£140... gone

La_Tristesse_Durera

Fran wrote:

Well it could be understandable why he might have taken it, if you've not been paying your share for a "few months" and yet have cash lying around.

Well, seeing as I've done and paid £££'s towards the decorating of our house over the last year, my contribution has been way over the £400pm mark, thanks.

Fran wrote:

Also you said so you presumably think this is what's happened.

I said it's a possibility

going2die_rich

Double check your socks just in case!

It's worth a look if this is where you have hidden it in the past

La_Tristesse_Durera

going2die_rich wrote:

Have you checked to ensure it hasn't fallen behind the cupboard etc through any cracks? Double check the things in your cupboard as if it's clothes it's so easy to have got tangled in them, so make sure you turn them inside out if you haven't already.

If this is where you always keep your money, think back to the last time you went to put money it/see it and try and recall if you actually did put it back their as you may have found a new hiding place for it (thats happened to me a few times too - too many good hiding places in my room, lol)
or could have been distracted and shoved it somewhere else meaning to come back to it

Tried, looked everywhere, there's nowhere else that it could be... I have no idea... I've got to accept I'm not going to find it anywhere

Broken_hearted

Hugs its not the money but the feeling of being violated thats hurting you the most is it. Now you are unsure who you can trust. All I can do is send BIG HUGS. Maybe if you explain how hurt and confused this is making you someone might fess up.

La_Tristesse_Durera

Broken_hearted wrote:

Hugs its not the money but the feeling of being violated thats hurting you the most is it. Now you are unsure who you can trust. All I can do is send BIG HUGS. Maybe if you explain how hurt and confused this is making you someone might fess up.

I agree, £140 is a lot for me and I can go to my bank this afternoon and draw more money out... but it's the whole not being able to trust anyone thing now that's made it worse

Uniscots97

Let us know how you get on if you talk to your flatmates face to face

barnaby-bear

Fran wrote:

Well it could be understandable why he might have taken it, if you've not been paying your share for a "few months" and yet have cash lying around. Also you said so you presumably think this is what's happened.

Yeah I'd be hacked off if someone paying less than full share, yet going off on hols and leaving wads of cash lying around. I'd be tempted to assume they left the cash there to pay their arrears.

LewisC_2

barnaby-bear wrote:

Yeah I'd be hacked off if someone paying less than full share, yet going off on hols and leaving wads of cash lying around. I'd be tempted to assume they left the cash there to pay their arrears.

Even so, to take the cash is theft.

postingalwaysposting

La_Tristesse_Durera wrote:

Yeah I left it in me kitchen cupboard... no idea why, I quite often leave the odd bit of cash there out of habit really, I have done in the past, sometimes I leave it in a sock in my chest of drawers but this time in the kitchen... it's been safely in there for 2.5 weeks, and now 2 days before my holiday it goes

aww sorry, hun i hope you find it anyway

La_Tristesse_Durera

barnaby-bear wrote:

Yeah I'd be hacked off if someone paying less than full share, yet going off on hols and leaving wads of cash lying around. I'd be tempted to assume they left the cash there to pay their arrears.

As stated above; Well, seeing as I've done and paid £££'s towards the decorating of our house over the last year, my contribution has been way over the £400pm mark, thanks.

If we look at that approach I'll put £400pm into the house account, rather than say £380 and then spend £100pm on DIY materials... how selfish of me