Trying for a Baby Part Six

x_Charlie_x

bigzippy wrote: »

I know! She finally went for her MRI last night, and then it ended! I neeeeed to know!!!

Farrah makes me want to give her a slap half the time...ditto Amber and Gary. But I get why they're like that. It's a shame for them. Tyler's well sweet. And no, I wouldn't be able to do it either.

"GARRRRRRRRRRRRYYYYYY, GAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRYYYY" I'm so glad I don't know anyone called Gary as I would just have Amber's voice going over in my head :mad:

TBH, This series im only really interested in Ali. I'm not really liking any of the couples....Jenelle is the WORST....Chelsea and Adam's story bores me....Leah is annoying....and the girl with Joe annoys me,lol

*Hugs*- are you feeling any better today?

2ba3c wrote: »

Evening all!

I've had a truly fabulous rest of the day, day lolling around in my PJs, on the sofa watching (crying through) teen Mom, and having lunch and dinner cooked for me, by my wonderfully caring DW whilst listening to the rain outside. Thank goodness for not going to work today.

I am drinking a glass of wine and have chocolate lineed up beside me for the evening ahead!! It has been just the medicine after a spectaularly crap morning at the doctors (going to make an official complaint) whereby I walked out in tears and DW (who is very calm and not at all violent) wanted to go in and give him a piece of her mind. I wouldnt mind, but I saw him once before and detested him, and when I had to see a doctor this morning at short notice, and he was the only one available - and as it has been at least 2 years since I last saw him, I had hoped he had changed. No such luck.

I have a doctor at my surgery who did that to me a couple of years ago. She was so rude and I just cried and felt awful when I left. I saw her afterwards and she was still just as rude. I even went with my OH once and he agreed she had an attitude with me. Since then I will not see her, if I can't get an appointment with anyone else I would rather wait till I can. And it's funny cause I know i'm not the only one, I notice when I call up she is the only one ever with any appointments if it's for that day! And if I ask if there is anyone else available the receptionist laughs cause I think she knows she isn't too popular

I agree with Emsbet, it puzzles me why she is in a customer facing profession where she is meant to want to help people, yet she couldn't seem more opposite!

Try not to worry, I'm sure your not the only one who has had problems with him. Maybe if you have to see him again you will be more prepared to stand up for yourself

Hi Scarly

Sexymouse-Thanks for updating the list! I tend to forget what day i'm on so I always just go by QQ's list


Emmylou & purplepink- Good luck! I hope your TLP's turn into BFP's!! :j


CD16 here, i'm not even bothering with if I ov/when I ov'd as I'm assuming im not and won't be getting pregnant until I get some help with my PCO. I keep meaning to temp (not sure if there's any point though?!!) but still keep forgetting every morning!!! :mad:

Ohh, my OH got his sprerm results back from the doctor on Thursday (the day after he sent them!!). They are completely normal, but he has tested positive for antibodies. The doc didn't seem to know what it meant or didn't have any more info so is looking into it for us. We had a look online though and it seems if it's a low count of antibodies there shouldn't be a problem, but if the level is high they will be attacking and killing all the sperm I guess so the only way would be IVF . Hopefully we can find out the level he had. I'm guessing if he had a normal sperm count the antibodies must be low or he would have had a low sperm count?!?! Hopefully we will find out soon anyway!

x_Charlie_x

emmylou83 wrote: »

Nope, unfortunately i`m a bit addicted to POS lmao so that was my last one, typical!!!! I`ve left it for now and will got look at it in amin to see it the line has "firmed up" haha! Will let u know! xx

Buy one, buy one, buy one :j

emsbet

Emmylou and Purplepink - they are expensive but a CB digi is good if you are only having a faint line as it will say "pregnant" or "not pregnant" so there's no trying to look at a fuzzy line.

:hello: Hello Lucy and Sacha.

Lucy if AF is due this weekend I would wait until Monday maybe to test.

Charlie sorry your doctor didn't give you much information. I'll keep my fingers crossed you hubby's got low antibodies. Either way I hope they don't keep you waiting long for the answers.

Zippy hope you are ok my dear.

xx

mishkanorman

emmylou, a dark blur could be an evap line - has it dried any better ?

:j im liking the possible positives we are getting at the moment :j

x_Charlie_x

emsbet wrote: »

Charlie sorry your doctor didn't give you much information. I'll keep my fingers crossed you hubby's got low antibodies. Either way I hope they don't keep you waiting long for the answers.

Thanks. He will be my hubby in 4 weeks today :eek:

How are you feeling today? Did you ever phone up and check if you were ok to BD again? I always keep reading they would advise you not to because it's hard to date if you were to get preg the following cycle?

x

emsbet

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

Thanks. He will be my hubby in 4 weeks today :eek:

Eeeek! How exciting! :j Hope you have a lovely day, it'll be here before you know it! I can't believe we've been married almost 3 months now! :eek: Don't know where the time goes!

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

How are you feeling today? Did you ever phone up and check if you were ok to BD again? I always keep reading they would advise you not to because it's hard to date if you were to get preg the following cycle?

