Trying for a Baby Part Six

2522laura

RebekahR wrote: »

Sounds like it to me! Esp with the rise;)

Do you think its worth DTD tonight as well? I'll be surpirsed if it happens at all this cycle, sooo stressed out at the moment. Have an ongoing fued with BT engineer charges for the wiring in their junction box coming loose!!!!!!:mad:

sexymouse

Would you like to be put on the list divorcingjack? I know how tough it feels - there seem to be babies everywhere at the moment where I live, and one of my friends is going to be trying for number 2 soon!

RebekahR

2522laura wrote: »

Do you think its worth DTD tonight as well? I'll be surpirsed if it happens at all this cycle, sooo stressed out at the moment. Have an ongoing fued with BT engineer charges for the wiring in their junction box coming loose!!!!!!:mad:

Oh dear! My job involves booking those engineeer visits!:eek:

Well technically if you have already ovulated then its either too late or a low chance.
The egg once it comes out lives for 12-24 hours.
That is the question I was asking myself yesterday when I only had a half rise whether to bonk or not lol. I was going to as I sometimes ovulate on the half rise day. But today for me shows a full rise. So I dunno tbh. I would say too late after the rise unless you had done it in the morning even thats pushing it and assuming the egg was released later in the day. If you get my drift!

divorcingjack

sexymouse wrote: »

Would you like to be put on the list divorcingjack? I know how tough it feels - there seem to be babies everywhere at the moment where I live, and one of my friends is going to be trying for number 2 soon!

Hi sexymouse - that would be great, thanks! I am on the massive list on the first page, but add me to anything else that's going

Hugs for being surrounded by babies - 3 of my work colleagues are preggers just now! :eek:

dj x

2522laura

RebekahR wrote: »

Oh dear! My job involves booking those engineeer visits!:eek:

Well technically if you have already ovulated then its either too late or a low chance.
The egg once it comes out lives for 12-24 hours.
That is the question I was asking myself yesterday when I only had a half rise whether to bonk or not lol. I was going to as I sometimes ovulate on the half rise day. But today for me shows a full rise. So I dunno tbh. I would say too late after the rise unless you had done it in the morning even thats pushing it and assuming the egg was released later in the day. If you get my drift!

We did it Saturday and Sunday so hopefully we caught it in time! I might go POAS when I get home to see what the OPK shows.

What is you opinion with BT then, if the fault is caused by a wire coming loose in the junction box on the front of the house surely thats down to BT to fix as its their property? Oh I give up

RebekahR

We are told that ... the main master socket and extensions in the property are chargeable. If you have a test socket behind the main faceplate of the master socket that unscrews that is not. So basically test socket out to the line is considered "the line" and they are to mend with no charges applied. If its the socket itself that has been unscrewed so the faceplate or extensions they are chargeable. Anything behind that unscrewed bit isn't. As it sounds outside the house it should be free! I would remind them of that ;-) That it's outside the property and therefore not chargeable!! Did they say why it is to be charged?

2522laura

RebekahR wrote: »

We are told that ... the main master socket and extensions in the property are chargeable. If you have a test socket behind the main faceplate of the master socket that unscrews that is not. So basically test socket out to the line is considered "the line" and they are to mend with no charges applied. If its the socket itself that has been unscrewed so the faceplate or extensions they are chargeable. Anything behind that unscrewed bit isn't. As it sounds outside the house it should be free! I would remind them of that ;-) That it's outside the property and therefore not chargeable!! Did they say why it is to be charged?

Yeah I said that in an email with executive complaints. The problem is we have two lines coming from the junction box outside and the wire that came loose is the extension that goes upstairs but to me that should still be covered by BT as it is the wire in the junction box thats loose, not the wire into the socket itself. I think I am just going to have to give up. As its executive level now no one else from BT will discuss it with me and the lady I was dealing with in executive complaints is just ignoring me now and says if I want to take it further I have to take the case outside of BT. I've got 2 hopes of getting my £130 back! I think I will send letters out to OFCOM etc and copy them in to Warren the MD at BT and the lady I have been dealing with

RebekahR

Yea ofcom it is. Wowser. So they are making the junction box part of the internal wiring. Our junction box is in the house in the garage. Hmmz not sure about those tbh. So the master socket works but the extension doesn't? If thats the case sounds chargeable. TBH I would have just use the master and ran and extension cable upstairs from the master!Thats some hefty charge. Another alternative is to seek out a private electrical engineer who would have charged faaaaar less. Sounds like a bit late for you though.

lisa26_2

divorcingjack wrote: »

Just started temping with FF and my chart has gone mental - temps all over the place! Now, somehow I have managed to train myself into waking up every morning at 3.30am and I can't get out of the habit, so all my notes have 2 temperatures!! :mad:

One set shows a dip and then declining temps for the last 3 days and the other shows no dip and increasing temps! AAAAARRGHHH! Now I have brown CM but no AF and it's only 10dpo and I'm paranoid I have a short LP. Temps still above coverline though and AF not due till next week!

dj x

Don't temp twice!! If you always wake up at 3.30 either do it then or when you wake up to get up, as long as you've had atleast 3 hours unbroken sleep! I regularly wake up at some stupid time of the night and end up doing my temp then as I get up at 6am so unless its before 3am that I wake I wouldn't be getting 3 more hours before its time to get up.

divorcingjack

Thanks Lisa! I'm so paranoid that if I decide to just take it at 3.30, then I'll stop waking up! And, all my pre-ov temps were at 6.10am.

Of course, I'm awake till about 4-4.30 and then my husbands alarm goes off at 6.10am so that wakes me - only 2 hours of sleep. I just realised as well that we've changed our sleeping arrangements in the last 3 days (when my temps have gone all wacky) - hubs is sleeping on a different mattress due to neck pain and I'm sleeping on a different side which is a different firmness level.

Could the lack of his body heat affect my BBT? Google doesn't know

So, should I go back to my chart and put all the middle of the night temps in?! :eek: