Trying for a Baby Part Six

phunkles

:grouphug: QQ

*relurks*

mrsvicx

So sorry Qq, hopefully ALL the long time triers will get their bfps soon xx

welshpolarbear

Big hugs QQ, you're right, you do only need one good swimmer. Let's hope he comes swimming your way very soon x

pebblespop

QQuaver wrote: »

We are supposed to BD on Peak days, we BD'd 2 days before Peak:(
It was before ewcm as well. DH did not want to BD at his parents house:mad:

He should be around when I ov later this month:cool:

It's not a problem as such, except the fact that 99% is abnormally shaped (ie 1% normal morphology), of which 22% is moving forward (3% is fast) and abnormal viscosity (not quite sure what that is). Oh, and the total count is on the low side:o

We did IUI last year, I ov'd 2 eggs, but the sample DH produced was declared 'disappointing and unlikely to work'. Obviously it failed:o

He's been prescribed variety of stuff including Clomid, but no change (the most recent sample was worse).

But we only need 1 good swimmer:o

that must be frustrating for both of you. can you try iui again?

hope the right swimmer comes along soon

smash7

Morning ladies!!

I just popped in to start to say CD31(22), nothing to report and then needed the loo........!

CD1 for me today but I am pleased I have a definite answer!! It's not our month and that's fine with me. I am going to keep my cycle average at 22 days but I won't be so consumed by testing straight away if I am late again!

QQ please can you take me off the testing list

((Hugs)) to those that need them!!!

Smash xx

QQuaver

smash7 wrote: »

I just popped in to start to say CD31(22), nothing to report and then needed the loo........!

You are my cycle buddy this cycle, as today is my official CD1 (yesterdays was only spotting):beer:

We may try IUI again this cycle. I haven't asked DH yet.
I wonder if his sample has improved a little? I'd love to hear the doctor say, this isn't so bad as the last time:)

smash7

QQuaver wrote: »

You are my cycle buddy this cycle, as today is my official CD1 (yesterdays was only spotting):beer:

We may try IUI again this cycle. I haven't asked DH yet.
I wonder if his sample has improved a little? I'd love to hear the doctor say, this isn't so bad as the last time:)

Nice to have a cycle buddy!!

Smash xx

QQuaver

Testing list

Mon 19th Jan - Maire1
Tue 18th Jan - Jen151
Thu 20th Jan - KimmyMarky
Sat 22nd Jan - MacLurky
Sometime in April - Blue Monkey
Mon 12th Never - Lemon Tree


January graduates
Little Angel (28) TTC#1 since 10/10 BFP 05/01/11:j
ddebski_us (30) TTC#1 since 06/10 (1 MC 10/10) BFP 08/01/11:j
Puzzledbubbles (28) TTC#1 since 10/10 BFP 07/01/11:j
Bambywamby (38) TTC #2 since 02/10 BFP 8/01/11:j
Forumgrazer (30) TTC#1 since 10/10 BFP 09/01/11:j
Honeyspider (32) TTC #2 since 11/10 BFP 10/01/11:j

January BFP predictions
I love holidays - 3
ddebski - 5
QQuaver - 6
Pinkpig - 6 (including self)
Jen151 - 7
Smash - 7
Welsh Polar Bear - 8
Kellyg - 11
x_Charlie_x - 13

QQuaver

Team Sticky - Preseed/Conceive plus users!


CD26 Deborah - 12DPO:cool:
CD25 Jen151 - 11DPO:cool:
CD? Monkeybrain - 0DPO:cool:
CD23 Skint-Catt - Awaiting ov:o
CD23 calamityclare - Awaiting ov:o
CD19 GG - Awaiting ov:o
CD18 ilovecushions - Awaiting ov:o
CD17 Jules68 - Awaiting ov:o
CD15 Pawpurrs - Awaiting ov:o
CD1 QQuaver - Awaiting ov:o
CD Tinksy -
CD Must try harder -
CD TwigPig -



Graduates!

Fantafan:j
Madbird:j
Anderson8:j
Doglover:j
Little Angel:j

Gizmogiz

Well turns out today is CD 1 for me too so we're all cycle buddies today....hugs for all of us.

RANT alert.....

Well next cycle is only cycle 5 for us which I know isn't long in this game (& I hope I don't upset those that have been trying a lot longer.....) but since I started looking into the whole thing and finding out that a year isn't unusual I'm getting more and more disheartened every month.
Just told OH how down I feel about it today and how much I am longing for a baby and he just keeps saying the same thing
"stressing isn't gonna do any good, you've just go to be patient. When the time's right, it'll happen"

But the time IS right, thats why we started TTC in the first place!
We've been married for nearly 2 yrs, bought our first house last year, have got some savings behind us and both know how much we want this. I just wish sometimes that since OH won't let me tell anyone we're TTCing that he would let me vent my frustrations without patronising me!
My main worry is that there is something wrong with one of us and we won't know until we've been TTC for over a year when if there is something wrong I want to get it sorted early

I have ordered some preseed, a digital opk and a basal thermometer so I can try even harder this month, makes me feel like I have a hand in it anyway.
I just hate not being able to control when this happens, I feel so useless.

Phew...glad thats out. sorry guys, I know we've not been here as long as some of you and hope u don't think this is insensitive, I'm sure we all get this feeling on CD1 and it only gets harder the longer we try.