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Trying for a Baby Part Six

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  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Deski I really like your signature line :)
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • anderson8
    anderson8 Posts: 1,224 Forumite
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    phunkles wrote: »
    Stupid babycentre ovulation predictor thing has me down as 30thOCt-4th Nov which is mainly what we were basing our next week together on :(

    am actually gutted cd 11 and ov lines im a weirdo :(
    im new to this, is ov day around cd14 on average?
  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Yeah - Im sure some one whos more with it will be along to tell you but yes I think its normally around cd14 on average and then its 2weeks from ov til next af or until you can test :)
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • anderson8
    anderson8 Posts: 1,224 Forumite
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    thanks
    cd11 isnt that bad for ov then, thats just a couple of days out
    this will be my first month of using opk and 3rd cycle of TTC
  • Feanor
    Feanor Posts: 513 Forumite
    anderson8 wrote: »
    thanks
    cd11 isnt that bad for ov then, thats just a couple of days out
    this will be my first month of using opk and 3rd cycle of TTC

    Yeah CD 11 is fine. I Ov'd on 12/13 this month.
    It does depend how long your cycles are though?
    x
  • Lemon_Tree
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    twilight i had a thermometer which used to reset itself at that temp. It was from amazon and i think that temp is the normal body temp.

    my temps dropped today, i knew i should have stopped temping! so i don't think i'll get the ov lines on my chart this month.
  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Thats based on a 28 day cycle - ive been averaging 34 days (average taken from January onwards cycles)
    So to ov on cd 11 means im either going to have a very early af this month or im a freak :(
    Im going with freak - today during the day CM a go -go tonight nothing???And last month does anyone remember??? I had a day of cm then nothing for a week then CM agogo again
    Im definately going with freak - gonna keep piac until I run out of tests and then not bother - been a bit upset tonight over it all :(
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    twi1ight wrote: »
    I've been temping for 5 days now and for 3 of those days my BBT was 96.80. I know it's way too soon to draw conclusions but I wonder if I'm doing something wrong because it seems odd to get the exact same reading. Maybe the thermometer is dodgy. The 2 days which didn't give 96.8, 1 was higher and 1 lower. Confused :/
    Since 2 out of 5 gave you different temps, maybe it's correct?
    has anyone ever had a swollen lymph node in their groin before? i know it can be a secondary fertility sign, but does anyone know when it occurs, is it like ewcm and first comes on a few days before ov or is it like ovulation pain which happens just before or as you ov? :huh::huh::huh: i've got one now but i don't have ewcm at all. :(
    I think it may come from few days before ov, as blood flows to that direction?
    phunkles wrote: »
    am actually gutted cd 11 and ov lines im a weirdo :(
    Unless you temp, you won't know for sure if you ov'd. Sometimes one could get the surge, but don't ov, then it surges again for the second time:o
  • I don't temp because I'm up and down to the loo in the night, I need drinks through the night and I wake up at different times each day, so I don't think the results would be reliable for me.

    CD14 for me and for the past 3 months have had the darkest line on opks on CD14. This month because I had a plan, there has been barely the faintest of lines on the stick for the past 2 days :mad: so I doubt I'm going to get my darkest line today. Why can't mother nature just make this easy?
  • Doglover
    Doglover Posts: 1,024 Forumite
    Good morning lovely ladies! I hope everyone is good - mid week so half way till the weekend, can't be bad.

    I've read back but can't remember specifics but ((hugs)) to mrs - it still isn't over this month yet, phunkles, sorry you're feeling low and QQ I hope your cough isn't too bad now.

    Re OVing, i've piac and my lines seem to be getting lighter but I'll keep going for another 4 or 5 days because I've not had a dark line yet, just darkish. I'm cd15 and now trying to stick to BDing every other day. I think I'll have to start temping soon to get a real idea of what's going on. I'm switching to pineapple now which is quite yummy. I'd forgotten how nice it is actually. If I'm still bfp-less by Dec I'll have to have a break for a couple of months because I need to avoid labour being in Sept - Nov next year. Best laid plans and all that will of course mean that's when I get preg! I'm sure I'll work round it but it wouldn't be an ideal.


    QQ anything to report your end?
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