slightly embarrassing question....and really hoping for some good advice !!

LittleTinker

ilovemyboy wrote: »

Had quite a looong conversation with the hubby last night and he is still sticking to the same story of just being curious! I don't know what road to take next...i do know though that it's not going to be the same now, i will constantly be wondering about if he is still doing it or not and i don't know if i can cope with that all the time!!

Do u really think it is naive of me to think that it is only a form of phone sex?? and that really there is more to it???

Sooooo confused!!!

If it definitely is man on man stuff hes been looking at or phoning up about then I must admit, I wouldnt like it one like bit.

And yes, phone sex is the same as cheating in my mind.

C_Mababejive

Insist you go with him to the Gum clinic and you are both tested and both see eachothers results. from that point on,i wouldnt get physical with him until the whole truth is out on this one.

swiss69

The internet stuff doesnt prove anything one way or another if in isolation.

The phone chat to me indicates he is either Gay or Bi.

Straight men might be able to watch anything online but phoning a chatline? No way

kev.s

you could leave a gay and a straight !!!!!! mag lying around, see which on has the pages stuck together after a week, that should be your answer..
on a serious note, talk to him, he maybe wants to talk but does not know how, i know a few gay men, and most of them was married, and one still is

gratefulforhelp_2

OP from my experience, I don't think you have to worry that it is more than it seems. x