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Trying for a Baby Part Six

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  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Question based on reading back.
    Does everyones OH know they post on here??
    My OH doesnt know Im on here infact I dont think he knows I even read this site (He just thinks Im a superdooperbargain Shopper :S)
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • smash7
    smash7 Posts: 424 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Hi ladies,

    CD17 for me, feeling better today but my b00bs are a little sore.

    phunkles - My OH knows I go on here. He has looked over my shoulder once, asked what EWCM was :eek: and (needless to say) hasn't looked since:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Q hope you sort everything out with your sisters

    SBDTA xxx
    Que Sera, Sera
  • pinkpig08
    pinkpig08 Posts: 2,829 Forumite
    My DH knows I read on here but I don't think he knows I post. I think he would probably feel the same as debs's OH and think I was slating him.

    I know I shouldn't SS but my b00bs feel a bit more sore than usual (I currently BF my 16 month old), and I've gone off coffee a bit ( went off it with last 2 pgs). I'm trying not to read anything into it though!
    Sealed Pot Challenge #817 £50 banked :)
  • jcr16
    jcr16 Posts: 4,185 Forumite
    oohh perhaps your be our first BFP , when do u test pinkpig ?
  • Good to see you back Phunkles. I was thinking about you last night and wondering where you were. Are you feeling any better?

    I've never told my OH that I post on here or even that this forum exists. He does come on the MSE website and if he saw my user name he would know immediately that it was me. :eek::eek::eek: :rotfl:

    I haven't got anything to hide, but I see this forum as somewhere I can talk about the ups and downs of ttc without bothering him with it all. Sometimes I just need to vent about how frustrating / worrying / exhausting / consuming / confusing it is and to do that to the one you love can sometimes cause them frustration /worry / confusion / hurt. It's a bit like counselling in that you can say what you think and feel without any hurt feelings from the other party.

    I know I'm generalising and sorry if anyone thinks I'm being sexist, but I think women tend to 'talk' more about the things that are happening in their lives, and a lot of people on this thread haven't even told their best friend that they are ttc, so this may be their only outlet.

    I don't know how my OH would feel if he knew I posted on here, but given that I don't think we know anyone on here I don't see the harm.

    Plus, it is good to know there are others in the same boat, and it's a great place to seek advice, and it gives me hope when I see someone who has been trying a while get their BFP :T

    I hope Debs is OK and that she and OH have managed to make up.
  • I know I'm generalising and sorry if anyone thinks I'm being sexist, but I think women tend to 'talk' more about the things that are happening in their lives, and a lot of people on this thread haven't even told their best friend that they are ttc, so this may be their only outlet.

    I completely agree WW, my OH (to my knowledge) never speak to anyone else about ttc. Blokes just don't speak about stuff like that, in my experience. He doesn't know I post on here, I think he'd worry about how obsessed I am with having another baby :p (Who, me?...Never!)
  • Hey ladies, I'm here!

    Well I went through to DHs work to pick him up last night! We stopped off at a service station and had a hot choc and a chat! After a heart to heart and a few tears from me we settled on continuing to TTC and we realise how stressful it is for the both of us!
    also today we had a lazy day and through some pillow talk DH confessed some home truths I was shocked he had never told me before but glad he has now!
    He's asked that I watch what I say as he reads it the wrong way and I understand now why he does! So all systems go here for us! I'm really glad and hope we get a BFP soon, I feel so much closer to him now!!!

    CD14 and 2nd peak on CBFM, ovulation day! 
    :heartsmil Engaged 31st May 2008 :heartsmil
    :heartpuls Married 16th July 2010 :heartpuls

    :rotfl::happyhear TEAM STICKY :happyhear:rotfl:
  • pinkpig08
    pinkpig08 Posts: 2,829 Forumite
    jcr16 wrote: »
    oohh perhaps your be our first BFP , when do u test pinkpig ?

    I 'officially' test on Saturday, but I know I'll never make it that far!
    Sealed Pot Challenge #817 £50 banked :)
  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Just wrote a really long reply and my laptop died cause the power lead fell out :(

    Will rewrite in a bit x
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    phunkles wrote: »
    My OH doesnt know Im on here infact I dont think he knows I even read this site (He just thinks Im a superdooperbargain Shopper :S)
    My DH knows I read various TTC forums, but doesn't know I post:p
    through some pillow talk DH confessed some home truths I was shocked he had never told me before but glad he has now!
    He's asked that I watch what I say as he reads it the wrong way and I understand now why he does! So all systems go here for us! I'm really glad and hope we get a BFP soon, I feel so much closer to him now!!!

    CD14 and 2nd peak on CBFM, ovulation day! 
    Glad it's resolved:)
    Congrats on ov!:T
    phunkles wrote: »
    Just wrote a really long reply and my laptop died cause the power lead fell out :(

    Will rewrite in a bit x
    Still waiting:whistle:
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