Trying for a Baby Part Six

deborahmcgeachy

Oh sorry Greener I think that might have been me. I sneezed on my keyboard last night. Sounds like you caught it! LOL!

Jen151

hello Linz *big hugs* glad you came out of lurking

maybe you will fall pg next month and your sis and you can be pg together? who knows! you're in good company here anyway as we're all in the same boat xx

bring on the October conceptions! x

QQuaver

Greener_Grass wrote: »

This sums up how i feel perfectly :rotfl:

No idea whats going on, You should see my chart, it is the most rediculous looking thing ever :eek: my temps are haywire :cool:

I seem to have another cold! :eek: I just recovered from the last one by a couple of days and i'm sniffing again! Not fair!

I've seen your chart. To me, it looks like you either haven't ov'd yet or you are temping wrong:o

Take care with your cold, it seems to be going around this thread:p

LoopyLinz wrote: »

I am happy for them both but I feel like my heart has been ripped out. Dont think I have ever felt so low in my life.

Only cure for that is to get BFP now:o

Greener_Grass

Debs did you catch it off me then give it back to me? :rotfl:

QQ how could I take my temp wrong :huh: I think the reason its so messed up is that i wake up lots during the night so not having consistent sleep and i also wake up at a different time each day? :huh: If i haven't OV'd i'd better make up with OH then :cool:

LoopyLinz, please stay out of hiding! I can imagine how you are feeling, i would be the exact same. As someone already said we are all in the same boat so completly understand Feel free to rant away

carolineb23

Linz I feel your pain I really do. My best friend is pregnant (didn't tell me for 13 weeks because she was worried she'd upset me after the ectopic) and I have just gone into meltdown. I am so upset and angry and jealous and I really don't know what to do. I can't face her, the thought of seeing her with her bump, knowing in 5 weeks I should be having a baby is going to kill me. If anyone has any advice on how to get over this I could really use it, because at the moment I feel like I can't see her until I'm pregnant because I feel so inadequate. She just thinks I'm cutting her out of my life, but really I'm just trying to avoid any more pain.
I was feeling quite positive for this cycle but am not any more, have had cramps for days now and I'm sure it's af on her way (due next wed (I think). Boobs still hurt and feel heavy and I seem to have a lot of cm but to be honest I couldn't tell you if that is normal for me!
Hope you are all feeling more positive than me!

fantafan

((Hugs)) Caroline. It broke my heart when BFF go pg when wasn't trying, had just got divorced, wasn't in a good place (ie living with me) and there was me married, home, job, happy and no bubba on board. Every week I saw her get bigger and bigger and my jealousy and envy was there. When baby kicked she wanted me to feel and I did half-heartedly and prayed she wouldn't ask DH to feel it too. Then she had a girl (so what I wanted) - it all seemed against me. But, I went to visit and see the baby and how thought how could I resent her that happiness. When I explained to DH what I felt before I went up, he said "one day" and I kept that hope.

I know it's heart-breaking, I've been there (apart from the EP so sorry on that one) but really you wouldn't want to not be in this childs life would you? Your time will come again and remember that true friends are just family you choose. (mushy sorry). Dust yourself down girl and think pro-active PMA = YOU WILL GET PREGNANT, YOU DID IT BEFORE

Hope that helps x

QQuaver

Greener_Grass wrote: »

QQ how could I take my temp wrong :huh: I think the reason its so messed up is that i wake up lots during the night so not having consistent sleep and i also wake up at a different time each day? :huh: If i haven't OV'd i'd better make up with OH then :cool:

Temping at different times, not sleeping enough (solid 3hrs at least), excessively moving while sleeping, not taking temps in the same place (in the mouth), dry mouth, sleeping with mouth open, not taking first thing without moving etc.

There is another way, vaginal temping...

carolineb23 wrote: »

I can't face her, the thought of seeing her with her bump, knowing in 5 weeks I should be having a baby is going to kill me.

There's no way of feeling fine, expect being pg yourself:o

QQuaver

fantafan wrote: »

Dust yourself down girl and think pro-active PMA = YOU WILL GET PREGNANT, YOU DID IT BEFORE

:T:T:T

Come on ovaries!!!

Always_Alone

Grrr, game over for me this time, AF reared her extremly annoying unwelcome ugly head (albeit very lightly so far) on day 45 :mad:

Why oh why can't i have 'normal' 28 day cycles with clear signs of OV?!?:mad:

Grrrrrrrrrrr, sorry ladies, just needed to vent

QQuaver

Always_Alone wrote: »

Grrr, game over for me this time, AF reared her extremly annoying unwelcome ugly head (albeit very lightly so far) on day 45 :mad:

Why oh why can't i have 'normal' 28 day cycles with clear signs of OV?!?:mad:

You and Clarieloo are my cycle buddies:o