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  • dealgirl
    dealgirl Posts: 24 Forumite
    I have no problem with giving the senders my address, its just that I don't want them delivered to my address because it's part of a surprise for someone I am living with, and so I dont want to give it away as they will get suspicious when i start getting loads of letters. (And before you ask, they always get to the post first because I am always out at that time).

    I think PO boxes are for six months minimum...and £60 is expensive to me.
  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
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    dealgirl wrote: »
    I have no problem with giving the senders my address, its just that I don't want them delivered to my address because it's part of a surprise for someone I am living with, and so I dont want to give it away as they will get suspicious when i start getting loads of letters. (And before you ask, they always get to the post first because I am always out at that time).

    I think PO boxes are for six months minimum...and £60 is expensive to me.

    http://www.royalmail.com/portal/rm/jump2?catId=400040&mediaId=48100695

    you only had to give the info
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,470 Forumite
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    dealgirl wrote: »
    I have no problem with giving the senders my address, its just that I don't want them delivered to my address because it's part of a surprise for someone I am living with, and so I dont want to give it away as they will get suspicious when i start getting loads of letters. (And before you ask, they always get to the post first because I am always out at that time).

    I think PO boxes are for six months minimum...and £60 is expensive to me.
    custardy wrote: »
    But will your co-habitee not be suspicious that there are NO letters for you during this period? I presume it's an all or nothing service?
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  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
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    Savvy_Sue wrote: »
    But will your co-habitee not be suspicious that there are NO letters for you during this period? I presume it's an all or nothing service?

    well unless the OP gets a PO box and supplies that exclusively to the sender theres nothing they can do about that
    depends what mail you get and your relationship
    my partner wouldnt notice what little mail i get
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,470 Forumite
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    custardy wrote: »
    well unless the OP gets a PO box and supplies that exclusively to the sender theres nothing they can do about that
    depends what mail you get and your relationship
    my partner wouldnt notice what little mail i get
    Was just pointing out a possible drawback for the OP's consideration. Didn't expect there to be a sensible alternative!

    And what's the difference between this and KeepSafe (for which RM charges!)?
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  • Premier_2
    Premier_2 Posts: 15,141 Forumite
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    Savvy_Sue wrote: »
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    And what's the difference between this and KeepSafe (for which RM charges!)?
    Keepsafe sends the mail to address ... eventually.
    There is no option to collect from a delivery office.
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  • dealgirl
    dealgirl Posts: 24 Forumite
    Thanks, the Royal Mail collect will be perfect! Thanks for the help everyone! :)
  • Dr_Cuckoo3
    Dr_Cuckoo3 Posts: 1,398 Forumite
    You could also use the Poste Restante service which is free




    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poste_restante




    http://www.royalmail.com/portal/rm/jump2?catId=83900761&mediaId=600012



    No minimum period and and you collect from Post Office counters - longer opening hours than delivery offices and you could use the PO near to a work address
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  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
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    Dr_Cuckoo3 wrote: »
    You could also use the Poste Restante service which is free




    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poste_restante




    http://www.royalmail.com/portal/rm/jump2?catId=83900761&mediaId=600012



    No minimum period and and you collect from Post Office counters - longer opening hours than some delivery offices and you could use the PO near to a work address

    my old DO was open 7am to 8pm weekdays
    7-3pm Saturdays ;)
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,470 Forumite
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    custardy wrote: »
    my old DO was open 7am to 8pm weekdays
    7-3pm Saturdays ;)
    Almost prepared to bet that is no longer the case! the one nearest work is mornings only, even during the week ... If a card is ever left about something which needs picking up (eg on a Saturday), it's usually delivered too late to get there in time!
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