Trying for a Baby Part Six

Lurker1972

Hi, I'm not sure if this is the best place to ask, but....

I've just come off the pill after 14 months on it - only had one period while on it (bliss) so am now unsure when to expect AF......

what would you expect?

smash7

:wave: Hi ladies!!!!!! I have come out of hibernation today. Felt awful all day Saturday/Sunday but much better today.

Just reading back through the posts:
Debs well done for the telling off! I was thinking the same and then saw your post - glad you sorted us out!!!!
QQ please can you change my test date to 5 Dec? Thanks:)

Re: caffeine - I have cut down but not cut out... I stopped smoking last week, there's only so many things I can tackle at once..! :eek: Will try and keep the caffeine down but not sure I could cut it out completely...!

SusanC - your DD drawing pics of "the baby" had me in fits of laughter - bless her heart!! My niece has requested we NOT have kids as she wants to be the only grandchild! Bless her - she's 10..! I know she'll love it when we have one though
((Hugs)) Feanor & jcr and anyone else that needs them
Welcome jadebee & Lurker 1972

OMG - SERIOUSLY NO BFP YET?!?!?!?!?!? YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT IS GOING ON?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? :huh:

SBDTA!!!!!!! :grouphug: (this is the closest smilie I could find that resembles baby dust 'sticking'! :rotfl:)

moneysavingfamilycomp

SusanC wrote: »

I started charting again the day after my MC was confirmed and ovulated about eight days after I stopped bleeding. (But mine was very uncomplicated and didn't require any medical intervention.) If it had worked out I would have based caluclations as if I'd ovulated on day 14.

Also, I was wondering since I noticed you're in Durham and I am too (and feel free to ignore this if you want to) whether you went to UHND with your MC and if so, how you found them? The reason I ask is that I found them so appalling I put in a formal complaint six weeks ago and I'm wondering if (and hoping) it was any better for you? (But if you don't want to talk about it, just ignore my question.)

yes i went to UHND i was only 5.5 wks and hadnt had preg confirmed by docs yet so ended up going to out of hours doc. and yes they were appaling. i had took 4 home tests a week apart all of which were positive so i was sure i was preg but couldnt get an appointment at docs till the following friday. anyway started bleeding lightly on the tues rang nhs direct who sent me to out of hours. once there nurse did test and after a long wait (long story) the trainee doc saw me her first words were ' the nurse has done a test and its negative so if you were pregnant your not now. so how does that make you feel' after that i was sent away without any idea of what was going to happen. all in all a traumatic experience made 10 times worse. i kept my appointment at local surgery for fri and talked everything through with doc there.
its interesting that you ovd quickly i feel as if im about to ov and iv started temping if my af had come when it was supposed to i would of been oving in next couple of days but i was expecting to count first day of mc as cd1 which puts me at cd7 if i hadnt mc i would of been on cd17 and usually ov cd18/19 im very confused by it all.

twigpig

jcr16 wrote: »

yes i like that idea twigpig. but i have no idea where in my cycle i am. if it been and gone and started again, or still the same on contuining,lol. All a bit baffling to me. ( doesn't take much tho)

I'm exactly the same jcr! I've reset my cbfm, but no idea what day this is :rotfl: Still reading down the last page. At least you know what day you're on now

BIG HUGS kitten

Welcome Jade :wave:

SusanC_2

moneysavingfamilycomp wrote: »

yes i went to UHND i was only 5.5 wks and hadnt had preg confirmed by docs yet so ended up going to out of hours doc. and yes they were appaling. i had took 4 home tests a week apart all of which were positive so i was sure i was preg but couldnt get an appointment at docs till the following friday. anyway started bleeding lightly on the tues rang nhs direct who sent me to out of hours. once there nurse did test and after a long wait (long story) the trainee doc saw me her first words were ' the nurse has done a test and its negative so if you were pregnant your not now. so how does that make you feel' after that i was sent away without any idea of what was going to happen. all in all a traumatic experience made 10 times worse.

That's terrible. I hate the way they call into doubt whether you were pregnant in the first place. If it happened to me again and I thought I needed to be seen I'd go to Darlington instead. This is my complaint letter but I'm still awaiting a response.

SusanC_2

moneysavingfamilycomp wrote: »

its interesting that you ovd quickly i feel as if im about to ov and iv started temping if my af had come when it was supposed to i would of been oving in next couple of days but i was expecting to count first day of mc as cd1 which puts me at cd7 if i hadnt mc i would of been on cd17 and usually ov cd18/19 im very confused by it all.

I think the earlier you miscarry the less disruption to ovulation. I just started charting the day after MC was confirmed and ignored the cycle day numbers. (But I have a much wider range of ovulation than two days so usually go more on symptoms than on counting days anyway.)

moneysavingfamilycomp

hi susan how do i read your letter its just showing blank pg. i think staff should be trained better yes mc is common 1 in 4 apparently but that doesnt make it any less heartbreaking when it happens to you.

SusanC_2

moneysavingfamilycomp wrote: »

hi susan how do i read your letter its just showing blank pg. i think staff should be trained better yes mc is common 1 in 4 apparently but that doesnt make it any less heartbreaking when it happens to you.

You have to highlight it. (I did it in white text which has to be highlighted to be read so that nobody would accidentally read it without wanting to.)

pinkpig08

moneysavingfamilycomp wrote: »

hi susan how do i read your letter its just showing blank pg. i think staff should be trained better yes mc is common 1 in 4 apparently but that doesnt make it any less heartbreaking when it happens to you.

If you click and highlight the whole page the text will show up - it's been whited out.

pinkpig08

This means we're all due December BFPs now! I can't believe how many of us have had AF this month