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  • thanks Erics Mum

    #22

    neneromanova : no cards etc, and also took him off joint savings account, although only £25 in it!



    He never had any interest in the running of our home, as long as he had beer he woz happy, i had all the decisions to make.



    I'm also paying arrears on our electricity account too, and gas, and has stopped paying maintaince too! He says he loves the kids, but he doesn't seem to want to make sure they have a home!



    I'll get thru it all, feel alot better not having to worry about the loan anymore, it woz a major drain!
    Toughest form of moutain climbing is climbing out of a rut
    I WILL be debt free!
    I WILL be happy!
    red pen member 4
  • neneromanova
    neneromanova Posts: 3,051 Forumite
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    how much roughly was the loan amount you were paying if you don't mind me asking?
    What's yours is mine and what's mine is mine..
  • £184 a month
    Toughest form of moutain climbing is climbing out of a rut
    I WILL be debt free!
    I WILL be happy!
    red pen member 4
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,521 Forumite
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    And how many months did you pay that when you were not legally responsible for it?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • since he left in February,so about 5 months
    Toughest form of moutain climbing is climbing out of a rut
    I WILL be debt free!
    I WILL be happy!
    red pen member 4
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,521 Forumite
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    And who paid before he left?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • it came out of our joint account
    Toughest form of moutain climbing is climbing out of a rut
    I WILL be debt free!
    I WILL be happy!
    red pen member 4
  • well he's they've caught up with him about the loan repayments and he's not a happy bunny!

    on a good note, he did admit he hadn't reported me for housing benefit fraud! : )
    Toughest form of moutain climbing is climbing out of a rut
    I WILL be debt free!
    I WILL be happy!
    red pen member 4
  • sassyblue
    sassyblue Posts: 3,793 Forumite
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    well he's they've caught up with him about the loan repayments and he's not a happy bunny!

    Shame. It's called karma. :p

    Good luck in your new life x


    Happy moneysaving all.
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