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Single, pregnant. Some advice would be appreciated :)

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  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    There is such a thing as compassion. It would appear this lady has had a loss in her life and is trying to do the best she can, cut her some slack.
  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    If you look back further in the thread I think you will find that the father is no longer with us.
    I don't think that was what Arg was talking about.
    Under the current rules any child support that a parent with care gets doesn't affect their benefits, so why should a NRP pay.....:silenced:
    *SIGH*
    :D
  • looby75
    looby75 Posts: 23,387 Forumite
    DX2 wrote: »
    I don't think that was what Arg was talking about.
    Under the current rules any child support that a parent with care gets doesn't affect their benefits, so why should a NRP pay.....:silenced:
    because a lot of NRP actually want to help support their children and want them to have the best start in life as possible, even if they aren't in a relationship with the other parent anymore.
  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    poet123 wrote: »
    There is such a thing as compassion. It would appear this lady has had a loss in her life and is trying to do the best she can, cut her some slack.
    However no one was aware of this until post #14, I'm pretty sure if people were aware of the situation in the opening post the responses would have been different.
    *SIGH*
    :D
  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    looby75 wrote: »
    because a lot of NRP actually want to help support their children and want them to have the best start in life as possible, even if they aren't in a relationship with the other parent anymore.
    :rotfl::rotfl:Looby so if this was the case there would be no reason to have the child support agency.
    *SIGH*
    :D
  • looby75
    looby75 Posts: 23,387 Forumite
    DX2 wrote: »
    :rotfl::rotfl:Looby so if this was the case there would be no reason to have the child support agency.
    I think that the horror stories of NRP trying to avoid paying a penny towards their child/rens up keep are probably on par with the horror stories about single mothers only getting pg to get a council house and benefits.

    It does happen, but not as often as the media would have you believe ;)
  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    looby75 wrote: »
    I think that the horror stories of NRP trying to avoid paying a penny towards their child/rens up keep are probably on par with the horror stories about single mothers only getting pg to get a council house and benefits.

    It does happen, but not as often as the media would have you believe ;)
    I was speaking from personal experience :D
    *SIGH*
    :D
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  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    I don't think the OP is eligible as she did say "partner" in one of her posts so I'm assuming they weren't married?
    *SIGH*
    :D
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