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Fit for anything Friday 13th August Daily Chat

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  • Butti
    Butti Posts: 5,014 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    edited 13 August 2010 at 10:32AM

    He said last night I was a 'mug' and 'stupid' for not wanting to pursue the RNLI job. I said that perhaps his answer should have been 'well done, you deserve it and I will back you with your decision'.

    I always seem to come to these discussions very late but I do have;
    1. Painting to do
    2. Grouting to do

    I think BB's OH has a certain charm. He's like the complete opposite of positive so consistantly EVERY SINGLE TIME.

    Sorry BB - I probably shouldn't comment as I know neither of you....BUT you seem really nice.

    B
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  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Kayleigh, I agree with the others. I was left some money from my grandad when I was a baby, and used it to buy my first car so I could get to sixth form. I had to sell my car to pay some debts, and feel bad that I don't have anything to remember him by, but because of the money I got my A levels, and I'm sure he wouldn't have wanted me to struggle with debt.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    4) Chatted online with a friend to help her figure out her options for a career change.
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Ames wrote: »
    Kayleigh, I agree with the others. I was left some money from my grandad when I was a baby, and used it to buy my first car so I could get to sixth form. I had to sell my car to pay some debts, and feel bad that I don't have anything to remember him by, but because of the money I got my A levels, and I'm sure he wouldn't have wanted me to struggle with debt.

    My Granda paid into an insurance thing which matured when I was 16.....I never saw the money as my Dad decided he needed it more that I did:o

    Never did tell my Granda
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • oh Lou, thats awful.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Pooky
    Pooky Posts: 7,023 Forumite
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    How lovely to have the chance to get yourself debt free Kayleigh. :j

    My parents did the insurance policy thing when I was little but had to cash it in to get my secondary school uniform as it was so expensive :eek:

    Just picked in another 2kilos of runner beans, 600gms of blackberries, 1 large courgette, 1 tomato and 5 blueberries. :T
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
  • Been on hold for 30 mins so far to Tax Credits.
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    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    oh Lou, thats awful.

    Yup, I guess that is one of the reasons why I am so determined to give my kids a good start.

    Every single thing we have we have worked for ourselves, I have had money taken from my purse as a teenager and made to hand pay packets over from a Saturday job while someone indulged in expensive hobbies.

    Not so much as a Birthday card or even Christmas card has come any of our ways for years.

    My Mam has grown in strength now but for years I held onto resentment for her not being strong enought to stand up to his behaviour.

    frickin hell, where did that come from:eek::o:rotfl:

    I just got word that I have been accepted onto the final year of a BA (hons) course, just the small matter of having to pass my exams which the results are out on Monday and this time next year I will be graduating with an honours degree in accounting and finance.

    I couldnt afford my first graduation for teaching so I shall be having a party for this one:beer:
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • Party at Looooooou's!!!!
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Party at Looooooou's!!!!

    Do you know what? We have a lovely village hall just like the one for your 40th so it may just be Party ON!:D
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
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