Special Official Note For Mortgage Brokers

MortgageMamma

kenshaz wrote:

Please confirm posts deemed by other brokers to be personal,names ,and posts,and links to posts.
I have never sent you a PM,and you have never witnessed my username in your box,and I would be happy for any examination of my PM file,I believe your statement to be untrue ,and I will not descend to another level.I have nothing to defend ,I have never gained from this site,or conducted busines

The fact that I have two industry professionals here on the thread now, asking you exactly what your issue is with me, and why you are making an issue out of something that I have previously posted, which I may or may not go along with is enough proof to anyone that you are being personal.

I am still convinced you have PM'd me for advice. I know I have certainly crossed paths with yo previously, perhaps I have helped you on a thread on the mortgages board who knows. Quite frankly, it isn't a big enough issue for me to bother checking back through hundreds of threads to prove the point.

I am not carrying on this conversation with you any further as its irrelevant and I am going to bed, but I would suggest that in future if you want to pick bones or try to berate someone without justification you have the integrity to do it via PM rather embarass yourself doing it publicly.

kenshaz

homer_j wrote:

and? yesterday i decided to leave this post alone until martin came back to it - today i decided to post - whats the issue here, are you upset that mm didnt post to say she had decided to change her mind?

I have no emotion in relation to this issue.MM decided that she wanted to change her username,that was her decision and post not mine,when someone states an intention then they carry it out,if not then their future words or intentions have less credence.Please do not bring emotive adjectives relating to my feelings into this discussion

regularsaver1

homer-j - yes us women change our minds - quite frequently infact :P

homer_j_3

no I do not believe for one second that one post like that will have that effect, we all have bad days and I know the quality of advice and help that MM gives.

You have a 27% thank you rate on here and have been established here for nearly 2.5 years. MM has somewhere around a 41% thank rate and she has been on here 9 months.

All I am saying is "big deal" MM has said something that has no direct bearing on anybody else other than herself and you are getting upset because she hasnt carried out her namechange.

Not really the worse thing she could do is it?

kenshaz

MortgageMamma wrote:

The fact that I have two industry professionals here on the thread now, asking you exactly what your issue is with me, and why you are making an issue out of something that I have previously posted, which I may or may not go along with is enough proof to anyone that you are being personal.

I am still convinced you have PM'd me for advice. I know I have certainly crossed paths with yo previously, perhaps I have helped you on a thread on the mortgages board who knows. Quite frankly, it isn't a big enough issue for me to bother checking back through hundreds of threads to prove the point.

I am not carrying on this conversation with you any further as its irrelevant and I am going to bed, but I would suggest that in future if you want to pick bones or try to berate someone without justification you have the integrity to do it via PM rather embarass yourself doing it publicly.

I will never engage in Pm's with you and never will and never have,you make statements that are vague and unconfirmed.I will progress my views in open forum,as is my right and once again I will not make personal references,and let others form their conclusions.I have nothing to gain or lose,some on this thread have by their own admissions conducted business and had financial gain.

dunstonh

Ok, this is boring. Im off to watch 3 episodes of spooks which i recorded so i didnt have to wait for the cliffhanger (which is a bit stupid really as the last cliffhanger made us wait a year ) - actually what that really means is that I watch one episode and then fall asleep sometime during the second. Then around 3pm I will get a shove from the wife to turn the TV off

This thread was getting so boring, i thought I would just stick with that tone.

NN all.

kenshaz

regularsaver1 wrote:

homer-j - yes us women change our minds - quite frequently infact :P

That is a sexist statement,and bears no relevance to the discussion

regularsaver1

kenshaz wrote:

That is a sexist statement,and bears no relevance to the discussion

What? I was making that statement in response to homer-j about women changing their minds. I could have thought that was sexist - but knew it was light hearted.

Homer-j 's comment:
"I still dont understand why you have highlighted mm for not changing her name - one of the few things I do understand about the female mind is that they do frequently change their minds... "

I am female - so can joke that I change my mind - and other women too - again a joke. not sexist at all

kenshaz

homer_j wrote:

no I do not believe for one second that one post like that will have that effect, we all have bad days and I know the quality of advice and help that MM gives.

You have a 27% thank you rate on here and have been established here for nearly 2.5 years. MM has somewhere around a 41% thank rate and she has been on here 9 months.

All I am saying is "big deal" MM has said something that has no direct bearing on anybody else other than herself and you are getting upset because she hasnt carried out her namechange.

Not really the worse thing she could do is it?

I post on this site for pleasure,and the time I spend and the rewards I receive are for my gratification,I have no personal motive to please,I gain nothing except a feel good factor..Posts on this thread have admitted personal gain,does that include a Thanks

homer_j_3

So make your issue with all the brokers that have done business with someone through this site not MM.

I am not one of those brokers and I openly admit I want this to stop for the pure reasons that you always will have people trying to argue your motives.

I think its time you put this to rest tbh as I believe that you will be seen to be getting personal even more so now you bring into the fact that you are trying to discredit her for accepting a small amount of business becasue she has been asked for help? Whats the next thing you are going to start on?

She has been open and honest as so have the other brokers on here who regularly contribute and at present no one is breaking forum rules if they accept the business if they are approached by an individual.

If you want brokers to be stopped from accepting business fullstop then please join me in asking that it does stop accross the board but please dont get into the scenario where you have to single someone out to make a point.

All the brokers on here that regularly contribute do not need the business and I feel that is the big difference between them and those that come on here touting for business and sending pms left right and centre. Once again a small minority affect the majority.

Im off to bed now so I will bid you a good night and hope that you can find it within yourself to take a step back and have a look at where you are going with your posts.