I'm not too bad this morning. Been a rough couple of days. I thought I'd be ok once I'd had a cry but these hormones have more of an effect than I thought they would!
I didn't call back no. I think I am going to test during the week to see how the line looks. I think as long as there is a certain level of HCG in my blood I won't ov anyway. From what I've been reading the main reason they tell you to wait is so it makes it easier for them to date but with scanning technology today that's not so much a problem.
I'm looking at it as they didn't say not to start again and if it was a big problem one of the three people I spoke to should have said something.

My boobs were so sore last night round the nipples and I had ov type pains but I can't have been ov-ing I don't think as I had sticky CM (sorry TMI) which isn't fertile. *sigh* I don't know

Started temping again this morning and my temp is a bit high (and above my coverline) so I guess there are still hormones floating around in my system.

xx

x_Charlie_x

emsbet wrote: »

Eeeek! How exciting! :j Hope you have a lovely day, it'll be here before you know it! I can't believe we've been married almost 3 months now! :eek: Don't know where the time goes!



I'm not too bad this morning. Been a rough couple of days. I thought I'd be ok once I'd had a cry but these hormones have more of an effect than I thought they would!
I didn't call back no. I think I am going to test during the week to see how the line looks. I think as long as there is a certain level of HCG in my blood I won't ov anyway. From what I've been reading the main reason they tell you to wait is so it makes it easier for them to date but with scanning technology today that's not so much a problem.
I'm looking at it as they didn't say not to start again and if it was a big problem one of the three people I spoke to should have said something.

My boobs were so sore last night round the nipples and I had ov type pains but I can't have been ov-ing I don't think as I had sticky CM (sorry TMI) which isn't fertile. *sigh* I don't know

Started temping again this morning and my temp is a bit high (and above my coverline) so I guess there are still hormones floating around in my system.

xx

Thanks, I really can't believe how quickly time is going!! I just can't wait for the day to get here so I can stop stressing about everything

I guess if you just carry on as normal this cycle, BD whenever you and you DH want and just see what happens. I've heard your meant to be more fertile after a miscarriage so you never know. You may just ov later. Hopefully next cycle your body will have sorted itself out *hugs* x

emsbet

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

Thanks, I really can't believe how quickly time is going!! I just can't wait for the day to get here so I can stop stressing about everything

It is stressful waiting for the big day. I was a nervous wreck the week before our wedding but then on the day I woke up and the nerves were completely gone!
I guess your TTC concerns and tests won't be helping. Try to take some time out for yourself and just relax.

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

I guess if you just carry on as normal this cycle, BD whenever you and you DH want and just see what happens. I've heard your meant to be more fertile after a miscarriage so you never know. You may just ov later. Hopefully next cycle your body will have sorted itself out *hugs* x

I think that's what we will do. I'm going to temp but I'm not going to use opks because there is no point while hormones are still floating around as they will constantly test +ve.

xx

x_Charlie_x

emsbet wrote: »

It is stressful waiting for the big day. I was a nervous wreck the week before our wedding but then on the day I woke up and the nerves were completely gone!
I guess your TTC concerns and tests won't be helping. Try to take some time out for yourself and just relax.



I think that's what we will do. I'm going to temp but I'm not going to use opks because there is no point while hormones are still floating around as they will constantly test +ve.

xx

I think I will still be a nervous wreck until the ceremony is over. Then I think i'll relax and enjoy the rest of the day. We aren't really centre of attention people so it's going to be strange for both of us! Did you have a videographer? I'm really not sure whether to go for one as a couple of people I know said the video is better than their pics...

I hope your hormones settle down soon so you can start feeling better . You do seem to be coping so well. I don't think I could face this thread for months if I had lost a little beany

I wonder how emmylou is getting on?

Ok, really must get on with some housework...can't sit on here all day as tempting as it is!!

I hope you are sticking your feet up Emsbet with a cup of tea and your ginger choc biccies

emsbet

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

I think I will still be a nervous wreck until the ceremony is over. Then I think i'll relax and enjoy the rest of the day. We aren't really centre of attention people so it's going to be strange for both of us! Did you have a videographer? I'm really not sure whether to go for one as a couple of people I know said the video is better than their pics...

We didn't have an official one as Im like you not one to like all the attention but DH's aunt did a video (not seen it yet) bt it didn't include the ceremony. She was very discreet and I hardly noticed her.

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

I hope your hormones settle down soon so you can start feeling better . You do seem to be coping so well. I don't think I could face this thread for months if I had lost a little beany

Thanks. I'm finding this thread helps me especially as we want to get on and try again, but then everyone is different with how they deal with things. There's no right or wrong way. It's just not in my nature to sit and wait. I find it easier to cope with things if I can "do" something about it.

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

I wonder how emmylou is getting on?

Me too! And Purplepink! Come on girls give us some good news!

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

I hope you are sticking your feet up Emsbet with a cup of tea and your ginger choc biccies

I'm still in bed - going to get up soon and do some housework too.

xx