The Bankrupt Inn - Part 8

Angiepange

Geoff_n_Nat wrote: »

She's ok, and she smiled today . She's worried about OR. But we haven't lied about anything so she'll be OK. She's not very open about her depression, none of her family know, she can pretend to be Ok with them, just me and a few close friends of mine know. She's had it for 6 years and I've coped with it on my own till I told a close friend of mine a couple of months ago cos I couldn't cope anymore. We were close to splitting up, especially with the pressure claim4refunds put on. Hopefully the fresh start will put her on the road to recovery, cos without all the s##t we're great together!!

You sound like a lovely couple, and if you can get through this, which you will, you can get through anything. Love to you both x

Geoff_n_Nat wrote: »

She didn't put her health down as a reason on BR forms but I did on mine. My OR appointment is a couple of hours before hers, and we have the same OR so I'll explain all and hopefully pave the way for Nat

That sounds good. As you are first to go, it will give you a chance to fill in all the background and make it easier for Nat. In our OR interviews, I went first as I had more of a grip on dates, amounts that sort of thing. But I still got quite tearful at one point and the OR was very understanding. He gave me a break and rang me back to continue. They are just doing a job and are not there to judge you.

My husbands interview was alot shorter as I had filled in most of the info. In fact he was very amenable with my hubby, even got him talking about his time in the forces and fighting in the Falklands war!!!! I would never have expected that!!!!!

You will both be fine x

Geoff_n_Nat

Thanks Angie you're a diamond . I really must sleep now as i've been awake for 20 hours!!!!!!! I'll be about tomorrow so will probably catch up with you!! Thanks for the chat it was nice!!! Take care and sleep well, Geoff

Angiepange

Geoff_n_Nat wrote: »

Thanks Angie you're a diamond . I really must sleep now as i've been awake for 20 hours!!!!!!! I'll be about tomorrow so will probably catch up with you!! Thanks for the chat it was nice!!! Take care and sleep well, Geoff

No worries x

20 hours :eek:

Sleep well too Geoff. Might catch you tomorrow

Sunnylooloo

Eeeek Angie you were up late! and Geoff! I was well in the land of nod while you were still posting!

Falze

Early start at work today, already seems like Lunch time.

Long day today

Falze

Oh yeah - morning all

Sunnylooloo

I am hopefully off to the pub at lunchtime today......... roll on 12

Angiepange

Sunnylooloo wrote: »

Eeeek Angie you were up late! and Geoff! I was well in the land of nod while you were still posting!

Morning all *bleary eyed and tired*

Had a rubbish nights sleep so im putting on some strong black coffee on. Anyone care for a cup?

Sunnylooloo

yes please

I'm been busy this morning booking flights left right and centre!

Angiepange

Sunnylooloo wrote: »

yes please

I'm been busy this morning booking flights left right and centre!

Hi Loo :A, glad you can join me x

I have read your wonderful thread but cant do it justice with a reply just yet, as im still half asleep and brain wont work !! Will sort that later after a few more cups. And yay November christmas :j x