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  • sulkisu
    sulkisu Posts: 1,285 Forumite
    Living in London, your wife should have no trouble (or very little trouble) finding part-time temporary work on the high street. All of the major retailers are recruiting for christmas temps at the moment - Argos, Boots, John Lewis, Waitrose, HMV, Debenhams, Selfridges, Royal Mail - to name but a few. Your wife just needs to look harder.
  • DC34
    DC34 Posts: 62 Forumite
    thank you so much man
    August
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  • chesky369
    chesky369 Posts: 2,590 Forumite
    Don't think of moving. I know your rent is a bit high but it seems to take in Council Tax; gas; electricity; water and part of your TV costs. These are bound to amount to around £200, so it's not such a bad deal for London.
  • SuzySu
    SuzySu Posts: 3,478 Forumite
    I was a SAHM with three children but still managed to find ways to contribute to the household. Whether it was by shopping cannily or selling Kleeneze or making and selling craft items at local craft fairs.

    Maybe she doesn't see the point of trying to earn money because she feels you will just end up spending it?
    YOUR = belonging to you (your coat); YOU'RE = you are (I hope you're ok)

    really....it's not hard to understand :T
  • DC34
    DC34 Posts: 62 Forumite
    So how does a DPM work?

    Do they take a fee?

    Sorry keep reading about them but not sure what they are?

    DC
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    October - Meet and greet VIP (NFL) Goody bag
  • DC34
    DC34 Posts: 62 Forumite
    bump please help how does cccs work
    August
    2 Tickets to Dive 2012

    Sept Nought

    October - Meet and greet VIP (NFL) Goody bag
  • I think they make arrangements with your creditors, could be wrong. Best advise on here as far as I can see is to open a separate bank account and look at your budget whilst making arrangement with the payday loan people.
    Payment a day challenge: £236.69
    Jan Shopping Challenge: £202.09/£250
    Frugal Living Challenge: £534.64/15000
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,521 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Hi

    A debt mamangment plan adds up your expenditure, looks at your income and works out what is left.

    it allocates what is left to your creditors, pro rata. You can talk to CCCS, Payplan, NDL, CAB or CAp and they all offer the service free. THE OFt has just advised that one third of fee-charigning companies have been instructed to amend their practices/threatened with striking off, so do not use any of these.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • DC34
    DC34 Posts: 62 Forumite
    Well the deed is done.

    Uncle Buck rang me first and i i told them i will only deal via email or post, they hung up on me and have sent me an email saying i have already incured an extra charge of £10

    Payday UK rang me and said no worries then i got a call from another lady who said we will take further action and slammed the phone down on me.

    Wage day advance have sent me texts?

    Quickquid and P2P no response yet

    What should i do next negotiate??
    August
    2 Tickets to Dive 2012

    Sept Nought

    October - Meet and greet VIP (NFL) Goody bag
  • DC34 wrote: »
    Thanks for coming back to me.

    Here are my answers hope this helps you to understand my situation



    Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 1
    Number of cars owned.................... 0

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 2200
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0 - not working? (She doesnt work she looks after my five year old)
    Benefits................................ 110
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2310

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 900 - this is very very high - London or around? Yes London however this includes virtually all my bills
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 0??? see above
    Electricity............................. 0??? see above
    Gas..................................... 0???? see above
    Oil..................................... 0???? see above
    Water rates............................. 0????? see above
    Telephone (land line)................... 30 - this needs to be stopped - line rental only for a few months - i thought £30per month was cheap no?
    Mobile phone............................ 20
    TV Licence.............................. 8 - this is not enough (included in my rent)
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 40 - you need to downgrade immediately and then get rid - freeview for a couple of years (will do)
    Internet Services....................... 13.5
    Groceries etc. ......................... 400 - this is ludicrious - halve it immediately and you may be able to reduce on that. Put the missus on the Old style forum immediately (My missus says that she could not put food on the table for the three of us for less than £80 a week) Really sorry, couldn't help but notice this. I have a family exactly the same size as yours (2 adults, 1 child, plus we have a dog (a large one that eats a LOT)) and I spend a maximum of £30.00 a week on groceries. No top up shops, and we all eat very healthily aswell.
    Clothing................................ 30 - you cannot afford anything other than knickers in the next year.(ok :) )
    Petrol/diesel........................... 0
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 0
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 130 what is this? (Travel for me into work and the wife on the bus to kiddies school)
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 7.5
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 50 - this has to drop to £10 maximum (K)
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1629


    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 0

    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly.. .APR
    Credit Card....................780.......40........39.9
    Payday Loan....................300.......52.5......1737
    Payday Loan....................425.......552.......2618 - why is the monthly payment so high on this one? (This payday loan must be paid off in full at the end of every month, i pay it then am left so short that i re-order it)
    Friend.........................1000......500...... .0 - this would be consider unfair preference - you need to ask to pay less for a few months. (it;s my mum i needed it desperalty and promised i would pay it back in two months)
    Payday Loan....................450.......130.......2338
    Payday Loan....................330.......82.5......1737
    Payday Loan....................250.......83........2278
    Total unsecured debts..........3535......1440......-


    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 2,310
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 1,629
    Available for debt repayments........... 681
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 1,440
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -759

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 0
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -3,535
    Net Assets.............................. -3,535

    Help

    Don't know much about anything else, but 1 comment for you to keep in mind ;)
    I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.
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