Money & Divorce

ninky_2

Bubby wrote: »

The op's partner and his ex don't have some sort of magical bond which means they have to have any sort of on going relationship but they do have a child and as long as they both act in the best interests of the child then that is the right thing to do!

out of interest, if your current husband left you because he fell in love with someone else and realised what he thought was love was actually not, would you feel it was fair enough?

Bubby

ninky wrote: »

out of interest, if your current husband left you because he fell in love with someone else and realised what he thought was love was actually not, would you feel it was fair enough?

Of course I wouldn't but thats life I certainly wouldn't want him staying with me because we are married and he has to. Sometimes people change that is a fact of life and whilst I would never condone cheating I do believe that you only live once and when it comes to love sometimes you have to be selfish to be happy. When it comes to children I have never and would never use them as a weapon but that is because I love them more than I love anything or anyone and they have and will always come first:)

Being married doesn't make you someone's property!