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Trying for a Baby Part Six

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  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Has the sorest boobs/nipples ever :( my bra actually hurts :(
    And i can smell candyfloss and want some :( but I dont have any and the candyfloss smell is coming from no where :S
    I is a weirdo - off to collect my boots haul back later - probably with a chippy tea (A) what he doesnt know wont hurt him.

    Ive finally managed to convince him to start taking a multivitamin :l
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    jcr16 wrote: »
    my angel is the brightest star that shines in the sky at night and i know she is always with me.
    That's a lovely way to remember your baby:o
    i've looked at the abrivations.the previous post make lots more sence now. i don't do cycle counting or anything. does that matter ? i never have.
    So long as you regularly BD, then no need to count the days.
    It's only for those people who are control freaks - me:p

    My excuse is not having DH who BD regularly. I need to know when I ovulate:o
    phunkles wrote: »
    Has the sorest boobs/nipples ever :( my bra actually hurts :(
    And i can smell candyfloss and want some :( but I dont have any and the candyfloss smell is coming from no where :S
    I is a weirdo - off to collect my boots haul back later - probably with a chippy tea (A) what he doesnt know wont hurt him.

    Ive finally managed to convince him to start taking a multivitamin :l
    SSing?:naughty::D
    Hope it's your bean:)

    How did you convince your DH about multi vits?
  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Im not actually sure to be honest :s i stopped mentioning it to him but casually dropped in mid week that I was pretty sure Im not this month and the next day he rang me in boots asking what should he buy.... I think he thinks its his idea and decision - not that hes as stubborn as me honest.

    Nah im not ssing Im sure Im not to be fair just waiting for AF to appear - am on knicker alert today anyway

    Just finished oh's Xmas shopping :D Just gotta get creative now and make him a I O U a pair of new converse voucher and wrap it all up :D
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • Perdi wrote: »
    Got woken up at ridiculous o'clock by the witch, really bad cramps owwww. Couldn't get back to sleep either. Ended up lying there thinking about how fate isn't kind to people, like some of you lovely ladies and friends who are battling cancer (and a bit of self pity too of course), and questions of faith, and snivelled quietly so as not to wake OH. Very existential. Darn hormones.

    I do that every month too. I sink into my little puddle of misery and think how unfair life can be, and how can people who don't want kids get pg so easily, but those who really want them have to struggle.

    phunkles wrote: »
    Just finished oh's Xmas shopping :D Just gotta get creative now and make him a I O U a pair of new converse voucher and wrap it all up :D

    Ah that is just so unfair, I've only got 1 present so far :eek: I'm off to frantically scour the internet for useless stuff I can buy him in a panic!

    6dpo for me and definately no ss'ing. I've had very sore b o o bs since the day before I ov'd and feel exactly like I did last month, when I was convinced I was pg. So I'm convinced I'm not pg this month and just waiting for AF. Although to be honest I'm finding ttc stressful and distressing, each month seems to lead to a huge row with OH despite my best efforts to not allow it to happen. I don't know if I can take any more of it, I thought ttc was supposed to be fun :(
  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    To be honest - Im not sure how Ive finished :s but it doesnt look very much :s might have to relook at the budget :S he doesnt have any cds/dvds which i buy for me I mean him ahem

    Hugs womble I dont find it as fun anymore as its our main rowing point at the mo :s that and me being kinda touchy over the ttc thing and reading stuff in here and taking it the wrong way no doubt :)
    I dont know this is meant to be a wonderful time but not being pg each month just hurts :(
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • juicygirl
    juicygirl Posts: 658 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    edited 8 October 2010 at 10:41PM
    Hi all,

    Not posted in a while, tried to take a step back from baby making as the main focus in life to see if it took the pressure off a bit. Just been catching up on all the posts I've missed. Hugs to all those who have miscarried, I can't imagine the pain you have all experienced. Praying for healthy pregnancies for you all in the very near future.

    Well, I am no longer a pre seed virgin, tried it for the first time tonight so we'll see what happens. Go Team Sticky!! Not sure if I am OV or not (CD 15), would be quite early for me but then my cycles aren't textbook so who knows. Test strip says no, discharge says yes. Hmmm.

    Good luck to all those BD/ov/testing at the moment xxx
  • Skint_Catt
    Skint_Catt Posts: 11,548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Pre-seed and viagra at the ready here & have been both mooching over the Mothercare catalogue :o - my OH likes lights that change colour so he's already got a bookmark at the Globag nursery thermometer :rotfl:

    fingers crossed this weekend is our weekend :o

    SBDTA xx
  • phunkles
    phunkles Posts: 1,711 Forumite
    Think im going to take a few days break from here.
    I think I need to be taken off the testing list too :(been spotting I think tonight so no doubt by morning AF will be here feeling really deflated and a bit upset :s have turned my phone off and msn is set to offline dont know what to say to oh :( truely feel like I havent before :(

    When I come back I want to see no one here you hear me lovelies
    sbdta xxx
    Love is the answer. At least for most of the questions in my heart,
    Like why are we here? And where do we go?And how come it's so hard?
    It's not always easy,And sometimes life can be deceiving,
    I'll tell you one thing, its always better when we're together
  • Mrs_White
    Mrs_White Posts: 30 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary
    Sorry for going AWOL for a few days ladies, have been wondering round in a bit of a shocked happy daze! And feeling very tired.

    However I just wanted to thank you all for your warm welcome, the support during my unexpectedly short stay here, and the lovely kind words on my BFP, especially QQuaver, Wonder Womble, Perdi, Ddebski, Fanta, cleomolly, Skinty, Deb, Pebbles, Lemon Tree, Greener, Puzzled, Always_Alone, little angel, pinkpig and mrsvicx.
    I didn't expect my stay to be so short! I have been very blessed. I'll still lurk from time to time though if that's ok - I can't wait for the rest of you to get your BFPs! :)
    And meanwhile I'll have Fanta and Madbird to keep me company on the less than 12 weeks thread - see the rest of you there very soon I hope!

    Sticky baby dust to all xx
  • phunkles wrote: »
    Think im going to take a few days break from here.
    I think I need to be taken off the testing list too :(been spotting I think tonight so no doubt by morning AF will be here feeling really deflated and a bit upset :s have turned my phone off and msn is set to offline dont know what to say to oh :( truely feel like I havent before :(

    When I come back I want to see no one here you hear me lovelies
    sbdta xxx

    (((((((HUGS)))))) Phunkles, sorry to hear that. The disappointment is heart breaking each month, hope you're ok.

    phunkles wrote: »
    Hugs womble I dont find it as fun anymore as its our main rowing point at the mo :s that and me being kinda touchy over the ttc thing and reading stuff in here and taking it the wrong way no doubt :)
    I dont know this is meant to be a wonderful time but not being pg each month just hurts :(

    Yeah, it just causes lots of aggro between AF and ov time, we usually have an almighty row which means we don't DTD early enough of often enough. :(

    QQuaver wrote: »
    Don't know how to make DH feel less pressured though...

    I don't think you can. I've tried all ways .... not telling him when I'm ov'ing .... telling him well in advance when I'll be ov'ing ..... waiting until just before to tell him I'm ov'ing ...... as my OH says, the pressure will only go once I'm pg.
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