Farewell my friends

Stephb1986_2

Hi everyone,

Just wanted to post up and say goodbye as I need to leave this board for my own sanity. We broke up on Monday I've kept it to myself for a bit in hope that things would work out they did usually. But after tonights performance I think that it's the end for good.

I just wanted to wish you all the best for the future and I hope you all have happy marriges.

Sending you all love

Steph xx

sammy_wheeler

sorry to hear that steph
wish you all the best in the future
look after yourself xxx

bigmomma051204

Oh my God, couldn't believe it when i read your post! Sooo sorry to hear that... you poor thing. Keep ur chin up - hope it all works out for you

bubbles0169

aw sorry babe, i cant imagine much worse to happen when youve planned so much tbh
i do hope youll be back in the future sometime though!
remeber MSE is what i call a black hole, its not just the wedding board theres hundreds of different things to look at and keep you sane-ish! x

sezzie24

That's sad to hear Steph. Hope you are ok.

Sending you a big hug xx

hannahjex

Really sorry to hear that, Steph. Hope you're coping. All the best. xx

*Jellie*

So sorry Steph. Take care and hope to see you on some of the other boards x

MissPixie

I am really sorry to hear that, take care of yourself x

Stephb1986_2

He tried to run me over last night so I'm not going back for more sadly.

It all started with his mum ignoring me last week I spoke to him about it and he changed the subject into me not going near him sexually and that i think he's a fat ugly pig and he's disgusting which I really don't think.

I tried to convince him and hadn't spoke to him since Tuesday because of it so I thought going last night I had give him enough space to think things through so we could sort it out but obviously not.

I sat there for 3 hours hoping he would come back he didn't so I put all my stuff in my car including my bike and mirror and anything else I could manage.

I've not heard from him since about 7pm last night I came home at half 8 last night still nothing. I've not text him or anything since I've just left him. My mum seems to think that he will come back in a few days/ week or so but I don't think so.

I am totally crushed.

Thanks for all your kind messages

Steph xx

jackieglasgow

I'm sorry to hear that you are so sad, Staph. Sometimes these things work out for the best. Take care of yourself, and take as many hugs from your mum as possible. Would you want him back, now, after all this has happened? Look after yourself, wallow in your sadness for a wee while, then move on.

bigmomma051204

Stephb1986 wrote: »

He tried to run me over last night so I'm not going back for more sadly.

It all started with his mum ignoring me last week I spoke to him about it and he changed the subject into me not going near him sexually and that i think he's a fat ugly pig and he's disgusting which I really don't think.

I tried to convince him and hadn't spoke to him since Tuesday because of it so I thought going last night I had give him enough space to think things through so we could sort it out but obviously not.

I sat there for 3 hours hoping he would come back he didn't so I put all my stuff in my car including my bike and mirror and anything else I could manage.

I've not heard from him since about 7pm last night I came home at half 8 last night still nothing. I've not text him or anything since I've just left him. My mum seems to think that he will come back in a few days/ week or so but I don't think so.

I am totally crushed.

Thanks for all your kind messages

Steph xx

I have to say Steph, that it sounds like he is a dangerous person for you to be around at the moment and although you will obviously and understandably feel awful, it sounds like you may be better off without someone who tries to run you over... I know it is a horrible way to think, but if he would do that before you get married and are totally tied to him what would he be like after.... He also sounds a bit controlling in his comments about how you won't be with him sexually, it sounds rather like he is justifying his nasty actions by making out that its YOU who has the problem with him, etc etc
Keep your chin up and you WILL be okay xxxx