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The Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Support Thread - Numero 9!
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Miss_Piggy wrote: »Evening everyone
Day one of feb and I've fallen at the first hurdleNot going to beat myself up over it. Been a pants day for various reasons and just fancied sitting down with a glass of wine. So thats what I'm doing.
I don't know...do you think I'll ever get the hang of this!?:o:rotfl:
Miss P
xxIt’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts0 -
well done to everyone on there Jan Successes both AFness and Weightloss
Miss P- Hugs to you and dont worry about a little hiccup x
1 for me please Shaggy
1 more done Pen thanx
Feel absolutely rotten today (definitely caught a bug ), hoping to be feeling better tommorow x
Good luck to everyone for Feb
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AF for me tonight please Shaggy.This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
Fingers crossed x0 -
I'm jumping back in, if that's okay
I haven't had an AF day this year until today! Feeling very positive about February though. I've lost 6lbs in weight with a few lifestyle changes and know that if I cut out wine, I can lose some more
A target of 10 please Shaggy.
1 on the board for today :j
I'm working full time this week (YUK!) so won't be in through the day. But I'll come back tomorrow evening if you can let me back in?X
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hello there - can I join please - didnt drink for over 14 months (pregnant and breastfeeding) and then after that only at weekends however since going back to work 7 months ago I have got into habit of "treating" myself most nights and now am worrying thats it becoming a bit of a habit so can you put me down for a total of 12 days for feb pls - thank youCC debt Aug 2018 £50.2K
CC debt Nov 2018 £48.6K0 -
I heard someone tonight tell how his drinking damaged his relationships with those that loved him.
Since he has been sober he has slowly rebuilt those relationships. He stressed his key relationship was with himself. He has to love himself, treat himself kindly. If he does that, then all other things slowly drop into place. Powerful stuff.
Like me, his drinking only got worse over time. The relationship with alcohol was more important than relationships with loved ones.
I couldn't see that until I stopped drinking and the fog lifted.
When drinking too much I was hurting myself. And that hurt others.
But my relationship with booze was too strong just to give it up like that. I needed to change myself so I no longer want to drink.
I have managed that tonight.
Tomorrow is a new day, and I am sure it will go ok as long as I keep things just in that day.0 -
Welcome back to Forever hopeful and welcome to Scotdebs. :wave:
Shaggy, can you put me down for 1/14 and Pen, that's Monday and Tuesday of the challenge for me.
And a 2lb loss for me at fat club this week helped by the AF days last night although there's room for improvement!
Good night everyone, sleep well.0 -
Miss_Piggy wrote: »Been a pants day for various reasons and just fancied sitting down with a glass of wine.
:grouphug: Sorry to hear about your rubbish day. Have a hug and I got this :coffee:ready for you for the morning.Im now officially addicted to creme eggs
Is this your new diet?? Hope it works:)ForeverHopeful wrote: »I'm jumping back in, if that's okay
I'll come back tomorrow evening if you can let me back in?X
Lovely to see you again FH, we can always find room on the wagon!
Welcome to you scotsdeb, it's so easy to get into the habit of having a drink every night. Do join us and get back into good habits.
Congratulations on the fatloss wbf:T
That's 1AF for me for February please Shaggy and
2 for this week's challenge Pen.0 -
Morning :hello:
It's always nice to start the challenge mid week! So 1 AFD for me.:)
ShaggyxWhat do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.0 -
Ooooops....Shaggy I think Marru is missing a :j!!! Not that she's being greedy or anything
:D:D
JJ x
:rotfl::rotfl: She wants the full monty and she deserves them!What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.0
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