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MSE Parents Club Part 14

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  • MadDogWoman_2
    MadDogWoman_2 Posts: 2,376 Forumite
    I know it is, everyone that is supporting me agrees, but as I'm hoping the Union will take it to Tribrunal for me I have to follow their advice, it's all evidence I suppose.

    If I get to speak to him at any point instead of answer machine tennis I'll update him on what's gone on and see what he says then.
    Proud to be dealing with my debts
    DD Katie born April 2007!
    3 years 9 months and proud of it
    dreams do come true (eventually!)

  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Jeez Beenie. It doesn't rain, it ruddy pi$$es down up there.

    So what are you supposed to do with this information now? Feel sorry for him? run off to his side? Or is that the perfect ex-wifes job?

    I think i'll stop moaning now, I don't know how you have the head space for all his carp!!

    I have no idea! I don't know what the situation is with perfect wifey but i'm sure his mother had told her long before today.
    Well, he has been in since Thursday not sure if it's been going on any longer than that.

    She said "i just wanted to let you know, since you've got his baby there" ....... And that she'll visit him today and ring me tonight. I don't know why?
  • r.mac_2
    r.mac_2 Posts: 4,746 Forumite
    BrunoM wrote: »

    In other news, FIL went to airport to collect guest 2... whose flight departure date is indeed 4th October... from NY, landing on 5th October :p one more night without an extra tenant I guess! Hard on FIL especially with tube strike today though!

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    tiamai_d wrote: »
    July 2013 I should hopefully have my BSc and be earning :D

    well if you're earning £1,000,000 a year then you won't be getting any CB ;):rotfl::rotfl:
    Send him a blank text....the perfect way to say 'I am not talking to you' :p :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    I do NOT want to fall out with you ;):p
    aless02 wrote: »
    r.mac, you are so wise and wonderful, that post was lovely and so insightful!
    I can't promise that all my replies will illicit this response :p
  • r.mac_2
    r.mac_2 Posts: 4,746 Forumite
    SusanC wrote: »
    I like NICE. I sent a copy of my letter to the main NICE e-mail and asked them to forward it to the lady who is the Patient Involvement Lead for the Guidance on Pain and bleeding in early pregnancy (because I couldn't find her e-mail on the site). I just got a lovely acknowledgement back and the lady who replied told me that the relevent lady is away until the 20th so it'll be a while before I hear back from her. It was nice to get a reply which wasn't robotic.

    And the PALS lady replied to me today too. :D

    :j:j:j:j
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    Sooooo.............

    Ex's mother (groan) just rang me to let me know ex is in (a mental) hospital having taken one failed overdose of heroin, methadone, cocodamol, anti depressants blah blah, and then on being released from hospital does it again within one hour :eek: The fact he even knows where to get such things scares me. He doesn't know any such dealers in this town, i know that much!!

    He is still alive, but not well. :( Maybe all my bad luck is due to the fact i'm in love with a waste of space smackhead junkie. And who clearly needs help and i wish i could give it but can't forgive him for everything he has done prior to this.


    Not sure if anyone remembers my fondness (!) towards his mother but that was an awkward conversation. She said she's got his phone and had been reading his texts, the last one of which was a few days ago when i said i was worried about him. If she scrolled down a bit she'll see one where i referred to his "w@nker of a mother" LOL :rotfl: :o:o haha!

    oh dear - I'm not sure what to say other than sending you hugs. What a horrible week for you.

    I laughed at the attempts at dirty talk, I wouldn't be very good at that job either:rotfl:There is a whole thread on the up your income board. But how do you put that on a CV in later life :rotfl:

    A is very grumpy this afternoon. She still exhausted and so early bath and bed tonight. I'm not far behind her I don't think. ;) though no chance to practice that dirty talk about socks as DH is working late:eek::D:p
    aless02 wrote: »
    r.mac, you are so wise and wonderful, that post was lovely and so insightful!
    I can't promise that all my replies will illicit this response :p
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    CV....

    2010-2012 Personal aid to hundreds. Including marriage counselling, stress relief and hand relief!
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    SS, I am hoping to end the week at the top of bejeweled, do I get any bonus?
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • r.mac_2
    r.mac_2 Posts: 4,746 Forumite
    tarajayne wrote: »
    CV....

    2010-2012 Personal aid to hundreds. Including marriage counselling, stress relief and hand relief!

    :rotfl::eek::eek::eek:

    I can hardly lengthen the message for laughing :rotfl:
    aless02 wrote: »
    r.mac, you are so wise and wonderful, that post was lovely and so insightful!
    I can't promise that all my replies will illicit this response :p
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    Nothing, Tara, except a small glow of achievement.

    I've not even a hope of beating you, can barely see straight I'm so tired :o
    Organised Birthdays and Christmas: Spend So Far: £193.75; Saved from RRP £963.76
    Three gifts left to buy
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    SugarSpun wrote: »
    Nothing, Tara, except a small glow of achievement.

    I've not even a hope of beating you, can barely see straight I'm so tired :o


    Thank-you so much for giving me this opportunity! :A :p
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Beenie, it is not your problem! He has had every chance to put his life right, he had a good life and he went and blew it. I have no sympathy for people who are given help time and time again and yet still manage to screw it up for themselves while blaming everyone else. I just feel sorry for his Mum, you and Amber. And also lol at his mum reading your messages! :rotfl: Teach her for being nosey then.

    MDW, hope you get something sorted at work. Itr's pants.

    Smartie, when Amber was ill I called NHS 24 for advice. They came out when she had not drank anything in about 8 hours. They had advised me to drip feed her a few mls of water or juice, preferably the rehydration sachets every 10mins to make sure she didn't get dehydrated.

    I've been in the kitchen for ages. Made fairy cakes, weezls carrotcake (using satsumas lol, its scrummy) and a big pot of stovies. My head still hurts but atleast when I'm doing something I can ignore it. Tonight will be getting kids to bed, finishing my lab report (cos I have to hand it in tomorrow) and then lying in a bath with a book. But I have to clean the kitchen first!

    Also, DS2 pooped his pants when he came home from school. I'm getting really frustrated at him, he's doing it every 2-3days.
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