Trying for a Baby Part Six

QQuaver

mrsvicx, huge hugs

Evansangel

It also tells you your fertile days over the period of i think 6 days (am i right?)
Instead of a normal opk saying, here's your line, now your fertile, make sure to dtd within 48hours.

Mwhahahaha, i have cheated the ebay photo charge by sticking my photos into the listing using html :rotfl:

sparkle76

Hi everyone, loving the new thread!

Just a quick hello to say sorry madbird you are not having a great time and mrsvix big hug too . Welcome new ladies!

Tummy still sore and have been to the loo 3 times already this morning, mind is playing tricks on me and know I can't test until around the 6th or 7th to get it out of my head. OH starts new job then, so what a day that would be . If not at least next week we are off work so can relax and do the BD without thinking about it too much - bonk holiday weekend a someone said before:rotfl:

I won't add myself to list just yet as that seems so final and decisive, I'm still nervous about my capabilities can you tell

PS: I love Dexter, we have seen season 1 and 2, waiting for season 3 now from LoveFilm... despite being a killer he does indeed look super hot in the opening sequence pulling his shirt on then looking up at the camera when he leaves his house - very different to his role in 6 Feet Under (which I highly recommend to everyone, an awesome series so well written and funny).

mrsvicx

Thanks QQ and Sparkle. I just cant seem to lift myself this month. I dont know why it has hit me so much harder than any other month...I think Ive just realised that we are probably in this for the long haul and its not just a "blip"
I had a friend who tried for over two years before having their daughter in May this year - how do people go through it for so long month after month....???

Perdi

*hugs* mrsvicx. I'm glad your friend was there for you.

Don't worry, you're not alone, I know I went through it in July (we had a run of BFPs at the same time I was late for the first time ever and it was gutting), I think a lot of the ladies on here may have felt the same at some point or another. I sobbed myself to sleep and if I even thought about it at work, had to go hide in the toilets for a bit.

I think I've come thorugh the other end now. I've reached an (almost) calm acceptance of it. Trying to switch my focus away from ttc atm for sanity's sake hence the reason I'm not posting much!

kittendothroar

Ooh new thread! After finally getting round to finding out my works maternity benefits (better late than never!), and the fact I am not pregnant yet, we have put ttc for another month, when I will qualify for it on top of smp, if I happen to conceive then, going forwards. My only worry is if I don't return to work but will deal with that at the time! Says I have to go back for 3 months but am quietly confident we can get family & friends to help out..

Happy baby making to all xx

mrsvicx

Thanks Perdi, its nice to know Im not the only one. I really dont want to resent other people getting pregnant, but its getting to the stage now where I do....its so bad....
Im not a bad person, honest Im not. And I know that I have my DS, who is my world, but I just want him to have a sibling and I am so gutted thats its not coming.... I cant help but feel that if anything happened to DH and I, DS is all alone in the world...
Sorry, have to go and have another cry now....

Perdi

I know, I hate how resentful and jealous I've become. It doesn't make us bad people though, it's just an emotional time. Cry as much as you need, it doesn't help bottling it up, and hopefully you'll come through the bad patch soon x

I see we've been trying for pretty much the same amount of time so maybe we'll get our BFPs together *fingers crossed* :cool:

mrsvicx

Perdi wrote: »

I know, I hate how resentful and jealous I've become. It doesn't make us bad people though, it's just an emotional time. Cry as much as you need, it doesn't help bottling it up, and hopefully you'll come through the bad patch soon x

I see we've been trying for pretty much the same amount of time so maybe we'll get our BFPs together *fingers crossed* :cool:

Heres hoping for that , eight months is nothing, but for something that you want so bad, it seems forever....:(
Oh well, lets hope its September. That wouldnt be so bad I guess, I could finish my course and then, actually just looked at the calendar and 40 weeks from today is the day after my DS's 4th birthday. Not sure whether he would like that or not!!!

phunkles

QQuaver wrote: »

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It's a completely new thread, so everyone has to post their details again:)
Sorry to hear your diawoowoo:( What do you mean by weird short AF? You are sure it was an AF?

Well TMI coming up seriously look away if eating in fact ill white it out
Af is normally slightly weird anyway as in come on with a lovely cramps etc lasts 3 days then stops for a full day then I get stomach cramps again and come on again for another 2/3 days its lovely in fact thinking about it its like two mini wonderful afs right after each other.
This month though I only got a 3 day event which is weird as thats never happened before but I figured flying and time zone shifting had something to do with it.

I think the great thing with this thread is that you can actually admit your feelings which may be bubbling under your real life surface re other people getting pregnant - Im at the omg im so happy for you fake smile stage while secretly thinking whhhhhhyyyyyy isnt it me

I think im gonna resist going on the front page list after all oh is still insisting were leaving it to fate instead of ttc :rotfl:think its a pressure thing ..... however I did ask for a pet human as an anniversary present after he told me I couldnt have a pet lobster or crocodile :rotfl:I think I've lost the plot