I've always found it a little sad that people choose to spend such a large proportion of their lives in this way but they do, and we have to deal with it." - MSE Forum Manager 6th July 2010
  • Greatgimp
    Greatgimp Posts: 1,061 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Academoney Grad Name Dropper
    I suggest you steer them towards Gixen or something similar.
  • cyberbob
    cyberbob Posts: 9,480 Forumite
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    Premier wrote: »
    Because they've already proven they are not to be trusted. That to me is not someone I would wish to trade with.
    Because they offered you a price for an item.:eek:. Lock them up them they obviously members of Al Quaeda! Do you block everyone who dares want to bid a low price on one of your items? Bit of an over reaction IMO. Oh well more customers for the rest of us
  • ~~Diane~~
    ~~Diane~~ Posts: 770 Forumite
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    Twice I've emailed sellers after the auction had ended. Like most bidders on here I tend to bid in the dying minutes. This day I forgot about the items I'd been watching, (2 items of clothing). I emailed both sellers, 1 offered to sell there and then, so to speak, and the other offered to put it back on as a BIN. I accepted both their offers and everyone was happy.
    2011 Sealed Pot Challenge #1238 hoping for £250 ~ saved £743.32
    2012 Sealed Pot Challenge #1238 hoping for £250 ~ saved £435.75
    2013 Sealed Pot Challenge #1238 hoping for £300 ~ saved £521
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  • annie-c
    annie-c Posts: 2,542 Forumite
    Interesting this thread should come up now - I also tend to bid at the last minute and last night forgot to bid on an item I wanted. I was wondering whether it would be worth contacting the seller today to see if the item is still for sale. I wouldn't be wanting to con them and I'd be perfectly happy to negotiate on price and go through ebay with a BIN.
  • Premier_2
    Premier_2 Posts: 15,141 Forumite
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    cyberbob wrote: »
    ... Do you block everyone who dares want to bid a low price on one of your items? ...

    No, I only block those who have given me good reason to.
    "Now to trolling as a concept. .... Personally, I've always found it a little sad that people choose to spend such a large proportion of their lives in this way but they do, and we have to deal with it." - MSE Forum Manager 6th July 2010
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