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Farewell my friends

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  • ellay864
    ellay864 Posts: 3,827 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear this Steph, you must be devastated. Big hugs to you, look after yourself xx
  • Lexxi
    Lexxi Posts: 2,162 Forumite
    Big hugs from me too. There will be someone out there who makes you feel as amazing as you should feel and you'll wonder what you were ever doing with whatshisface!
    We're here if you need to talk, take care xx
  • screamer
    screamer Posts: 1,104 Forumite
    Aw Steph, I'm sorry to hear that!!

    Whether you feel like it or not, maybe getting rid of him is the best thing. Personally, if anyone tried to run me over they'd regret it for the rest of their lives. He sounds like a nsty piece of work and you're so lovely, you deserve a lot better.

    Please take care and you know we're all here for you if you need us! Big hugs. xx
    Yaaay, I finally conned a man into making a honest woman of me. Even more shocking is that I can put the words "Happily" and "Married" into the same sentence and not have life insurance on my mind when I say it ;-)
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    :hello: Steph,

    Sorry to hear this,take care and hopefuly see you sometime on here.We are all here should and when you need us.

    Take care of yourself :)

    *hugs*

    Katie
  • Horace
    Horace Posts: 14,426 Forumite
    Sorry to hear that you are leaving us Steph..no doubt we shall bump into you on other boards.

    This guy wasnt right for you and he is best off with his mum, trying to run the person he is supposed to love over is just not right.

    Keep your chin up - there is someone far better out there for you.

    Good luck xx
  • fly_dragon_fly
    fly_dragon_fly Posts: 2,110 Forumite
    oh honey i saw this earlier but have just come in, big hugs honey i'll chat to you on fb promise xxx
  • BarbC
    BarbC Posts: 153 Forumite
    So sorry to hear what youve been through, my heart goes out to you. Of course you will have so many feelings for him, but noone should make you feel so unhappy. All the best for the future, I hope you are happy again soon. Barb x
  • frannyann
    frannyann Posts: 10,970 Forumite
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    Oh Steph, just read this, big hugs from me and take very good care of yourself x
    :rotfl:Ahahah got my signature removed for claiming MSE thought it was too boring :rotfl:
  • MrsC....tobe
    MrsC....tobe Posts: 1,103 Forumite
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    Oh Steph, I didn't realise when you got in touch just how bad things had gotten.
    We are all here if you need us, although I know that coming to this board is going to be very painful, but you never know, there may come a time when a knight in shining armour sweeps you off your feet and you come back once again to be totally positive.

    Go out there, start afresh, get a new username and go onto all the different boards without having that constant reminder of what once could have been. You have been a star and an inspiration to many on here and you will be missed.

    See you around
    Mrs C

    PS - the offer of being there for the rant still stands x
    No longer ...tobe! Married 20/06/13MFW 2021 #117 £5415.40/£6000MFW 2022 #77 £3740/£3000MFW 2023 #82 £0/£3000
  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    Well he's been in touch and said he still loves me but he's felt like i've unwanted him for a while because I don't have a high sex drive and haven't come on to him in a while I musn't want him is his conclusion. I don't know how to get him to beleive me that I do still want him very much :(

    Thanks for all your lovely comments

    Steph xx
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