I want to leave my Army husband...help

Savvy_Spender_South

Sorry, not old, i miss-read the date on origional post, seems it is current.

If i can offer help to the originator, get in touch direct... i am more in the know than i can post openly for this issue.

Gorgeous_George

For better for worse...

GG

Kavanne

Gorgeous_George wrote: »

For better for worse...

GG

Oh please! No need to stir. Jeez

Gorgeous_George

Sorry, I don't mean to stir but why is the answer almost always divorce. Whatever happened to commitment and working at relationships.

If divorce is the answer then so be it but working at it could be a better option for all involved.

GG

shelley_crow

Gorgeous_George wrote: »

For better for worse...

GG

Whatever happened to forsaking all others? He's committed adultery twice.

EmmEve

I imagine some people are far to hurt to carry on committing themselves to a relationship where their partner has cheated on them, TWICE!

Bargainbabe_2

Whilst I do agree that people give up on marriage far too readily and easily these days, adultery x2 is a step too far IMO.
A relationship is primarily based on trust. He's smashed that up twice. Just how much do you think one should take before throwing in the towel?
I'm quite sure the OP isn't doing this on a whim.

helsee

Gorgeous_George wrote: »

Sorry, I don't mean to stir but why is the answer almost always divorce. Whatever happened to commitment and working at relationships.

If divorce is the answer then so be it but working at it could be a better option for all involved.

GG

the poster doesnt seem to be at the decision stage...she has decided and is looking for advice and support.

We have to have faith in that the poster has made the right decision for her, probably after much soul searching.

lee634

Gorgeous_George wrote: »

Sorry, I don't mean to stir but why is the answer almost always divorce. Whatever happened to commitment and working at relationships.

If divorce is the answer then so be it but working at it could be a better option for all involved.

GG

Who are we to judge, and start talking about commitment and working at it, we are clearly here to give advice on the question asked,

The OP stated she wanted to leave here husband not "please give me YOUR opinion on leaving my husband"

unless you are going to answer the question like i did in post 2 or 3 i think it is, then the best thing to do is not say anything

phil1968_2

Judging by your side of the story, he sounds like a proper !!!!!!. Who knows. perhaps the start of divorce proceedings will cause him to see what he has got to lose, although he will probably think of his pension getting smaller and the money he will have to pay in child support first. I hope things work out for you.