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The future is bright for 3Dogs and it's about time too

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  • You never know petal. i am sure you will. What are you looking for? Do what firewalker did? Did you read her thread from the beginning? I admire her so much. Have you read the latest post. She is amazing. We must not doubt ourselves. I am waiting for the Secret to come. I am going to stop doubting too. Your life will be transformed.

    I think for once I am looking to be on my own, all my life I have tried far too hard to impress somebody and make them like you, but you cant do that, it doesnt work. You just have to be yourself and things happen

    Fate
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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    We split up last october for a few weeks and then she said she had made a huge mistake and could I give her a second chance, which I did until new years day, when she dumped me by text message. I was very bitter at the time and was a bit selfish. But as time went on I thought about it more and she was going through a bad time as one of her best friend had died and her ex (the dad) was threating to move to oz, so he would not see his daughter, so I think she did the right thing in the end and gave him another chance. I dont think I will ever love anybody as much again, but.....


    Moving on

    oh no. Life is grim sometimes. At the worst times i have felt that i have not been able to go on and then somehow you do. Some days are amazing and i am so glad i have met the great people on this site. It is worth the pain because of all the fab people i have met in my life and the stories i have heard and today i dont regret any of it for one second. When bad stuff happens it makes you stronger and wiser. I have no regrets about anything. I am glad i am me. I might be daft as a brush but i am the nicest person i know and i would not want to be anyone else even if i am a doormat. I am the nicest doormat i know.
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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    One Honedew melon, with one Galia and one Cantaloupe, all chopped up into a big bowl :j And I've had a cereal bowl full, with yoghurt - yum yum full tum :j :j

    Been listening to the music when catching up - great songs - didn't know Hugh Grant coul/did sing!!

    My school reports? Main one I remember was "Susan must learn to stand up in the face of adversity and not bow down to it" and of course there wre plenty "Susan must try harder" :o

    Hiya Tixy petal and bye bye for now to Marru
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • oh no. Life is grim sometimes. At the worst times i have felt that i have not been able to go on and then somehow you do. Some days are amazing and i am so glad i have met the great people on this site. It is worth the pain because of all the fab people i have met in my life and the stories i have heard and today i dont regret any of it for one second. When bad stuff happens it makes you stronger and wiser. I have no regrets about anything. I am glad i am me. I might be daft as a brush but i am the nicest person i know and i would not want to be anyone else even if i am a doormat. I am the nicest doormat i know.

    Thanks SavingWannabe.

    To be fair sometimes I have good days and I think I have moved on and dont care anymore and then other days I am really upset.
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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    I think for once I am looking to be on my own, all my life I have tried far too hard to impress somebody and make them like you, but you cant do that, it doesnt work. You just have to be yourself and things happen

    Fate

    I have always been on my own. I cannot imagine ever sharing my life with anyone. I dont want to be hurt. I have to make changes in my life and when my psychologist tried to talk about this stuff to me i freaked so she backed off. You are way ahead of me petal. I am confident you will get there. How can you not you are a child of the Universe and deserve to be here (Desiderata - remember). :T
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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    oh no. Life is grim sometimes. At the worst times i have felt that i have not been able to go on and then somehow you do. Some days are amazing and i am so glad i have met the great people on this site. It is worth the pain because of all the fab people i have met in my life and the stories i have heard and today i dont regret any of it for one second. When bad stuff happens it makes you stronger and wiser. I have no regrets about anything. I am glad i am me. I might be daft as a brush but i am the nicest person i know and i would not want to be anyone else even if i am a doormat. I am the nicest doormat i know.

    We is glad you is you too :T :T :T :T

    And you are the nicest [STRIKE]doormat[/STRIKE] person we know :j :j
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    3Dogs wrote: »
    One Honedew melon, with one Galia and one Cantaloupe, all chopped up into a big bowl :j And I've had a cereal bowl full, with yoghurt - yum yum full tum :j :j

    Been listening to the music when catching up - great songs - didn't know Hugh Grant coul/did sing!!

    My school reports? Main one I remember was "Susan must learn to stand up in the face of adversity and not bow down to it" and of course there wre plenty "Susan must try harder" :o

    Hiya Tixy petal and bye bye for now to Marru

    Yum on the melons. Look at you you have stood up in the face of adversity and SPAT in its eye. And good on you, look at you now. Amazing. You are such an inspiration Susan.

    (ooops sorry for appalling language there nothing else would do).
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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    Frit, I think you are right to just take things as they come - be happy and cotent on your own, doing what you want to, and one day that special person will find you. We so often find what we are looking for when we stop looking
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • 3Dogs wrote: »
    Frit, I think you are right to just take things as they come - be happy and cotent on your own, doing what you want to, and one day that special person will find you. We so often find what we are looking for when we stop looking

    EXACTLY

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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Thanks SavingWannabe.

    To be fair sometimes I have good days and I think I have moved on and dont care anymore and then other days I am really upset.

    In a year's time your life will be so different. Life is amazing. One of inifinite possibilities, even for people like me. When i was a kid i did not think i would make it to 20. When i was blind at aged 21 i did not think i would make it, neither did my doctors. But despite everything life has thrown at me i am here, and to stay it seems. Wonder what will happen to me in the next year? I am grateful i have made such fab friends, things can't help but get better. :beer::beer::beer::j:beer:
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